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Bi guy falling for a gay guy...

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So I'm bi. I always found myself emotially and sexually attracted to girls, but only really sexually attracted to other guys. Now, I've just found myself both emotionally and sexually attracted to this guy. Its unreal actually. I can't really fathom how I feel. I almost feel ridiculous and I have no idea why. He's in one of my classes as we rarely talk, but we do exchange "hello's" every now and then. Its tought to explain but I'm not sure where to go from here.
 
I just went through something like this. Im bi but not out and fell for a gay guy who is out. It started as just a casual thing but we really hit it off and things just took off. It was great but it hit some rocks when it came to me not being out. Its hard to be in a serous relationship with someone and hide it, I couldnt do it anyway. Not sure if any of this helps you or not ha. I didnt think I could fall for a guy but it def happened and in this case we both got a little hurt in the end but I'd say get to know him better but just keep everything in mind.
 
Yeah, I think that's just my issue. Not being out to anyone at all. Its weird, because it seems as if he has all the power in this. He's two years younger than me too so I even feel like I should be the more mature one. And I know in everyday life I am more mature and whatnot, but when it comes to to this, I'm completely lost. I don't even know what to say to him. He's a popular guy around the class, so it kinda makes it harder to get some alone time to have a "how was your weekend" type of convo. I don't know, its just hard!
 
Just relax and be yourself man! Just take an interest in him, like u said, ask him how his weekend was or if he went/did/saw something. Do you know if he's actually into guys? Maybe find a way to get together with him out of class then. Maybe to study or join some group he is in. Good luck!
 
picfan21 said:
So I'm bi. I always found myself emotially and sexually attracted to girls, but only really sexually attracted to other guys. Now, I've just found myself both emotionally and sexually attracted to this guy. Its unreal actually. I can't really fathom how I feel. I almost feel ridiculous and I have no idea why. He's in one of my classes as we rarely talk, but we do exchange "hello's" every now and then. Its tought to explain but I'm not sure where to go from here.
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If all you're doing is saying "Hello" and you're attracted to him physically then i'd say you're "Infatuated"....Try to have some kind of a conversation with the Guy..If you find out he's totally straight then you'll "pull-back" so fast and that attraction will fade...

So far your "Eyes" like what they see...But your "Ears" might not like what comes out of his mouth...
 
Great advice all round. Never posted anything on here before so its nice to see people giving some viable advice, seeing as there is no one else I could talk to about. MisterMajestic, you nailed it on the whole "infatuated" thing though. Its what it is, I'm just very drawn to him in a weird way. We broke for christmas break yesterday and now its game over up until the new year. He did however add me on facebook, but not because he actually wants to be friends - I just think he's one of those people that just adds people for the sake of adding, or adds anyone he even remotely knows. Would it be awkward to initiate a conversation there if we've never held one in person?
 
You have basically made every excuse NOT to talk to this guy. He added you to Facebook, who cares if he adds people willy-nilly. Use this as a way to have a conversation.

What classes do you have next year? What are you doing for the holiday? We should get together when we get back on campus and have a beer/drink.

Step up, grow a pair!
 
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