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Best Way To Find A Boy Friend???

in a gay bar. of course

I can't get into bars yet :(

I only went to a bar in charlotte but the guys were too busy watching the stripper boys on the poles. And then at that club I was too nervous to talk to the sexy staff bear guy. But someone told me it never hurts to compliment anyone or say a friendly hello >_>"
 
I met my first bf at a gay bar in a small town. It didn't last.
I met my husband through mutual friends. We've just celebrated 31 years together.
 
Well, meet people!!

Meeting gay guys can be challenging though if you don't have much of a gay circle. I met my first bf on yahoo dating, and my current one in a gay chatroom.

I think the friend-of-a-friend thing works much better than meeting guys online, so make some friends, who just happen to be gay.

And yeah, try lovetastic.com, I met a HOT, intelligent guy their once, but i was going to leave the US in a couple of weeks at the time. sigh.

-cb
 
You might try meeting guys who already have boyfriends.

Then all you have to do is steal one of theirs.... :D
 
Hey since we are all whores and since wanting a bf makes you emotionally dependant. I say put on some really tight hotpants and then go to any gay bar and show your goods.

After around 60 or 70 complete idiots you will find a guy that make your toes curl and your eyes cloudy. Then about 60 or 70 more later you will find one that feels the same way.

Now other peoples advice above on activity driven clubs is good for areas that have a good measure of gay community but lets face it many places in this country do not.

Clubs seem nice because so many gay men flock on a good night to the place but most are clique driven if they have any worth and the loners unfortunately usually have issues. the interent is a trap because so many lie about them selves. You might get 50 percent (at best) who look like they do online and 25% of them have the same personality that you liked in the first place.

So all that said makes it sound pretty hopeless. Yet if you do the things you like in life you will find someone eventually.
 
Meny years ago I was having troubles in the bf department and I had asked a friend about getting a boy friend. His advice to me ''Don't look for it, it will happen when your not looking for it and least expect it." So I took his advice and durring the holiday season of 91' I was dating a guy and that Christmas eve I met my partner of 17yrs.
Maybe you can give this a shot and see how it works out for you, hopefull it will work in your favour as well. Still continue to meet people like the others have suggested but don't look or try for anything other then a possible friendship, you may end up with more in the long run.

GOOD LUCK!
 
things I would say.

1. Dont be desparate
2. Dont be in a rush
3. Dont act desparate
4. Take your time and meet new people, find things in common, dont jump on the first one you see.
 
I quit looking for it about 3 years ago.. and guess what. I still aint looking for it.. :badgrin: However, first gift I'm giving my future bf is a street directory cause he's obviously shit at asking for directions.

LOL. Are you sure you gave it up?
 
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