Bi Guy Question Top or Bottom

[BiBtm64]

I'm a bottom with men. I started with the enjoyment of the physical feeling of being penetrated when I used to play with toys, and grew curious what a real dick would feel like.

I found not only did it feel physically so much better, I enjoyed the power dynamic of submitting my body to a man's enjoyment, I found the submissive role empowering or emotionally fulfilling, I love pleasing a guy.

There's something really special about being able and willing to take a reaming, and to give a guy that kind of pleasure.

 

[allin4cum]

I am BI and do not consider myself a top or bottom.
I do not like anal of any kind and am not interested in it.
I consider myself a side - one that loves to suck and be sucked. I swallow every time.
I also wonder why so many BI guys are more into anal than oral? Or is that just my wrong impression and not true?

 

[ricksvca]

I am always a bottom. I really enjoy the feeling of being fucked by a man. I love the way it feels as the cock head enters my ass and begins rubbing up against my P Spot. It is very intense and extremely pleasurable. The idea of fucking another man has never ever appealed to me. I am bi and I do really enjoy anal sex with women but when it comes to fucking a guy I am just not interested.

When I first started having sex with men (age 22) I had no desire to have any kind of anal sex. I told who ever I was having sex with upfront that I was into giving and receiving hand jobs and that I really loved giving and receiving blowjobs, I would also tell them I loved sucking a man's cock and having him cum in my mouth and swallowing his cum.
Years later (age 26) when I became involved with a very good friend who was gay. Having regular sex with him changed the way I felt about anal. One time he was giving me one of his always excellent blowjobs when he suddenly lifted both of my legs up in the air (I was sitting on his couch with him kneeling on the floor in front of me). He took his mouth off of my cock and started licking my asshole. I was startled but I decided to let him lick and kiss my asshole because it felt absolutely amazing. This went on for a good 30 minutes. It was pure ecstasy. and in some ways was more pleasurable than having him suck my cock. He didn't need to ask me if I liked it because my groans and squirming told him that I loved it.

After that session I started thinking about having anal sex with him. The more I thought about it the more I knew I wanted him to fuck me. Because we were friends and he knew I was an anal virgin I knew he would be gentle. I had absolutely no interest in being a top so I focused on being a bottom. Could I actually let another man fuck me? It was one thing to give a BJ or HJ to a man and have him reciprocate but letting another man put his cock in my ass was a huge step in my bi-curious experiences and today, if the chemistry is right, being fucked by a man is something I definitely want to do when I hook up with a man.

 

[BiBtm64]

I am BI and do not consider myself a top or bottom.
I do not like anal of any kind and am not interested in it.
I consider myself a side - one that loves to suck and be sucked. I swallow every time.
I also wonder why so many BI guys are more into anal than oral? Or is that just my wrong impression and not true?

That's understandable and it's totally fine to not be interested in anal.

It's fairly common in my experience. I've been at cruising areas where I'm seeking anal, and often, guys will make it clear that it does not interest them, sometimes seeming to be disgusted by the idea. I don't bother trying to reassure someone that I'm prepared and clean as I don't want to press them, but I think there's a deeply ingrained perception that the ass is unclean and is not a sexual turn-on for many people, which is fine. I was always happy to suck, instead, if the vibe was not lost from my offer of anal.

As for why so many bi guys are into anal? I think many of us (including me) started out being curious about ass play and trying it out alone before getting curious about men. I think for those who are not turned off by the idea, anal is considered as some kind of ultimate goal. But sucking is every bit as good, just a different end game.

 

[ricksvca]

I am BI and do not consider myself a top or bottom.
I do not like anal of any kind and am not interested in it.
I consider myself a side - one that loves to suck and be sucked. I swallow every time.
I also wonder why so many BI guys are more into anal than oral? Or is that just my wrong impression and not true?

I am bi but I am far more into BJs, both giving and receiving, than I am with anal as a bottom. I only let a man fuck me if the chemistry is right and by that I mean I am attracted to him, his body his personality and his cock. Consequently I do not have anal nearly as often as I trade BJs with a man and I always swallow. I just love the whole act of sucking a cock and having the man cum in my mouth. I have felt that way from the very first time I sucked a man off. I really do love the taste of cum even if it has a different taste to it. . .

 

[dd788snipe]

I'm a bottom with men. I started with the enjoyment of the physical feeling of being penetrated when I used to play with toys, and grew curious what a real dick would feel like.

I found not only did it feel physically so much better, I enjoyed the power dynamic of submitting my body to a man's enjoyment, I found the submissive role empowering or emotionally fulfilling, I love pleasing a guy.

There's something really special about being able and willing to take a reaming, and to give a guy that kind of pleasure.

Couldn't have said it better myself.

 

[magicdick]

Never topped or bottomed with a dude (yet), but I'm game for both opportunities.

Be careful, bro. Getting fucked is addictive. All else pales.

 

[magicdick]

I'm a bottom with men. I started with the enjoyment of the physical feeling of being penetrated when I used to play with toys, and grew curious what a real dick would feel like.

I found not only did it feel physically so much better, I enjoyed the power dynamic of submitting my body to a man's enjoyment, I found the submissive role empowering or emotionally fulfilling, I love pleasing a guy.

There's something really special about being able and willing to take a reaming, and to give a guy that kind of pleasure.

I read the post before reading the poster, but I already knew it was you, BiBtm64. Love your stuff.

 

[magicdick]

I am BI and do not consider myself a top or bottom.
I do not like anal of any kind and am not interested in it.
I consider myself a side - one that loves to suck and be sucked. I swallow every time.
I also wonder why so many BI guys are more into anal than oral? Or is that just my wrong impression and not true?

I was once like you. Give yourself time. You'll change. I was also once averse to kissing my men. Wouldn't do it. Now I love it.

I'd hazard a guess that the majority of bi guys are into anal, or at least bottoming. Why? Because it feels so fookin' good! For this bi guy it is special: I become a woman. (If you know me, you know I always refer to my asshole as my pussy.) It's an involved story...

 

[magicdick]

I am bi but I am far more into BJs, both giving and receiving, than I am with anal as a bottom. I only let a man fuck me if the chemistry is right and by that I mean I am attracted to him, his body his personality and his cock. Consequently I do not have anal nearly as often as I trade BJs with a man and I always swallow. I just love the whole act of sucking a cock and having the man cum in my mouth. I have felt that way from the very first time I sucked a man off. I really do love the taste of cum even if it has a different taste to it. . .

Well said. Especially loving the taste of cum portion.

 

[magicdick]

I'm a total bottom as well. I can't even imagine topping another guy...I've never enjoyed giving anal. I'm very submissive and fem and would love to find a top to suck his cock and him fuck me. I love having a man cum inside me, either in my mouth or my pussy.

Old post, but my sentiments exactly, especially the fem part and having my lover cum inside me. Total contentment lying back knowing he left part of himself inside me.

 

[mnpervert]

I am Bi verse, I will top or bottom. I would say there is an abundance of bottoms out there so I topped most of the time. I have met another middle aged Bi married guy who is also verse we will see how that goes. It would be great if this works out