Bi guy here.. wants the courage to admit it.

[PurplePassion]

I posted this in another section. Forgive me, I'm new and just want to get this across.


Only a few people know I'm bisexual, but I only had one gay experiment when I Was drunk, and it wasn't long.. just exploring my curiosity. That was on New Years, so I decided to make a new years revolution to explore my curiosity.

I recently discovered that I am attracted to the opposite sex as well as the same sex. I lied to myself in HS and said I was straight, but I've always been curious. I'm willing to gladly accept it now, as my curiosity has turned into lust for cock; but i'm afraid to admit it and im not sure i want all my friends to know just yet.

My girlfriend knows, and she supports me and tells me it's fine if I explore it. She's also bisexual. Lesbian infact, but I turned her bi. ( Hey, who couldn't turn down my long, shaven shiny rod )

Anyway, this is probably a bad introdution, but I was hoping to meet other gay and bi guys here to talk to. You can call me Passion and I'm 21

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I'm just going to come out and say it. Sometimes I'll day-dream about storking another man's hard cock. Must be shaved though.. hair only belongs on the head even for guys. I'll day dream about kissing the head gently with my lips, licking up and down the shaft, and everything. I can even deep throat carrots. . I think I'd give amazing head.

I want to know how it feels like to take a load of another guy's cum to my chest.. or my face....... I wonder what it tastes like....



Anyway, just thought I'd briefly introduce myself. I am madly inlove with my girlfriend, but I have wants.. i have fantacies... and they involve another man.







Btw: emo guys are fucking HAWT. I love skinny guys with shaggy hair.

If you want pics just ask. I'm pretty sexy

 

[briefboy86]

Well dude you sound like me 2 years ago. I was never in love with my ex's(gf's) but I thought if I was with a chick I wasn't gay but I really wanted cock. My best bet for you to do is explore. I went the whole i'm bi thing but I'm not I admitted to myself I'm gay and I love who I am, and the thought of a vagina is just gross LOL. But yeah dude welcome to JUB! I'm justin so yeah go nutz!!

 

[PurplePassion]

Thanks for the welcome, man

 

[conrad]

No two of us are alike in our approach to sexuality; which makes it hard to offer advice to the OP. Based on my own experience, however. things need not be so complicated. As a horny fifteen year old, I had to be content with the relief that the joining of my cock and hand could offer. It was a great day when I met the new guy in town and we became friends. We thought of ourselves as pretty regular guys who would do what regular guys all seemed to do: we would one day find some wonderful girl, fall in love, get married and live happily ever after.

But, life presents us with opportunities which we neither have sought nor expected. Such was my relationship with my teen friend. We soon were more than friends and we allowed ourselves to do what seemed to come naturally. Yes, I spare you the details, but one day we found ourselves initiating each other into the wonderful world of cocksucking. That sex confirmed the bond that already existed between us and we spent the last two years of high school learning by doing. We were amazed what sexual pleasure two males can have. Our sexual relatonship ended, but the love we have for each other remains to this day.

But, we never stopped thinking of ourselves as regular guys. My first sexual relationship with a female convinced me that sexual love on either side of my sexuality was not a thing to be denied. I have never cheated on a partner;monogamous relationships for me.

What two persons can enjoy together sexually is not a game. For me the relationship is the foundation and the sex flows from it. Such sex is fabulous because it reflects the love of two persons for each other. And, it has the added benefit that though the sex may end the love remains.

 

[KaraBulut]

There's not a lot of support for bisexuals. While everyone's experience is very different, there are a lot of common things that no one tells you about.

For a lot of bisexual guys, the attractions go back and forth. Sometimes you're very attracted to guys. Sometimes you're very attracted to girls. It's hard to be attracted to both at the same time.

Most bi guys aren't 50%-50%. There's usually a preference for one gender that is more constant. And it often changes with age which is why many bisexuals in college (LUGs, BUGs, etc) settle down as gay or straight by the end of their 20s.

While it's good that you're in a relationship with a bisexual woman and you are both open and accepting of the other's bisexuality... just based upon your story and the detail that you describe your fantasy, you may find that you have a rocky road ahead. If you choose to make your fantasies become a reality, then you run the risk of jealousies in your relationship or the dissolution of your relationship because you've fallen in love with a guy. Open relationships are tough enough but when you're adding bisexuality to the mix... well, it just gets more complicated.

It's not always easy for bisexuals and there's not a lot of understanding from the gay or straight community for those who fall somewhere in between.

 

[PurplePassion]

There's not a lot of support for bisexuals. While everyone's experience is very different, there are a lot of common things that no one tells you about.

For a lot of bisexual guys, the attractions go back and forth. Sometimes you're very attracted to guys. Sometimes you're very attracted to girls. It's hard to be attracted to both at the same time.

Most bi guys aren't 50%-50%. There's usually a preference for one gender that is more constant. And it often changes with age which is why many bisexuals in college (LUGs, BUGs, etc) settle down as gay or straight by the end of their 20s.

While it's good that you're in a relationship with a bisexual woman and you are both open and accepting of the other's bisexuality... just based upon your story and the detail that you describe your fantasy, you may find that you have a rocky road ahead. If you choose to make your fantasies become a reality, then you run the risk of jealousies in your relationship or the dissolution of your relationship because you've fallen in love with a guy. Open relationships are tough enough but when you're adding bisexuality to the mix... well, it just gets more complicated.

It's not always easy for bisexuals and there's not a lot of understanding from the gay or straight community for those who fall somewhere in between.

Yeah, I know.. sometimes I'm not too quite sure though, you know? Maybe I'm just a bit confused. And I know how it is for bis.. people get mad at us for not being able to choose, and then we dont' get support from either straights OR gays.... however a lot of people i meet seem to be bi, or at least claim it to try and seem "cool", because now everything has to be a fad, am i right?

 

[KaraBulut]

Yeah, I know.. sometimes I'm not too quite sure though, you know? Maybe I'm just a bit confused. And I know how it is for bis.. people get mad at us for not being able to choose, and then we dont' get support from either straights OR gays.... however a lot of people i meet seem to be bi, or at least claim it to try and seem "cool", because now everything has to be a fad, am i right?

It has a lot to do with age. A lot of younger guys are bi to a certain extent. It's only after a few relationships that things become clearer.

Some guys say that the first time they switched from a girl to a guy, they knew.

For others, it's a matter of wanting a more traditional family, marriage... especially for those who have certain religious beliefs or family pressure.

And for others, after going back and forth they just decide they prefer the companionship and lack of need to explain their thoughts/feelings that comes with two guys.

But I will say this- in all my years, I have known a lot of guys who cheated on their wife with a guy. But I've only known one guy with a male partner who cheated with a woman.

 

[briefboy86]

I knew whe I was with a chick that I was gay. It was really funny bc one time I was checking out a guy and she thought I was lookin at another girl lol what a suspeise she had when I let her use my computer and found me looking at gay porn lol

 

[On The Edge]

hey..it's nice..u seem fine with who u are or take it as it comes..that's cool..& u got a girlfriend who supports it..that is nice too..u got support here ..

 

[spencer]

It's not always easy for bisexuals and there's not a lot of understanding from the gay or straight community for those who fall somewhere in between.

you got that right, not a lot of support for being closeted either.

 

[slnattak]

Why would you want/need support for being closeted? You are just being your own worst enemy. Even if you don't mean to be hateful or think it's something to be shameful of.

It is IMPOSSIBLE for others to support you if you're closeted, that's the thing. It is just REALISTICALLY and PHYSICALLY IMpossible to support a closeted guy (no matter how much you want it), because you always insist on hiding your homosexuality only to a few select people. And not just your homosexuality but you sometimes a lot of times fear other people getting to know other stuff about you as well.

If most of your problems would be evaporated simply by coming out, why not come out?

I only tell you this btw, cause I could use the advice for myself.

 

[SwitchHit50]

About a month ago, I had a pre-arranged meeting with a guy in a bar. Surprised ME that I actually traded the pics and agreed to the meet.
Now, I get some of what I need from a gf, but lately a lot of baggage has been messing that up.

Anyway, the guy I met was clean, down to earth and was looking to suck no recip. Drifted over to my place, we both got naked I laid down and he sucked on me like a pro. Got me from soft to hard to climax in about 5 minutes.
The gf can get me hard, but it DOES take longer.
Haven't seen the guy since, which is okay I guess, but that's not to say i won't meet another from a gay site to get my other "urges" taken care of, because I KNOW I will.
The gf may or may not care, but I do know if I bust a harder nut with a guy than with her, that may change.