Bi guy here, couple of questions...

[phorptical]

Okay, so I am a 25 year old bi guy. I am not and never have been interested in pursuing a emotional relationship with a guy, but I have always enjoyed some masculine play such as jerking off with or giving and/or receiving oral. I have always been interested in only a specific type of guy. Slim guys are what I like (race doesnt really matter to me). I have always dated girls and have always been very interested in girls sexually. Moreover, I have never had the urge to do anal, it's just not something I'm interested in doing...doesn't appeal to me I guess.

So, anyway, any thoughts? any comments? anyone else like me?

I would post pics, but I am newbie... I will post later

 

[Dinsdale]

Hey dude--

I'm a 41-year-old guy in pretty much the same position. Don't want to get emotionally involved w/ a guy, do want to fool around, but have no interest in anal, which seems to be a blocker for a lot of guys (they want me to top). I like a variety of body types.

I'm sure there are lots of guys like us; the problem is finding them. ;-)

Hang in there!

 

[Thrasher12]

Hey as long as you're happy I don't see the problem.

 

[conrad]

Let's face it guys, most of us were well=programmed to think of ourselves as regular guys and regular guys just did not have emotional relationships with other guys.

Yes, that was my thinking when I had just turned fifteen and before I had met the new guy in town.

Neither he nor I intended to get "mushy" about our relationship but one day we found that we both wanted and needed to express our affection for each other physically. That was how the sex came about and the sex seemed so natural and right. I think it was all that because it confirmed the bond of love that had already come to exist between the two of us.

OUr relationship lasted through the last two years of high school. We haven't been sexual partners for more than half a century but the love that prompted the sex way back then remains. I count him as my dearest and best male friend still and we are both grateful that we learned that it is possible for one boy to love another boy.

I would say: by all means remain open to the possibility of bonding in genuine love with a person of your own sex.

Incidentally, we never stopped thinking of ourselves as very much regular guys.

 

[BIMICHAEL4FUN]

What's the issue? Do what you're comfortable with and enjoy life!!!

 

[vancurious1]

even some gay guys don't do anal, or do it as often as you might imagine. The truth is that everyone likes different things.

 

[biguy0206]

I was the same way. But I am in my first guy/guy relationship now. We are both masculine and no one would know we are gay. Its actually so much better than I ever imagined. Its like getting to have sex with your best friend. Good luck with whatever you decide!

 

[AlmondMilk]

even some gay guys don't do anal, or do it as often as you might imagine. The truth is that everyone likes different things.

Yup, sometimes anal is fine, but other times it's more of a special occasion. On another note, I love your icon

 

[hexfan43]

hey. just wanted 2 say ur def not alone dude. me, and as i can c a few othr guys on here feel the same way. no strings.. or emotional relationships wanted. just hot hookups to get off. and no, i wouldnt wanna do anal at all.. not my thing.

 

[SmileForMe]

Yeah, I guess just do what you're comfortable with.
But please.. don't cheat.

 

[ayesinwi]

I guess I'm like that. I tried anal on my last hookup and it sucked. I don't know if I wasn't relaxed enough, which I probably wasn't, but either way I don't know if I want to do it again, but would still be cool with mutual stimulation either manual or oral.

I'm also only into skinny guys like me, 6'0" 141lbs, or really fit guys, but definitely not macho men, bears, or mature. But I'm also mostly attracted to certain types of women too.

That's just how it is I guess.