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Bi guys: Do you "treat" your male lovers the way you do your female lovers?

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Honestly, no.

I'm dating a guy right now and while I'll introduce him to gay & bi (and select straight) friends, I can't see letting him meet the relatives. I'm definitely not bringing him with me to the next family get together. He's the same way about me and his friends and family, so we understand each other there. We do "go out" but it tends to be more social than romantic. In public, we're just two guys hanging out and having a good time. In private is where we do the huggy, huggy, kissy, kissy thing.
 
I treat them exactly the same, on dates and everything else. But I don't introduce my lover (gf or bf) immediately to my friends and family. Only when I think/expect/hope it's going to be a long and serious relationship I show them around. :D
 
No I don't treat the same.
One has a dick the other wan has a cunt ;)

seriously--> as I mentioned in other post: you get mode devotion from girls.
 
Socially, yes, I treat them differently. But I'm in rural NH and operating "under cover" as a married family guy. So that negates the ability to "date" as anything remotely close to a romantic couple. Sexually, I treat them the same. I still believe it's my responsibility to insure my lover has a pleasurable time. I kiss my male lover with equal passion and make sure he reaches orgasm before me while fucking. I did a lot of learning how to achieve fucking a male to orgasm for that specific purpose. Knowing how to do that with a woman was a big head start. I insist on calling "the act" "making love" instead of fucking with both.

My male lover knew "the deal" before we got started. He was so surprised I brought him off while making love to him, he would've probably put up with anything, he loves the way I make love, as do I love doing it.
 
This thread just reinforces my opinion that competing with a woman for the affection of a bi guy, a guy just can´t win ](*,)](*,)
 
It just depends on the guy. Yes,I will go out on dates,bring him flowers,if I think he's ok with that.There are so many factors to consider. This Question is more complex than you think.

Every Guy is different and every guy has a different comfort level.

:-)
 
Nope. I'm a typical guy when it comes to women. There's definitely a double standard. I've always felt more comfortable being more intimate and closer with guys. Don't know if it stems from a life of sports, going through traumatic experiences with guy friends, or what, but I do prefer masculinity above all and most girls aren't butch enough for me to feel comfortable being truly romantic with them.
 
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