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Bi guys do you tell your Chicks that you have had the COCK ?

TheTrish said:
Hi, gb! ;) Telling a girl you have sucked cock in the past I can almost gaurantee would be no problem. Telling a girl you want to fool around is a no-no. If she is bi and sees other girls, like me, you got a chance. If she’s straight, can you live without cock???

T
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So tell me Trish, If you´re bf was bi, would you let him have cock on the side?
 
TheTrish said:
Hi, gb! ;) Telling a girl you have sucked cock in the past I can almost gaurantee would be no problem. Telling a girl you want to fool around is a no-no. If she is bi and sees other girls, like me, you got a chance. If she’s straight, can you live without cock???
T
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I think telling a girl about your history with other guys will make her feel a bit insecure, but in my case, it's something that's got to get done. All of the female relationships I've had have at one point voiced insecurity to me in the form of "Tell me, why do you want to be with me?" near the beginning of the relationship, and it's a tough question to get put on the spot with. If you throw in the whole gender thing, it can only raise her insecurity even more. A little bit of insecurity in woman you care for is a good thing, but too much will make her run off, so if you're bi, I would think that you'd have to compensate by giving a bit more extra reassurance to a woman you love than you otherwise would have to give. This isn't speaking from experience, as I haven't been in a relationship since recently deciding to be open about my sexuality.
 
No... unless it involved a MMF threesome or if she were to ask me. Otherwise, I'd prefer not to. You think gay guys get all bent out of shape about bi guys. Well, straight women are even worse.
 
I've only told one woman, and it was because she asked. As far as I'm concerned, Don't Ask/Don't Tell works just fine since I don't fool around outside a relationship so it's a moot point. But I won't lie about it if she asks me. And considering that I've done oral only, I think women would tend to be less leery (the whole AIDS thing)... maybe Trish could confirm/deny me on that one.
 
Hi, lug! ;) Yes.

Hi, Ceb! ;) Of course, there is a practical issue. If my make-believe boyfriend were to only suck cocks, I’d be OK with that… and would go to a adult bookstore with him! LOL If he engaged in other high-risk behavior, well, I’d have a problem. I’d need to know, too, more about the risks of sucking.

T
 
yup. i told my wife before we got married. she even knows the guy i was seeing before we met and started dating. did she have a problem with it? she said she didn't. but in reality she did. took her a looooong time before she got to a point it didn't matter to her anymore. but mostly it bugged her when some guy was eyeing me. otherwise, we used to walk around the mall pointing out the good looking guys to each other. look at the butt on that guy! or, did you see that guy's crotch?!?
 
BeardedWoof said:
I've heard of that episode of SITC.

The actress who plays Miranda (Cynthia Nixon) was a hypocrite in that episode is a since she played a bitchy character like that, who said not to date a bisexual man, and yet Cynthia Nixon herself is bisexual. :rolleyes:
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Well, you know that unwritten societal rule, that is not A'OK for males to bisexual. Which is a croc but you know.
 
Kinda. I don't usually tell them at first unless they ask about it or ask a related question, if not I wait a little while to tell them, they are kinda wierd aboout it
 
Do they still wanna get fuked by you then, U of A?
 
gbfish said:
She is straight. Can i live without cock??? I've only had a very brief experience when i was you so, i've went with out it for years. I have always wanted more and the older i get the stronger my desires get. I want to see what i missed all those years. See what its like to be with a man, to please a man.
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Hi, gb! ;) Tell her about your desires. If she weirds out, maybe she: not right for you. Better to learn that now.

T
 
tommyj said:
Do they still wanna get fuked by you then, U of A?
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Yeah, I havent had any problems wiht girls at that point, after we had a dated for a little while. I told a couple girls I had just met and they were pretty grossed out
 
Yes...my wife knows that I am bisexual, and respects that. We have had some 3somes with other bi-guys, and she enjoyed sucking cock with me...
 
BIMICHAEL4FUN said:
Yes...my wife knows that I am bisexual, and respects that. We have had some 3somes with other bi-guys, and she enjoyed sucking cock with me...
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:eek: Hot!! I wonder if this couple I know is willing to do that kinda thing. Probably not ... :( .. But that's ok.
 
BIMICHAEL4FUN said:
Yes...my wife knows that I am bisexual, and respects that. We have had some 3somes with other bi-guys, and she enjoyed sucking cock with me...
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I can't imagine such a thing. The thought of playing around with a man and a woman at the same time just seems so conflicting to me. Personally it would weird me out for any woman I'm with to see me sucking dick.
 
In my experience, this has been a huge turn on for the girls and some have even initiated some threesomes as a cause of this. I think more women are turned on by two guys doing it than you would think. It's not exactly the same as guys watching lesbians but it's there. Might be something in the spirit of the times. Or not. Who knows.
 
I didn't tell my last gf...but since we broke up I dated a guy for a little while, it didn't last very long. But it would prompt me to tell my next gf that I'm bi....but I'd wait a couple months before telling her.

I think it's important that a relationship is established first so she knows I'm telling her just to be totally honest with her rather than telling her so I can sleep around, which would not be my objective. Plus I would rather she find out from me than from someone else.
 
ivyguy24 said:
I didn't tell my last gf...but since we broke up I dated a guy for a little while, it didn't last very long. But it would prompt me to tell my next gf that I'm bi....but I'd wait a couple months before telling her.

I think it's important that a relationship is established first so she knows I'm telling her just to be totally honest with her rather than telling her so I can sleep around, which would not be my objective. Plus I would rather she find out from me than from someone else.
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Hi, ivy! ;) My advice, be honest BEFORE the relationship gets established. It worked for me. :wave:

T
 
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