bi men in relationships with bi women

[bangthisbi]

I was wondering if any of you bi guys have had a serious relationship with a bi woman. My ex-wife would never have gone for it, but I always wanted to share a nice hard cock with her. I pictured us looking into each others eyes as we ran our tongues up and down a huge throbbing hard on then taking turns sucking the head and shaft. I also wanted her to enjoy watching a hot young stud fuck me. I wanted her to show me how much she loved me by sucking that hot young studs cock while I watched with my ass in the air. After enjoying the taste of another man's cock for a while, she would take his meat in her hand and guide it to my awaiting asshole. After helping him slide his cock into my ass, she would sit back and get off on watching me as my ass got pounded and filled with cum. I really wanted to watch her get fucked by a monster cock. The guy pulling out from time to time so I could suck him and taste my wife on his cock is such a sexy image to me. I used to look at her and imagine fucking her while she tasted the beautiful woman sitting on her face. There are many other things that I was hot to try with my ex and other people, but she was nowhere near as sexual as me and vanilla is the only flavor I ever got.
I know there are women out there that would enjoy sharing a third party with their partner, but I haven't met one yet (not that I know of). How do you even bring that up to a woman? At what point do you ask a woman if she would like to watch a guy fuck you in the ass with his giant cock. Is a first date the right time to ask a woman if she would like to share a 9" throbbing cock for dessert.
Sorry for writing so much instead of just asking a quick question, but I really want to hear from you guys. A serious relationship with a very sexual bi woman is what I have desired for a long time and I'm just not sure what steps to take to find my perfect woman.

 

[houtx20s]

I am right there with you. Would love that.

 

[weluvit]

So, you're asking about a bisexual woman, but then you really sound like what you'd like is a woman into bisexual men.

I've been lucky enough to have a few long term relationships with women who liked bi and gay guys and it was pretty awesome while it lasted.

I married my wife on the pretense that she was in that mold and while we've had 2 bi MFM experiences, (which were spectacular), although the last one took place over 2 years ago. We've tried to get things going through online resources since then, but have been unsuccessful/scared. I'm not out, so that probably doesn't help.

It's unexpectedly tough for us meeting someone as we don't go out to bars much. Also, for the most part, the gay scene in SF doesn't seem all that accepting of bi guys, generally speaking.

To summarize - bi MFM experiences have been the most awesome sexual times I've experienced, but the problem is - you only want more and more and more different experiences. We've found it tough going so far to build something that is more than just sex. Sometimes, we'd be happy with just sex though - LOL

Here's a couple of teaser pics from my wife and I and our special friend. We played with him twice and he is absolute sexually compatible with us. He lives in Hawaii otherwise we'd see him all the time. He would want that too.

 

[bangthisbi]

First off, great pics. Thank you for sharing. Consider yourself a lucky man for a wife like that. Too bad guys are hard to find up there. You can't find a guy in SF and I would love to meet a couple in LA. If I'm ever in the bay area, I would definitely be into having some fun with you. Feel free to send me details about your experiences. I'm all ears.
I guess the best description for the type of woman I'm looking for is bi female that is accepting of bi men. Two women together gets me hot and I want to be right there in the mix with them. Threesomes are hot, but a MMFF foursome is my super fantasy.
I hope to hear a story or two from you soon.

 

[DonSimon]

I am also lucky enough to have a wife that is very open minded like that. Her and I used to have a male friend that we would have 3-somes with. I always loved when her and I would suck his cock together. My favorite thing was to be fucking her and sucking his dick at the same time. He wasn't into anal but it was always a fun time for all involved!

It has been waaaaayyyyy to long since we had a 3-some of any type.

 

[palemale]

So, you're asking about a bisexual woman, but then you really sound like what you'd like is a woman into bisexual men.

I've been lucky enough to have a few long term relationships with women who liked bi and gay guys and it was pretty awesome while it lasted.

I married my wife on the pretense that she was in that mold and while we've had 2 bi MFM experiences, (which were spectacular), although the last one took place over 2 years ago. We've tried to get things going through online resources since then, but have been unsuccessful/scared. I'm not out, so that probably doesn't help.

It's unexpectedly tough for us meeting someone as we don't go out to bars much. Also, for the most part, the gay scene in SF doesn't seem all that accepting of bi guys, generally speaking.

To summarize - bi MFM experiences have been the most awesome sexual times I've experienced, but the problem is - you only want more and more and more different experiences. We've found it tough going so far to build something that is more than just sex. Sometimes, we'd be happy with just sex though - LOL

Here's a couple of teaser pics from my wife and I and our special friend. We played with him twice and he is absolute sexually compatible with us. He lives in Hawaii otherwise we'd see him all the time. He would want that too.

Your wife has great tits!

 

[asu1117]

No, but I'd really like to.

 

[AsianDream]

I was wondering if any of you bi guys have had a serious relationship with a bi woman.

I've been in a long term poly realationship with another BI man and two BI women for nine months.

Both emotionally and sexually it's the most awesome thing that's ever happened to me.

I do worry that it may not last - but I know at the moment the others are just as comitted to the relationship as I am.

I think poly relationships are becoming more common and accepted.

I feel that being BI can be very difficult in terms of relationships. I've talked (mostly on BI sites) with people who're in a realtionship with one person - but always feel the nagging need for sex with both genders.

I know it may not be right for all BI people - but I think a group relationship is a good way to deal with being BI. It's not just that group sex is much more intense - but also I think emotionally a group of lovers is better than a realtionship with just two people.

 

[bangthisbi]

I've been in a long term poly realationship with another BI man and two BI women for nine months.

Both emotionally and sexually it's the most awesome thing that's ever happened to me.

I do worry that it may not last - but I know at the moment the others are just as comitted to the relationship as I am.

I think poly relationships are becoming more common and accepted.

I feel that being BI can be very difficult in terms of relationships. I've talked (mostly on BI sites) with people who're in a realtionship with one person - but always feel the nagging need for sex with both genders.

I know it may not be right for all BI people - but I think a group relationship is a good way to deal with being BI. It's not just that group sex is much more intense - but also I think emotionally a group of lovers is better than a realtionship with just two people.

I would definitely consider a poly relationship. I am still mainly looking for a relationship with a woman that would enjoy becoming very close with another couple. If the right poly relationship came my way, I would not hesitate to pursue it.

 

[AsianDream]

I would definitely consider a poly relationship. I am still mainly looking for a relationship with a woman that would enjoy becoming very close with another couple. If the right poly relationship came my way, I would not hesitate to pursue it.

From my own experience and talking to others - poly relationships mostly seem to start off by accident.

I'd been sexually active as "Gay Only" for 15 years before it happened - then only pure chance - I had a BI boyfriend who was a fuck buddy to a BI woman who was in a Lesbian partnership. When we all got together it was just total magic for all of us.

Also we've all got a strong shared fetish - so I don't know how well "vanilla" sex only group relationships work.

I think one problem is that once you've been in a poly relationship there's no going back. At least for BI people - You'll never be satisified again with just a "one on one" realtionship afterwards.

I've been in realtionships with other guys before - but they've never been as emotionally good as with three other lovers.

Also sexually - there are so many more sensations you can experience with more than one person - that sex with just one person can never feel as intense again afterwards.

So i guess it's a case of being carefull what you wish for - it comes with a price - but I still think poly realtionships are maybe the best way for BI people to find happiness and a stable loving relationship.

 

[bigrrl]

My two cents you're looking not for a bi-girl necessarily though we are awesome lol, but a girl who might be poly inclined. I'm a bi-girl and I only date other bisexuals it's just easier. I always like a guy to be open about his sexuality from go as I am open about mine. I think if a woman knows from the start you're bi you have a better chance of finding one who will share you're fantasies and maybe have some of her own. I think once you're in a relationship with someone you should feel comfortable sharing you're fantasies so that would be the "right" time to bring it up IMO.

 

[FuzzyWuzzy75]

My wife and I have talked about about bringing in a guy for me. She knows I like anal play. But it's never happened. I also know she's into chicks so a bi foursome isn't out of the question. Still though.... hasn't happened. (Yet)

 

[bangthisbi]

My two cents you're looking not for a bi-girl necessarily though we are awesome lol, but a girl who might be poly inclined. I'm a bi-girl and I only date other bisexuals it's just easier. I always like a guy to be open about his sexuality from go as I am open about mine. I think if a woman knows from the start you're bi you have a better chance of finding one who will share you're fantasies and maybe have some of her own. I think once you're in a relationship with someone you should feel comfortable sharing you're fantasies so that would be the "right" time to bring it up IMO.

Thank you. Your two cents are worth a million bucks.

 

[versatileplayer]

So, you're asking about a bisexual woman, but then you really sound like what you'd like is a woman into bisexual men.

I've been lucky enough to have a few long term relationships with women who liked bi and gay guys and it was pretty awesome while it lasted.

I married my wife on the pretense that she was in that mold and while we've had 2 bi MFM experiences, (which were spectacular), although the last one took place over 2 years ago. We've tried to get things going through online resources since then, but have been unsuccessful/scared. I'm not out, so that probably doesn't help.

It's unexpectedly tough for us meeting someone as we don't go out to bars much. Also, for the most part, the gay scene in SF doesn't seem all that accepting of bi guys, generally speaking.

To summarize - bi MFM experiences have been the most awesome sexual times I've experienced, but the problem is - you only want more and more and more different experiences. We've found it tough going so far to build something that is more than just sex. Sometimes, we'd be happy with just sex though - LOL

Here's a couple of teaser pics from my wife and I and our special friend. We played with him twice and he is absolute sexually compatible with us. He lives in Hawaii otherwise we'd see him all the time. He would want that too.

Wow you are BOTH really fucking hot. So you guys are in SF?

 

[weluvit]

Thanks. Yes, SF. What about you?

 

[versatileplayer]

Thanks. Yes, SF. What about you?

Only about 2500 miles from there right now. Used to live in Los Angeles. Oddly enough, I don't know the gay scene really well in SF. But in LA there are bi clubs - even bi sex clubs and stuff..... lots of bi action.

When I went to University of Wisconsin, my roommate - who later became my bf - and I had an interesting relationship with a bi-lesbian couple..... we each had one of them as our "girl friend" and we never switched girls but we had some 4 way action, and my bf wasn't jealous and niether was my gf ..... but that was in school and people are more open to things at that time of life, and who knows if that kind of thing works well in adult relationships.....

Wish I was closer -you guys sound like a lot of fun.

My husband now is not into girls AT ALL.... so when I have bi-sex - it's usually without him - and that kind of sucks because he's my favorite male lover.....

 

[bangthisbi]

Only about 2500 miles from there right now. Used to live in Los Angeles. Oddly enough, I don't know the gay scene really well in SF. But in LA there are bi clubs - even bi sex clubs and stuff..... lots of bi action..

I'm in L.A. and want to know more about the bi clubs. Please hit me up with details. Thanks

 

[AsianDream]

When I went to University of Wisconsin, my roommate - who later became my bf - and I had an interesting relationship with a bi-lesbian couple..... we each had one of them as our "girl friend" and we never switched girls but we had some 4 way action, and my bf wasn't jealous and niether was my gf ..... but that was in school and people are more open to things at that time of life, and who knows if that kind of thing works well in adult relationships.....

I’m in an adult poly relationship (MMFF) – for about 10 months so far – and it does seem to work.

Not just the totally awesome sex – but also very good emotionally. In the past I’ve been in “one on one” relationships (with other guys) – there’s always been conflict – with the four of us we never argue - it just seems to work.

Just from a purely sexual point of view – in poly sex you tend to take turns in being the centre of attention – it’s just way more intense than sex with just one person (at least for me).

 

[versatileplayer]

I'm in L.A. and want to know more about the bi clubs. Please hit me up with details. Thanks

Throw up a post on Craig's list - it's been a long time since I've lived in LA.

 

[versatileplayer]

I’m in an adult poly relationship (MMFF) – for about 10 months so far – and it does seem to work.

Not just the totally awesome sex – but also very good emotionally. In the past I’ve been in “one on one” relationships (with other guys) – there’s always been conflict – with the four of us we never argue - it just seems to work.

Just from a purely sexual point of view – in poly sex you tend to take turns in being the centre of attention – it’s just way more intense than sex with just one person (at least for me).

I've been with my hubby for many years now - and he's not jealous at all. The trouble I've run into with females, is that they might accept that I like men, but they get attached to me and then get frustrated when they can't break me and my hubby up....

So - I keep things on a strictly sexual level with women.... and that works out better. If I think they are starting to get all starry eyed - I quit seeing them - usually by making lots of excuses why I'm just not able to get together with them...... I am really in love with my husband and I never want to leave him.

Also - if it's a married mf couple - that works out good ..... they are just in it for the sex and friendship.