Bi for Sex?

[Reality101]

Are you a guy or do you know any guys who only think of men sexually and are not interested in being in a romantic relationship with a man? What are your thoughts on this mentality? I just recently identified myself as bisexual, but I'm not sure what this means for me. I can't imagine being in a relationship with a guy but then again just 5 months ago I couldn't imagine having sex with a guy and I have so i don't know.

 

[SilverWolf]

I am a guy that is sexually and romantically/emotionally attracted to men. I can easily see myself in a marriage with a man just as easily as with a woman.

 

[Reality101]

There are numerous threads on this, and guys run the gamut. SilverWolf is one extreme. I'm the other one. Sex with guys is, for me, strictly a hedonistic pursuit. I'm into it for the sexual pleasure. Arousal and orgasm. I've never had even the slightest feeling of love or romance toward a male sexual partner the way I do towards a woman - I'm just not wired that way. I can't even kiss with guys - I've tried it, and it makes me want to gag.

People have tried to label or categorize men into different types of bisexuals, or say they're just gay guys who don't want to admit it. I don't believe that, and I truly enjoy sex with both men and women, if for different reasons. Human sexuality is complex. There is totally straight and totally gay, but I suspect a great many people exist somewhere along that continuum, between the two extremes (and I don't mean extreme in a negative context).

i think i am a lot like you, but i don't mind kissing. I actually think it's pretty hot. What you said is very interesting.

 

[AlmondMilk]

I hooked up with one who'd never have a relationship with a guy. It's an interesting thought, but I didn't understand how he could just have so much gay porn yet not think of guys romantically. I guess it's just one type of thinking I won't understand for now, but whatever floats your boat

 

[BIMICHAEL4FUN]

I'm bi and enjoy sex, both oral and anal, as well as kissing and caressing, with other men purely for hedonistic sexual pleasure...I have never had a "loving" relationship with another man, but thoroughly enjoy whatever sexual encounters I am fortunate enough to have...All of my long-term relationships, including my marriage, have been with women.

 

[Lefty]

Some people love coffee

Some people love tea

Some love both

Some use cream

Some use sugar

Some use both

Coffee and tea being Straight or Gay/Lez

Condiments equal bi- tri-sigh as either hedonist or emotionalist or both

Pretty simple to me.

 

[Reality101]

Some people love coffee

Some people love tea

Some love both

Some use cream

Some use sugar

Some use both

Coffee and tea being Straight or Gay/Lez

Condiments equal bi- tri-sigh as either hedonist or emotionalist or both

Pretty simple to me.

this was helpful ty

 

[ronnie54321]

There are numerous threads on this, and guys run the gamut. SilverWolf is one extreme. I'm the other one. Sex with guys is, for me, strictly a hedonistic pursuit. I'm into it for the sexual pleasure. Arousal and orgasm. I've never had even the slightest feeling of love or romance toward a male sexual partner the way I do towards a woman - I'm just not wired that way. I can't even kiss with guys - I've tried it, and it makes me want to gag.

People have tried to label or categorize men into different types of bisexuals, or say they're just gay guys who don't want to admit it. I don't believe that, and I truly enjoy sex with both men and women, if for different reasons. Human sexuality is complex. There is totally straight and totally gay, but I suspect a great many people exist somewhere along that continuum, between the two extremes (and I don't mean extreme in a negative context).

If I was to KISS you, You might like it!I have great lips

 

[wwefan]

I'm with you here. I recently identified myself as bisexual too. I can't see myself in a real relationship with a guy.

 

[conrad]

One hopes that you all will be patient; the journey into the fullness of one's sexuality often has surprises in store.

Start out with the conviction that it is possible to love a man as well as to love a woman; it is possible to be open to deep friendship/love with a person of either sex.

As as an older male who has found that he was able to sustain and be sustained in a loving relationship with a male and who was equally delighted to discover that, when the opportunity arose, the same was true with a female.

Yes, sex offers release for the powerful urges, it is fun, but the real test of sex is what purpose it serves in relationship. For me, it was the realization that the sex actually confirmed the bond between my partner and me and it very definitely strengthened that bond. I have had few partners and the sex is long past with all of my former partners, but the love which prompted the sex remains. I loved them then and I love them still.

 

[AusDragon]

I have had sex with both men and women. I'd continue to have sex with both men and women. Though I have only ever considered dating men and never women. I have thought this to be weird. Perhaps it is due by having a lot of insane (well not literally) female friends and family that have just create a view for myself. Those of which perhaps warped my view of being able to trust or understand the female gender. Or maybe I can only emotionally connect with a man because that is just the way I am?

I label myself as Bi; though I think the more appropriate label is just Sexual.
There are days that only women turn me on; and vice versa. So why should I bother labelling myself when my preference constantly changes?

 

[blackbeltninja]

i think i am a lot like you, but i don't mind kissing. I actually think it's pretty hot.

Likewise.

Thus far, I have yet to really find myself thinking about anything long-term with a guy. Sex sure, but nothing even close to romance.

-d-

 

[lm-biHD]

I already had romantic relationships with both men and women and I like both. But it is different enough to think that with men it's more about sex. We don't have all that care and stuff with men. It's more like... sex only. In the other end, it's a lot funnier. We do and like the same things, generally. So, spending time together it's a lot less romantic with men.

 

[sonnyng]

I did have sex with men, but never have a thought that I would be in a romantic/longterm relationship with them, never had a crush on one neither. I can adore, worship, like one but couldn't falling in love with one
About women, I really need a women by my side to take care of, have fun with, have romantic sex with and to be married to one <3

 

[Slips01]

Some people love coffee

Some people love tea

Some love both

Some use cream

Some use sugar

Some use both

Coffee and tea being Straight or Gay/Lez

Condiments equal bi- tri-sigh as either hedonist or emotionalist or both

Pretty simple to me.

good way to put it!

 

[Nomenclature]

Lefty: Are you insinuating that tea is gay?!


j/k

 

[Lefty]

Holy poopoo Nomie


I almost missed the j/k

and thought

well shit, here's a new Boston Tea Party

 

[949-4-Fun]

I consider my bisexuality to be a fetish. As such, I don't particularly find men attractive, so for me I become attracted to the cock first, how it looks, if the guys body is sexy, if the hair is trimmed and balls shaved. Then if the dude is cool, it's on! As such, I don't have too many partners or experiences, still very noobish.

 

[shady1]

I like sex with guys, but not romantic that way, just seductive. I once was camping with my friend in a tent. He reached into my sleeping bag and touched my dick. It was great sex. We did it many times after that, and we never let anyone know we were sex partners. We both used to dress up in ladys clothes and have sex. Great Times!!