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i consider myself straight although recently i have a mad urge to fuck my friend who recently came out as gay.
i would not usually find him or any guy sexy but since i heard he was gay i really wanted him. my problem is i dont know how he'd react i know that he is attracted to me but i dont really know him very well and i dont want to offend him and im not looking for anything other than some fun. i would be willing to let him do anything he wants to me and vice versa. if anyone has anyadvice id really appreciate it. i had considered inviting him round and just walking into my room naked though that doesnt really give him an option to say no so id be uncomfortable with that. would you be offended if a friend of yours just expected you to be up for no strings attached fun?
any help would be recieved gratefully
untill then i guess this is my best option*|*
 
Dude, you have the "upper hand" here. You already know he's gay, and apparently you know he's interested in you, or atleast you feel that way.

Just tell him what you told us. Maybe have him over, just the two of you, have a few beers (if you're old enough and all that), and ask him what he'd think about helping you experiment a little. If he says no then no big deal, you remain friends and move on. If he says yes, he already knows all you want to do is play a little.

He'll probably be willing, so grow a set and talk to him like a man, and a friend.

And post what happens! hahahahaha Good luck man
 
You don't need the beer. Careful, though. Sex can lead to romantic feelings.
 
Agreed. You have the advantage. You know he's gay and into you. And you want to fuck him. Just ask him out or over the house.
 
Say something like this: "I'm kind of curious, I was thinking about experimenting a little . You want to fool around? No strings attached, just for fun".
Chances are that he is going to be so shocked that a good looking straight boy is asking him to fool around that he will be very nervous. Give him time to think about it. Let us know what happens. ..|
 
You might want to tell him the truth--"I'm bi-curious & I'm attracted to you". What have you got to lose?
 
Say something like this: "I'm kind of curious, I was thinking about experimenting a little . You want to fool around? No strings attached, just for fun".
Chances are that he is going to be so shocked that a good looking straight boy is asking him to fool around that he will be very nervous. Give him time to think about it. Let us know what happens. ..|

There it is, I like that. Keep it simple and to the point.

And for the other poster, I agree that beer isn't necessary. For me, i like to have a few beers anyway, and after a couple (not to get drunk, just ease the tension), I'd feel better. YRMV
 
There it is, I like that. Keep it simple and to the point.

And for the other poster, I agree that beer isn't necessary. For me, i like to have a few beers anyway, and after a couple (not to get drunk, just ease the tension), I'd feel better. YRMV

Even one beer is good enough for me. I don't really need beer if this is gonna happen, but if someone offers and I'm not driving, why not? And the whole thinking that the beer will ease tension...pretty psychological...makes you even more calm I guess.
 
thanks everyone who offered advice
i spoke to my friend on the phone this morning (he was at brighton pride) i said hi and that we should meet up some time i didn't really say anything else but i dropped hints (i said he should've called me to come to the pride with him ETC)
i also ended it with we should meet up some time
i'm gunna call him again some time, i should've been more direct but i chickened out lol
will keep you updated
 
im bi and if i had a hot straight friend trying to seduce me i think it'd be really hot if (he) you would walk in a room shirtless with basketball shorts on then offer up a beer. Hahah, just start flirting.

it doesn't get much hotter than that.
 
I agree w/ xdude....Creating a situation where you can show off part of your body, but not totally nude, will give him a chance to see how hot you are...so depending on what you're into, go swimming together, relax in a hot tub, go for a jog, sunbathe, play some hoops, etc. Nothing like a sexy, sweaty shirtless str8 guy to get a bi guy all steamed up!!

Now that you know that he's been to Pride, you can use that as a conversation starter as well to ask what it was like, if he saw any guys he thought were hot, how you wanted to go, etc.

Best of luck!
 
i too had a best friend who came out and the following is a true event of what happened next, i had never thought about gay men before then once he told me i got curious.

My mate Ken was three years older than me, he had just bought his first flat. Having just settled in he was throwing a party on the Saturday night. Ken was 20 and very handsome, he seldom had the same women more than twice. A party at his place would be sure to have lots of beautiful women, so I thought I’d find someone stupid enough to go out with me. I had known Ken three years I met him at the gym where we both worked out, we spotted each other on the weights, we soon became best mates.

I spruced up, best party clothes, Ken said, the party would start around 8 o’clock, so I went to the vintners with my fake I.D. and bought a couple bottles of Hungary’s Sauvignon, well it was cheap. I arrived and the house was quiet, I knocked and Ken opened the door, he invited me in and took the bottles.

‘You’re the first’, he said, ‘Drink’?

‘Glass of wine’, I replied, ‘Not the stuff I brought’. we both laughed.

We sat and chatted, 8 o’clock came and went, that was when Ken told me that there was no party, he was being very mysterious he said he just wanted to talk. He told me he was bisexual and he had feelings for me, he would understand if I wanted to leave. I told him it was ok, but I could not have anything but a friendship with him.

He understood, and promised never to bring up the subject again.

As we drank my mind kept coming back to what Ken had said, so I began asking him questions about bisexuality. We drank and he was honest about his feelings. I asked him about how it felt to touch another mans cock, to hold it and to suck on it. If I was being honest I was more than a little turned on and when he responded by standing and loosening his trousers dropping them to the floor then taking my hand and placing it on his cock. It felt so hot in my hand silky, I pulled the foreskin down revealing the mauve shiny glans with a semi clear fluid seeping from it. I let him go and drained my glass.

Ken reached for my belt, he unbuckled it I sat back watching him as he pulled the zip down revealing my pale blue briefs, which held my 6 inch erection, the material was stained wet with the serum seeping from my cock. I lifted allowing Ken to remove both my trousers and briefs, I sat naked on the sofa, Ken lightly stroked my cock as he nuzzle my neck, holding my head he turned me to find my mouth he kissed me soft gentle, his finger tips barely brushing my hard cock, which jerked as he touched it. I opened my mouth and accepted him tongue it tasted of red white, he broke the kiss long enough to pull my shirt off. He cupped my balls in his hand as he licked my nipples, my cock was dripping with fluid my foreskin peeled back allowing the slick head to peep out, Ken slipped onto the floor between my legs he used the back of his hands to stroke up my inner thighs and following with his tongue and mouth, he sucked on my flesh as he moved, he lapped at the join of my legs to my torso, I could barely breathe I desperately wanted to grab my cock and pump it but Ken was still teasing me.

Then he licked the length of my cock, the feeling was to much to take and my cock jerked and three long jets of cum shot into the air landing on my chest and stomach, I was so embarrassed, but Ken just lapped the puddles of cum then enveloped my cock with his mouth, it was intense but my cock remained stiff as Ken sucked dipping his head on my cock., he then released my cock and poured a little white wine on my erection, before sucking on it again he sucked pumped and poured wine on my for the next 7 minutes, when I grabbed a handful of the sofa cushions and my cock once again shot a load this time right into Ken’s mouth. Ken sucked and lick on my now deflating cock, till I was completely drained.

Ken stood and taking my hand he pulled me off the sofa, leading me to the bathroom, he switched on the shower, as the water heated he removed his remaining clothes, when he stepped out of his silk boxer shorts I stared at his cock, I had seen him naked in the gym changing rooms but one never stares, so this was my first time looking directly at it, it was bigger then mine and hooked to the left. He took my hand and led me into the cabinet, he rubbed some shower gel over my body, he washed my cock and balls thoroughly, then he turned me round and washed my back before he bent me over and drizzled some more gel between my bum cheeks, he ran his hand into my ass crease sliding the lather over and round my secret hole, then I felt his finger pressing into my ass gently but firmly he jiggled it in and out adding more gel until he was satisfied. He then handed me the gel, I so wanted to do this, I rubbed him all over his deep chest and tight abs until I finally held his cock in my slippery hands I rubbed him, his cock grew in my hands, he turned and I washed his back and ass, once finished we both stood under the shower ensuring we were rinsed off. Stepping out of the cabinet he handed me a towel and I dried off finally wrapping the towel round my waist, Ken dropped his towel and lead me into the bedroom, once in the room Ken pulled my towel off and took me in his arms and pressed himself against me his cock rubbed against mine, he was fully erect as his tongue slid between my lips, teasing my tongue after several minutes kissing me he hauled me to my knees and moved behind me as he took a small bottle from the bedside drawer, he drizzled the cold liquid between my ass cheeks he massaged the oil into my crack and round my anal opening, he smeared the outside of my anal ring them pushed his finger past the ring into my ass, he drizzled more oil round his finger and worked it inside me, it was a wonderful feeling having my bum played with, Ken withdrew his finger and drizzled more oil on his cock, rubbing it over his cock then he positioned it at my asshole and pressed his big cocks head into my tight ring. He slid in until he had the whole length of his cock inside me he held it for 20 or so seconds then he moved his hips drawing it out till only the big head remained, the he inched forward filling my tight ass, he moved slowly at first occasionally dripping more oil between us lubrication his massive tool. I wrapped my hand round my semi erect cock stretching and relaxing it it soon became fully erect, I moved my hand on it in time with Ken’s cock pumping inside me. After some time Ken forced me flat on the bed, my ass tightened on him as he thrust harder, his flesh smacked against mine as he drove to his orgasm, he gave three long hard thrusts where he buried his cock as deep as he could, his cock spurted hot creamy cum into my bowels, my cock pressed on the bed squirted spreading my cum onto the sheet. Ken drew his cock slowly out of my butt, his cum dribbled from my stretched asshole running down to my balls. Ken rolled back on the bed and I crawled round and lay in his arms I felt safe, I fell asleep as he stroked my hair.

When I woke I was in the bed by myself, I flung the covers back and went down stairs wrapped in the towel I had discarded last night, ken was sitting in the kitchen drinking coffee, he asked me if I was ok.

I was a little embarrassed, I had just been laid by my best friend, but Ken had opened my eyes to a new experience and I admitted that I had enjoyed every minute.

Ken made breakfast and then we went back to bed, where I made love to him, I slide down the bed and lifting his big cock in my hands I licked it all over, his cock grew in my hand as I licked round the big bulbous head, then I sucked him into my mouth, Ken lay back watching me as I sucked and pumped, with my other hand I rubbed a finger over his anal bud. Saliva from my sucking ran down between his ass cheeks lubing him up, I slipped one finger into his male pussy as I jacked my finger in and out of his sweet butt, Ken blasted my mouth with his cum, I held it in my mouth an climbed up to share a cum kiss. The remainder of the day we spent sucking, fucking and holding each other. We had sex in the shower, in the bed and in front of the TV watching football. I went home Monday morning.

The following weekend Ken arranged a blind date for me, she was gorgeous 5ft 8ins with flame red hair, green eyes and a great figure, a girl I never thought would consider sex with me but she spent the night with me in Ken’s spare room while he had her friend a small breasted blonde a little over 5ft. When they left in the morning I jumped into Ken’s bed where we spent the entire morning sucking and fucking. We spend most weekends together, occasionally Ken arranges girls for us, but mostly we go out and fuck in various places, parks, pubs, streets, the more danger the better the sex.
 
again thanks for everyones replys
ok so heres what happened,
i phoned him back and invited him over to mine to watch a game of football the following week (after my last post)
when he got here i was kinda nervous and but we sat and watched the game with a few beers (we support the teams who were playing eachother and i thought that'd be an icebreaker and provide opportunity for banter)
however nothing really happened except i did notice a connection.
although i did invite him round again and this is where it gets interesting.

i was alittle angry at myself for such a poor performance last time (or lack of performance lol) so when he came over (again) i made sure i was prepared.
he came over and i let him in but told him i had just finished my work out in my home gym so he waited in the lounge while i showered. Then when i was in my bathroom i phoned my landline using my mobile so i could run down in a towel covering myself. as i answered the phone i exaggerated the difficulty of covering myself up with the towel with just one hand.
As i thumbled around "trying" to cover myself i pretended to need a pen and paper which gave me an excuse to turn my back on him and slightly bend over. i was getting really turned on by the fact that i knew he was looking at me but trying to pretend he wasn't.
When i had finished the fake phone call i said sorry i had to barge in and he said he didnt mind, he was noticing that i was slightly erect, but decided not to mention it
Then i looked down at him on my sofa and said the bravest thing i that i could say. "i'm sure you didnt mind me all wet and in a towel" with a cheeky grin he said "barely in a towel," i smiled and said "i saw you looking, its ok" and i lowered the towel revealing my now almost full erection.
he looked at me and said "wow" kindly, i sat next to him and explained that i was attracted to him but did not want anything emotional but before i could finish explaining he kissed me and reached for my penis. it felt really good as he moved to kissing my neck and massaging my penis. i tried to pull his shirt off but he was kissing my neck and it was hard so i just sat and enjoyed it. he laid me down and i was able to pull his shirt off revealing his chest which was slim but muscular and he took my penis in his hand and started to blow me. it felt really good and i put my hands on the back of his head and started to moan his name. after a while i stopped him and pulled his jeans down to reveal his erection in his boxers. i pulled them down enough to give his penis a little kiss, just enough to tease him. i told him to wait there while i went into the other room where i got lubricant and condoms.

i came back and he was lying on his back on my sofa with a huge erection, but i told him to get up and take his boxers off with authority, he did and i slid a condom on his penis and wanting to experiment i lied down on my back and put my legs up.
i could see that he was surprised and excited to fuck my ass but he just gently massaged it with his finger sliding it in and out trying to widen it and adding lube, i had been fingered abit by girls and myself before so it was so strange however when he licked my ass that was a weird and wonderfull feeling, he was really good and i was really horny so i moaned "fuck me, fuck me now"
and he did, gently at first trying not to cause any pain it felt really good but i soon was moaning "faster! harder!" it was so good to moan like a girl i felt sexy.
and he did fuck me faster, pushing into me deep, slapping my ass with his hand and calling me a slut (i made him call me a slut ;) ). i was jerking off while he was fucking me and it felt really great but he stopped to suck me off after a while. he sucked me well while playing with my balls, then we moved to a 69 position and i sucked him which was surprisingly good, a dirty feeling that made me feel naughty that i liked, i also managed to play with his ass as he was on top. i came in his mouth and he tried to swallow but he was fighting gravity and it went down my leg abit after that he jerked himself off and we both had showers.
we talked about it and agreed that it was be just between us and a strictly casual thing and i have no regrets
once again thanks for all the advice
 
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