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Bi but questioning

Am not attracted to men. I don’t look at a guy and think whether he’s hot or not. Don’t get any excitement being around other men. Having said that - I am turned on by a nice shaved cock and balls. I could suck dick all day. And I love the taste and texture of a man’s cum in my mouth or on my lips. I have bottomed several times and totally enjoyed it. Though I pride myself in being a good cocksucker and bottom, it’s always more about my excitement in the moment. After the deed is done don’t want to hang around for long.
Same
 
Hey guys anyone else feel in everyway shape and form that you are gay BUT dont really find yourself checking men out at all in public? I mean I look at woman more in public but in my head I literally only picture myself with a man, like forever. I only fantasize about men, only watch gay porn, only imagine myself with a man, I just dont look at them in public at all. Anyone else feel this way? Am I wierd?? Lol hit me up guys, im always up for a good chat, or fuck hehe
No, you're not weird at all for having a particular kind of attraction. Your attraction to men seems to be about relationships and physical contact, rather than the outward visual appeal which for you may be superficial and less meaningful. There's absolutely nothing weird about a type of attraction that's right for you. I hope you're not too hard on yourself or doubting yourself because of it.
 
Some gay guys don't understand that there are guys like me who are very much into cock but are repulsed by guys in every other way sexually. I have a gay friend who told me that I wasn't gay or even bi, that I just had a cock fetish. I'm into cock so I would never deny being gay or bi, but the fact is everything about a guy other than a hard cock, physically turns me off.
 
Some gay guys don't understand that there are guys like me who are very much into cock but are repulsed by guys in every other way sexually. I have a gay friend who told me that I wasn't gay or even bi, that I just had a cock fetish. I'm into cock so I would never deny being gay or bi, but the fact is everything about a guy other than a hard cock, physically turns me off.
You're exactly like me! We just love cock 😋
 
I guess I understand as I used to think that way. Women are beautiful but it is not what I desire in a relationship anymore. Some guys I’ll never be attracted to because there is no attraction and that’s fine. But, I’ve realized the type guy I am attracted to and the more I know that the more I look at guys differently than I ever did. I can see through things that I used to not and now I am looking at some guys in different ways. I want a guy that is somewhat masculine yet is also tender. Not feminine but not moncho either. A guy that takes care of himself athletic but more of a swimmers build. Well groomed and well put together. I know it narrows things down, but I know what I like and what I want. I can now look at guys and see their ass in a pair of jeans and glance at their crotch and just know. But, It’s not just that. I look at eyes and I know. I want to be able to look at them in the eyes and kiss deeply too. So, a masculine athletic swimmers build with a tender sweet soul. I want a full relationship. It used to be all about the cock, now it’s all about the full package because I want more in a loving relationship that is also physical. Yes I want that cock and I truly have that deep desire that started with a cock and cum fetish. The switch flipped for me one day and I simple realized that I have always wanted the physical part of a gay relationship, but the man comes with that beautiful cock and ass that I truly desire. So, the desire got deeper and I realized I am gay not just curious. I now want the man fully because I know without the relationship and respect the rest would not have any meaning. It is still about the cock and cum, because that is all I want now physically. A female can’t give me that. I want it all to share in a full versatile relationship. Someone that cares deeply about me and wants to please me as I want to fully please him too. I can’t wait because I’m going to be very good at it. I am happy that I finally know who I am. I just wish I would have realized it and acted on it years ago instead of bottling it up. It’s all about the cock and all that comes with it. I think that is why I’m gay and not bi or just curious anymore…
 
I understand and can relate. I’m not really into men in public either. However, all of my thoughts and fantasies have always been with men. I watched some heterosexual porn only to find myself focusing on the man’s cock. So, I started watching gay porn and now it is exclusively what I watch. I’m not aroused at all watching heterosexual porn. Though I agree that women are beautiful to look at and I notice females in public. As a general rule, I do not check out men in public. Though sometimes I may think, what would he look like naked, what would his cock look like? Maybe that came from the gym shower over the years. There were always guys that I was attracted to in the shower and then seeing them with clothes on, not so much. I’ve never been to a gay bar but I think I would if I knew of any. My curiosity is killing me. I’ve always wanted to suck cock and eat cum from a very early age. Never understood that, but I still want it more than ever. Maybe if I finally experience the gay sex that I so desire, I might view guys differently in public?
"Maybe if I finally experience the gay sex that I so desire, I might view guys differently in public?"
It could be. After some encounters in the bathroom stalls, where I got to chance to fondle guys asses, I'm much more focused on the nice guys asses even on the street...
 
I have a gay friend who told me that I wasn't gay or even bi, that I just had a cock fetish. I'm into cock so I would never deny being gay or bi, but the fact is everything about a guy other than a hard cock, physically turns me off.

Much of this comes dow to the true definition of "gay" and "bisexual"
I think it has more to do with not so much as who you are capable of having sex with, but who you are capable of falling in love with.
I've had sex with women in the past - and I wouldn't rule it out TOTALLY in the future.
Does this mean that this homo is actually bisexual ?

Not a chance !

Your gay mate is CORRECT.
 
Hey guys anyone else feel in everyway shape and form that you are gay BUT dont really find yourself checking men out at all in public? I mean I look at woman more in public but in my head I literally only picture myself with a man, like forever. I only fantasize about men, only watch gay porn, only imagine myself with a man, I just dont look at them in public at all. Anyone else feel this way? Am I wierd?? Lol hit me up guys, im always up for a good chat, or fuck hehe
I look at women only. The only way I would look at a man is with his cock hanging out! Uncut and I want it in my mouth and ass. Huge and uncut (or cut) and he owns me.
 
"Maybe if I finally experience the gay sex that I so desire, I might view guys differently in public?"
It could be. After some encounters in the bathroom stalls, where I got to chance to fondle guys asses, I'm much more focused on the nice guys asses even on the street...
Same here. I watch hetero porn and I love it. But if the guy has a nice cock, that's all I look at. I then switch to gay cocksucking and fucking with LOTS OF CUM. I need cum like I need the air I breathe.
 
You probably need to stop porn or masturbating. You can't be not attracted to men if your sucking. Don't be using men if your not even attracted get a dildo
No umbrage intended, but you should stop playing Sigmund Freud, bro. Stop telling people what they can and can't be. Furthermore, why can't he "use" men? Me and my lovers use each other all the time. If I want to get fucked and my man says, "I fucked you for 4 hours last time. It's my turn to get fucked. And leave a nice load while you're at it." Much as I want his cocko inside me, I smile and fuck him. And enjoy the hell out of it! We also have no problem sharing each other when there's more than 2 guys or there's a woman who wants us both to do her and each other. We're adults. It's called NSA.
 
I guess, I have to ask, what do you look at specifically when you look at the women, are you looking at the size / shape of their tits or butt? When you fantasize about men, what specifically are you imaging doing with them? Sucking their cock or being fucked or fucking them?
As far as weird, NO, I don't think it weird as anything about sexuality is not weird. Maybe more unusual but honestly, we are all different from each other to some extent.
Nailed it, bro!
 
No umbrage intended, but you should stop playing Sigmund Freud, bro. Stop telling people what they can and can't be. Furthermore, why can't he "use" men? Me and my lovers use each other all the time. If I want to get fucked and my man says, "I fucked you for 4 hours last time. It's my turn to get fucked. And leave a nice load while you're at it." Much as I want his cocko inside me, I smile and fuck him. And enjoy the hell out of it! We also have no problem sharing each other when there's more than 2 guys or there's a woman who wants us both to do her and each other. We're adults. It's called NSA.
He has no attraction for men and this is clearly a porn addiction
 
Some gay guys don't understand that there are guys like me who are very much into cock but are repulsed by guys in every other way sexually. I have a gay friend who told me that I wasn't gay or even bi, that I just had a cock fetish. I'm into cock so I would never deny being gay or bi, but the fact is everything about a guy other than a hard cock, physically turns me off.
I know the feeling. I once would never kiss a guy or rim a guy or let a guy fuck me. Over the years that has changed. Now I'm into anything and everything (within reason) one can do with a man. Kissing was the last thing to change. A gay lover said to me, "You'll take my cock in your mouth. You let me cum in your mouth. You love suckinng my balls. And yet you don't want to kiss me? Try it. You're an oral guy. You'll like it." So I kissed him and he was right. Now I love kissing my men. (That he was a great kisser didn't hurt.)
 
I used to only want cock and cum and also thought I would never want to kiss a guy. I never considered it. But, somewhere on my journey a switch has flipped too. I can’t imagine not kissing a guy that I’m having sex with. I agree, if we are sucking each others cocks and cumming in each others mouth, I want to share that with deep,kissing . Of course it has to be the right guy. There are guys that I’m not at all attracted to and I will not be sharing anything with those guys. But, I am hopeful to find the right guy. And there will be lots of kissing before anything else. It will make the sex so much deeper. I’m looking forward to it…
 
I used to only want cock and cum and also thought I would never want to kiss a guy. I never considered it. But, somewhere on my journey a switch has flipped too. I can’t imagine not kissing a guy that I’m having sex with. I agree, if we are sucking each others cocks and cumming in each others mouth, I want to share that with deep,kissing . Of course it has to be the right guy. There are guys that I’m not at all attracted to and I will not be sharing anything with those guys. But, I am hopeful to find the right guy. And there will be lots of kissing before anything else. It will make the sex so much deeper. I’m looking forward to it…
I'm with you. I'll suck and fuck with most any guy (within reason - no obese, no bad hygiene, etc.), but some guys just do nothing for me. And some guys just give off that good vibe - very sexy.
 
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