Better late then never?

[Pringle]

Hi there welcome to JUB.

Lots of info there. You are still very young and so don't concern yourself with that closet door just yet until you are ready. Concentrate on enjoying life.

You give lots of details but you don't indicate what you actually want to get out of life. It is much better to concentrate on that rather than worrying about the stuff that you think is wrong.

Enjoy your time at JUB and use the "safe discussion" forums if you ever want advice or people to sound of to.

 

[buzzj]

Thanks for introducing yourself! I hope you make a lot of good friends and contacts here!

 

[WYSIWYG]

Dude your too young to feel and say the things that you have said! Just because your friends have not done will in relationships does not mean you will not! Handosme and gugly are two words that are subjective as to the person looking at you! One may think your ugly and another my think your handsome and sexy! I would not 'judge' if you are one other the other. You would be better off thinking what can you bring to a frienship and do you have the capacity to love that person and hin back to you!

When my bf dumped me last July, I thought it as all over for me being the age that I am! But when I least expected it, I found another bf, and he loves me for who I am! Age, body shape etc., does not matter to him. What matters to him is that we love one another and we share our lives together. And we both love to share the same bed, and wake up each morning saying goos morning and knowing we love one another!

Your 18 and have a whole life ahead of you! You do not know what the future will hold for you and what relationships you could or will have!

As mentioned, put those negative thoughts behind you and concentrate on your good points and what you want to accomplish in life and who you might want to love!

 

[Horschallen]

There are many higher education institutions that will admit candidates with GEDs. Go for it!

 

[mike_n_herrin]

hum....well i think untill you don't take some steps to make your life more like how you would like it to be, you'll be unhappy with it. now having said that, i think it's important to say that getting your GED after dropping out was a great step. not everyone has to be college bound, even these days. but for happiness you do need to be comfortable with who you are and where you are in the world. it doesn't sound like you have both of those squared away at the movement.

remember just because folks in high school didn't have relationships turn out well...doesn't mean they never do. i mean honestly how many folks do you who who are like married, ended up with who ever they were dating in high school? i only know one or two couples that did that.

i think joining this site and posting is a good move on your part. there are so many people here who are willing to listen and talk and maybe provide some advise to at least let you know you are not the only one in this situation. as you certainly aren't.

anyway...smile for a little while today, it'll make you feel better.

- mikey

 

[Kurn]

Thanks for introducing yourself, BJM!!


And by the way, take care of yourself [start with YOU].
You're not bad-looking and you're not ugly.
Intention is the most important action of the day! Make it a good one from when you first get up. Work on making your intentions GOOD and things have a tendency to fall into place!

'Scuse my advice. Just want everyone to be less frustrated--'nuff o' that these days, y'know?

Again, welcome!

 

[Zeremonie]

Welcome to JUB. You sound like a young man that needs more strength and courage. If you haven't already, I really hope that you will take a good look at this forum here. Everyone can find happiness in their lives but you got to work on what's inside of you right now. Maybe go back and get more education. Focus on things you enjoy doing that will build self-confidence - even if it means you end up taking up knitting! LOL

Good luck and I hope to see you posting more.

Zeremonie

 

[BrandonSBCA]

Welcome to JUB. Enjoy posting on the boards.

 

[Eagle653]

Hi and a Big Welcome to JUB! Hope you enjoy it and lot and post often. Your favorite colors are black and red? Wow, a guy after my own heart. I have two rooms in my house that are exclusively black and red.

Anywow, I want to echo what many have said here and say don't give up on an education. You have a GED which is as good as a high school diploma in getting admitted to a school beyond high school. There are tech schools, community colleges and univerisites. If a 4-year college/university isn't your thing, you can still go on. There are countless avenues for you. The skills you learn now will not only last you a lifetime, but will increase your salary tremendously.

Anyway, welcome aboard!!!

 

[gayeyes]

You don't look even remotely ugly to me.

Ditto.

Also, did you take your own pictures? If you did, or even if you did not but came up with the ideas for the shots, let me tell you, I think you're quite talented. Some of those shots are very well composed and very interesting. I particularly liked the one labeled "floor shot".

Hang in there, BJM. As others have said, you have all your life in front of you and you seem very well equiped, on several fronts, to make a great one out of it.

 

[snapcat]

Welcome Aboard!

Take a look around and have some fun!

 

[Bashful]

WELCOME!! I hope you enjoy it here as much as well all do!! I also hope you will explore the forums and start posting in them! Have fun!

 

[dave_63]

Hi BJMO420

to JUB!