bi guys is it just about fucking or do you have a deeper attraction to men ?

[Edd1987]

Re: bi guys is it just about fucking or do you hav

I have never loved a man. I'm extremely turned on by cock and I will do and have done anything with a guy except anal. It just doesn't do anything for me. I'm more than happy to put it up there, but I don't like it up mine.

That's why I'm fairly convinced I'm bi. I'd do the full works with a woman, but not with a guy.

 

[allemal]

Re: bi guys is it just about fucking or do you hav

At this moment I would have to say I have a stronger emotional conection to women....it doesn't matter man or woman, the first attraction is physical. As I get to know them, they can become more or less attractive depending on thier personality. With a man I am not looking for love but respect is important, That is not to say that I have to be in love with a women to have sex with her cause at the end of the day I am a bit of a dog and love sex no matter who it is with.....now catch me on another day and I will drop to my kness and suck your cock and rim your asshole as if my life depended on it and I don't even need to know your name......

 

[sometimesitbethatway]

Re: bi guys is it just about fucking or do you hav

I'm more emotionally attracted and attached to women. When I look at guys its more of a physical thing but sometimes its confusing b/c it may be envy or jealousy of their looks... its strange. Hard to explain but I don't really feel emotionally attracted to men...

 

[PetCuddlePuppy]

Re: bi guys is it just about fucking or do you hav

In general, I end up falling for who I fall for. There's nothing I can do about that part because usually, I fall pretty hard. Always monogamous. Physically, I have been equally attracted to men and women. Currently, I am in a gay relationship. Because I am in love with a guy, at the moment anything that reminds me of him really turns me on.

 

[Tizinsane]

Re: bi guys is it just about fucking or do you hav

I'm still trying to figure it all out.

I'm definitely sexually attracted to men. I want sex with a guy more than I want sex with a girl. In recent years, i've had alot more crushes on guys than i've had girls and I am emotionally attracted to some guys.

But at the same time, I can't picture myself in a relationship with a guy. Going out to eat, holding hands, going on romantic trips, staying together for long periods of time, that all seems weird and uncomfortable to do with a guy. At this point in my life, I can't see myself growing old with a guy.

 

[Críostóir]

Re: bi guys is it just about fucking or do you hav

In general, I end up falling for who I fall for. There's nothing I can do about that part because usually, I fall pretty hard. Always monogamous. Physically, I have been equally attracted to men and women. Currently, I am in a gay relationship. Because I am in love with a guy, at the moment anything that reminds me of him really turns me on.

*gives you a sweaty t-shirt*

 

[bi-jack-uk]

Re: bi guys is it just about fucking or do you hav

I gotta admit I'm into me purely for the 'activity'. The occasional cock excites me sexually. But thats it. In the 'love' department I'm purely into women. Some days I'm grossed out by men.

If I had to put a figure on it I'd say I'm 90% attracted to women.

That's exactly it for me too.

 

[capper269]

Re: bi guys is it just about fucking or do you hav

I don't think "casual" sex or "experimental" sex either has any bearing on ones actual orientation. But, I don't put much authority in the labels "straight" or "gay" either, because I believe that every person is a proportion of each, even if not admitted. I have known "straight" guys who have had a secret fantasy of sex with a guy perhaps one they know (or crush on), even though they are totally into women, and I have known two "straight" women who completely enjoyed themselves in a night of unabashed girl/girl action. I'm sure that there probably also exists some gay guys with a secret female sex fantasy too. The point is, it's a relative thing to each person. We need to stop placing so much power and authority in a label and instead just try to each understand and accept ourselves for who and what we are, and then use that understanding to pursue what makes us happy.

To answer the question posed, for me at least, a relationship has to exist. I have had relationships with men and women, and each have been powerful, awesome, and special. If it was just about the sex, why go through all the trouble of defining labels? Just make a hookup and be done with it, and neither partner knows (or cares) about what you label yourself.

 

[azirish]

Re: bi guys is it just about fucking or do you hav

Honestly? For me, it's 90% about the sex. Although I don't rule out the possibility that I could develop deeper feelings for a man under exactly the right circumstances.

When it comes to emotions and really getting deeply into someone, it's pretty much all women for me.

At the same time, though, I do feel like I can understand a man better quite often. Women can be cold and emotionally distant. Sometimes they don't want to communicate and it's damn near impossible to guess what they're thinking or feeling. At least with a man, even if he doesn't say it, you can make a pretty good guess.

Still. The desire for an emotional connection with a woman is strongest for me.

The last paragraph of you're posting is almost where I'm at at this point in time myself. I really like women, but since I have quite a few female friends...I don't want to deal with they're drama and egos 24/7. I would really like to try a male/male more than sex type of relationship, but I don't know if I'm there yet either.

 

[954dude]

Re: bi guys is it just about fucking or do you hav

I personally can't have casual sex, it has to be meaningful and a deep attraction. Trying to learn how not to emphasize on the romantic angle, but that's just how I feel. I'm young, single and available, but ready for something worthwhile.

 

[billberry]

hi, well to me it was all about the fucking , lol. only gay experience i have had was with a good friend and his lover. ended up having a threesome with them, with me as the sandwich , bizarrely i decided not to fuck either of them since i thought it was gay and just let them spit roast me instead which i must admit i thoroughly enjoyed.