Bi Guys...Are you out?

[ravidick]

I want dick at a time with boobs for sucking. This kind of feeling may be BI.

 

[Desire]

no...
well actually..im actuallly losing interest in cock..lol
im serious so i may be going to the straight world

 

[youngnihilist]

Don't think any of the closet bis are doing any good for the world. You all call yourself straight, list yourself as interested in women on facebook or straight on Myspace, have messy PDA with your gf, but really, we find out anyway.

 

[PetCuddlePuppy]

My gf knew I was bi before we started dating. It was interesting because she tried extra hard (unnecessarily) to keep my attention.

 

[pwrbarboy]

I'm out to my close friends and lovers. No one else needs to know. Do straight people tell the world that they're into analingus or latex. No. So why should bi people have to tell the whole world what they're into? Tell who you think needs to know. It's your business, not anybody else's.

Don't think any of the closet bis are doing any good for the world. You all call yourself straight, list yourself as interested in women on facebook or straight on Myspace, have messy PDA with your gf, but really, we find out anyway.

Seems sort of like a pointlessly trolling statement to me.

 

[youngnihilist]

Fine, it's your choice not to tell everyone. But it's one thing to not tell anyone anything (which I think is fine), versus telling the world you're into pussy, but hiding the other part.

 

[Adan0316CumOnMe]

Totally out

 

[pwrbarboy]

versus telling the world you're into pussy, but hiding the other part.

Why is that really any business of yours if you don't know the person?

 

[Cherokee]

Just curious if you're out or not. I'm married and have three kids, and am very open, honest, and out to my wife.

Yeah, me too. Three great kids and a loving wife ...who'd prob be freaked out by me admitting I've got an increasingly dominant gay side. So I'm keeping stum about that for the moment.

OK, so it is getting more acceptable in society to be gay now...but a happily married gay...with kids? Still too confusing for many folk I reckon....

Say, nurseboy269, how does your wife feel about your gay side? Do you go out with other guys or are you 100% faithful to her?

 

[socal21]

I really don't see a need to tell anyone,unless i was in a serious relationship that i felt would last and mabe go somewhere with. I personally have never had a gf or a bf,and i'm ok with that.

 

[AmunRa]

No one knows except the hook-ups.

I lean straight so I've only dated girls anyway.

About my family and about half my friends are reasonably conservative, so I tend to think coming out is much more trouble than its worth. If I had a different upbringing than Evangelical Christian I might be more inclined to come out.

Not to mention it seems like no one understands what it means to be bi...

My gf knew I was bi before we started dating. It was interesting because she tried extra hard (unnecessarily) to keep my attention.

That's what I'm talking about. More often than not, I've heard bi guys talk about how their already jealous girlfriends get ultra paranoid. I'm sure boyfriends can react similarly.

 

[youngnihilist]

It's one thing to be private about your sexuality as a whole. It's another thing to claim to be the ladies man when you're really sucking cock and taking it up the ass. As in bi or "bi" guys who flaunt their heterosexual part but hide the rest. Weak.

 

[Caaake]

No because if you come out to your girlfriend they will just think you're gay.

I'm only out to my two gay friends.


Hmm... never been questioned. I don't know what I'd do that situation. I guess it depends on who and what they had on me.

well what if a random girl at a party asked you to make out with a good guy friend of yours? What would you do/say?


And for every bi guy out there, same question. ^ What would you guys do?

 

[Volleyboy21]

Youngnihilist, you must have been picked on as a kid. Or even still. lol.

Stop being so judgmental, it really makes you look ugly.

 

[hawkia]

Seems to me that we're really too worried about labels

 

[Caaake]

^ yea.. thats unfortunate.

 

[Jersey Domino]

OK, so it is getting more acceptable in society to be gay now...but a happily married gay...with kids? Still too confusing for many folk I reckon....

How would that be confusing to people?

 

[Reprobate]

I'm out to my wife, I tell her everything. She has a right to know because it can impact her health if I ever caught anything. It probably isn't fair for her but she encourages me to have a friend with benefits on the side, which I do.

I am out my family members who are gay and out, my brother, my niece, my mom. One of my kids is gay but I don't discuss it with him because he hasn't brought it up. If there isn't a gay gene then it must be something in the water.

 

[Reprobate]

How would that be confusing to people?

The problem is when gay people tell you that you can't possibly be bi, that there is no such thing and that the right thing to do is tell your wife, get a divorce, meet a gay guy with kids and become the gay brady bunch.

People have a hard time believing that you can be bi or gay and have a happy marriage. Maybe they are right, I don't know, I am happy, my wife seems happy but if she ever decides she doesn't want this I will understand. The dynamic of the relationship is far different than a "normal" heterosexual relationship and it takes a strong person to understand and accept.

 

[dwc1]

No one knows unless they need to know. Why do I need to parade it around? Is it to promote gay or bi pride? I think that a lot of gay people put themselves out because they want the attention, they want people to notice them. I like guys for sex and I like girls for sex. My close friends know this because we talk about it, the other people at work or that I run into in day to day life don't need to know.