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Best Way to Reject Somebody?

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I've never been a bar or club scene person, so I'm wondering what's the most humane way to let guys know that you are not interested?
 
Smile friendly and try to get out of reach.
If he insists. Thank you, I'm not interested right now.
 
Nothing better than just being honest, and polite.

Just say, one of the following : No thanks not looking for anything

Thanks but not interested

No thanks I with someone

No thanks I'm here with someone

No thanks I have a bf/partener

But if they get rude then a simple: Leave me the fuck alone
 
The most awkward situation isn't the direct request it's the guy who is interested and just sits at the bar, strikes up a conversation and has that hopeful tone in his voice. The vest way out of that after a short amount of banter is an "excuse me" and pick up your drink and move.
 
Start going to the bar and see if you have to reject people in the first place. If that's the case, then ask.
 
Am I misreading or misinterpreting your question? I thought you were not into the bar/club scene and are concerned about telling your buddies you are notinterested in that. But most of the replies so far seem to talk in terms of rejecting the person and not just the bar/club scene. No problem if it is just the bar scene - you say you dont like the atmosphere, or the drinking or the smoking whatever. If it is the person, then be honest and tell him that you are not interested in the same things he is.(*8*)
 
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