Bi Guy and Me

[hotyankeespeedo]

So I met this cool bi guy off of Craigslist. . . real nice. Like a normal guy. Not with all the reservations, and hang ups like gay guys have. . . he hooked up. It was hot. We said we'd keep in contact. . . he has a wife a kids. Is this bad karma?

 

[cityboi]

What kind of reservations and hang ups do gay guys have?

 

[tucaz7]

Being a "bi" guy is ok. Cheating, lying deceiving your life partner is not cool. Bad karma?---I think so, for all involved.

 

[Rex]

I would hate to have these guys's lives. They're like battling with their sexuality and don't know whether what the hell hey want.

Have fun with it but just keep in mind that it could end at anytime.

 

[hotyankeespeedo]

There is no sexuality battle going on from my stand point. We connect. We get along really well, we go for nice meals, enjoy each others company. But he is married. Thats it. You are right, it could end at any minute. I think what I need to figure out is why I am letting this continue. Its self destructive and perhaps has something to do with my self esteem. I have been feeling really worn down lately, so its nice to be lifted up, wined and dined. Its sounds so lame.

 

[giorgiobaby]

enjoy it while it lasts. Just keep in mind that you shouldn't have any expectations other than sex. You will have to get together on his schedule, good luck

 

[bankside]

There is no sexuality battle going on from my stand point. We connect. We get along really well, we go for nice meals, enjoy each others company. But he is married. Thats it. You are right, it could end at any minute. I think what I need to figure out is why I am letting this continue. Its self destructive and perhaps has something to do with my self esteem. I have been feeling really worn down lately, so its nice to be lifted up, wined and dined. Its sounds so lame.

Self destructive, quite likely. But I think it is pretty destructive to his wife too. I doubt he is the kind of guy who says "Hey honey - happy anniversary! I hooked up with this guy today because I know how horny that makes you. I did it for you!"

There are actually people like that, but I doubt this guy is one of them.

And if you spend more time trying to figure out why you let this happen to yourself than figuring out why you let this happen to her, then you've got bad karma!

 

[sixthson]

So I met this cool bi guy off of Craigslist. . . real nice. Like a normal guy. Not with all the reservations, and hang ups like gay guys have.

This is the kind of thing that makes me very sad.
This man made choices in life. He chose to marry a woman. He chose to have children. Now he is choosing to hook up with strangers for gay sex. The odds are high that he will soon destroy his life. I wonder if he ever considers the consequences of his choices? One day he is likely to find himself without a wife and having visitation rights is not the same as kissing your babies good night and reading them bedtime stories or watching them grow up on a daily basis. All so that he could have a little cock on the side.

He needs to wake up to the wrong he is committing against his family and you need to stop helping him. Choices, man.

 

[nurseboy269]

Being a "bi" guy is ok. Cheating, lying deceiving your life partner is not cool. Bad karma?---I think so, for all involved.

I agree. I have no respect those those guys that sneek around behind their partner's back (man or woman) just to get a cheap thrill. If you marry someone, that is it, no lying and cheating.