Bi Guys, Have You Been Asked This Question Before?

[Romantico]

Hope some guys don't get grossed out here, but I'd like to hear what some of the bisexual guys think about this.

I've been asked this question before but was recently asked again and thought I'd ask bisexual guys if they get this. I was asked, "Which do you prefer. Sex with a guy or a girl?" I always tell people the same thing and that is they are both very different. I love the smell of a guy. Theres just something about the soap on his skin, the cologne, the sweat, just the very smell that drives me wild. I love performing oral sex on a guy and have been told I am very good at it. The balls are one of my favorites and I take extra time with them. I love rimming a guy and I love kissing a guy.I'd be happy just spedning the night kissing. Kissing can in some ways be better than sex in my opinion. I love cuddling and caressing a guy before sex and afterwards. I love massages and I love giving guys foot massages. I love anal sex as well.

Having said that, I enjoy the scent of a woman as well. Not just the smell of her skin or her perfume but the natural smell from her vagina to her sweat. Making a woman ejaculate is a major turn on for me. I love kissing breasts. Its my thing. I nibble and lick and sometimes just play with them with my hands. I can spend hours doing it. I love anal sex with women as well. Women are usually not into this at first but once they get comfortable they almost demand it everytime. I love kissing and cuddling, and caressing and even dry humping a girl. I also enjoy performing oral sex on women and rimming women as well. For some reason this always startles women. I don't think this is something straight guys do because every woman I have rimmed always react the same way. They jolt and get nervous and uncomfortable. They usually tell me they don't want me to do this. I then slowly stop and tell them how good it tastes and then they cautiously tell me as long as I don't mind, I can continue. They eventually come around and enjoy it. I love ass. Men's ass's and women's ass's, both are AWESOME to me. I like the way my dick feels inside a woman. In my opinion, theres nothing like it in the world.

So, thats where I stand. As you can see I enjoy sex with both. I also have to say I have a MAJOR moaning fetish. The louder the better. If my lover is not moaning I feel like they are not having a good time. Moaning is key to making love in my opinion. Its a form of communicating.The only thing I have not tried is sex with a woman on her period, which I hear is pretty hot. I'm not sleeping with the girl I'm currently seeing. We've only been going out for a couple weeks but I am looking forward to the day we do. I can tell she has not been with many guys and she has mentioned that none of the guys she has been with were very good. So, do any bi guys prefer one over the other?

 

[Romantico]

Wow, thanks Palindromos for the response. Its always pretty cool when someone gets me and knows what its like. I always say if you love the one your with than nothing should really be gross about sex. I think I am slowly getting out of my "fucking" stages and am now moving into my "making Love" stage. One you do because your horny and just want to get your rocks off. The other is a little deeper and more emotional. I'm sure guys here who eventually want a long term relationship with a guy can relate to that. I think it has to do with getting older and maturing.

 

[ejbonk]

Romantico.
I agree with you on your postion as it pertains to the question .I think this is the standard question asked of every Bisexual at least once,if not thousand times in their life.

 

[Romantico]

Aw, thanks ejbonk!!! Yeah, I'm asked this alot and most people just can't understand that I like both. I should have a shorter standard response though I think.(LOL!)

 

[Telstra]

Yeah, i think that is what a bi guy do.

They love to have sex with males and females equally.

 

[Romantico]

Well, I can't recall anyone asking to be rude or a smart ass. They usually ask because they themsleves are curious and want to understand me (or atleast I hope thats why) I have said this on several threads and I'll say it again here. I think people overthink sex WAY too much! I really do.Thats why when I see studies or questions that ask how gay you are or how kinky you are or where do rate on the Kinsey scale or how manly are you or God knows what else, I just roll my eyes. I am who I am. I'm attracted to those I am attracted to. I am passionate to those who bring the passion out in me and so on. Who I love and have sex with is between me and my lover only.For someone to judge me or anyone because of who they love is not only ignorant but arrogant as well.

 

[marcelloNYC]

Romantico, I feel the EXACT same way in every aspect you wrote!

I have not been with a man yet, but have been fantasizing about it the way you describe. I have been with a few transexuals.

My question is .....is there a preference for a romantic relationship.
At this point in my discovery of myself...I romanticize about women or transexuals, not a man. Will that change? I don't know, but I am open to whatever happens.

Ciao,
M.

 

[KaraBulut]

Which do you prefer. Sex with a guy or a girl?

I guess it never occurred to me that I had to pick just one...?

 

[ejbonk]

Pick just One?Who came up with that crazy idea.

 

[Romantico]

Hey thanks Guys! As for preference, I never really had any. All I wanted/want is to fall in love with someone who I am physically and emotionally attracted to and have them feel the same about me. I think I may have found that and it just happens to be with a woman. However, About a year or so ago the same thing happened and I thought I'd be with a man for the rest of my life. I've said it before and I'll say it again. We don't pick who we fall in love with.

I've always trusted women more than men. Not sure why, I just have. I've always felt they were better listeners and give better advice. I prefer female Doctors and female bosses as well. Not sure why, I just do.

I agree about chemistry. I don't call my partners boyfriend or girlfriend just because I feel its a common title. I have girlfriends and thats what they are. Friends. Doesn't mean I'm fucking them. Same with guy friends, so I'll use companion or partner, but prefer the word lover the most. I feel its more passionate and sums up who we are. Having said that, my lover and I have a chemistry. We can tell what the other is thinking without saying a word. We have a secret language only lovers have and it makes sex so much better in my opinion.

Its good to be open. My sister always thought she knew the kind of guy she'd fall for. Well, she's 21 and has been dating a guy who's 38 for two years now and they have never been closer. He's awesome and loves my sister like mad and when you see the two together they are just another couple in love.Have an open mind. ANYTHING can happen. Thanks again for the kind words!

 

[Kulindahr]

I answered that question once with, "No, I like a woman's vagina and a guy's penis. Those aren't equal." It got a laugh.

Seriously, for me it depends on season, mood, energy level, and probably other things I don't even recognize. But I have noticed my attraction to gals is diminishing, which has me more than a little confused.