Bi/ Str8/Gay

[Rex]

With the information you've given us, nobody is really going to be able to answer that.

He's probably gay in some kind of denial or bi.

 

[Jihiro]

At any rate, you should stop putting so much stock into labels and orientation and just start enjoying yourself ^_^

 

[Txgoodoldboy]

Hey everyone this is my first time posting and I have a little problem. I'm 21 and bi, but I'm not really sure because I'm still trying to find out who I am. I met this guy who is 24 and is totally chill and won't tell me his orientation. In any event, we hung out on Friday night and had some drinks and what not and then we started fooling around. We eventually went to his bedroom and had some good fun, both of us enjoyed it and I stayed over his house for the night. My question is, is this guy gay or bi? He tells me that he's looking for a "human" and the he never hooks up with guys. I mean I really like him because he is not your typical guy- but I don't know what to make of the situation. Any input would be appreciated.

-T

Since he hooked up with you, and you are a human, I would say he is bi. I don't think I would worry about it. Enjoy! If it happens again, great, if not, you had a good experience. Live and let live.

 

[PhoenixRandall]

He's most likely bi although it could be gay denial too.

Many people don't believe in labels on their sexual orientation - they are neither straight, nor gay, bi or something else - they are just sexual beings and don't mind men or women...they just like sex in general.

 

[racer2438]

At any rate, you should stop putting so much stock into labels and orientation and just start enjoying yourself ^_^

Oh how well said.
Why does he have to tell you his orientation, it's no ones bussiness but his and he chooses who and who not to tell.

He may be bi or he may be gay trying to come out.

Leave it to him to decide were and when and whom.

jusy enjoy your friendship.

 

[mike_n_herrin]

They guys are right. Don't label right now. you have time to figure it out. sounds like the guy is into you regardless of what he labels himself. you didn't say how long you've known the guy. if it's not very long that is part of why you don't know (you maybe have not given yourself time to get to know him or he you for that matter).

 

[kramer362]

I know labels seem superficial but sometimes it's necessary in finding out what someone wants, as with this guy. It sounds like he's pansexual or bisexual. But what's more important than a label like that is finding out what he wants out of a relationship with you (friendship? benefts, romantic?), and if he doesn't mind people knowing...

 

[sallto]

I'm gay, but not out, and for like a week now I'm really considering to fucking explode out of that closet

 

[flixelblix]

I knew a guy once who was openly gay. He was crying to my wife about his latest boyfriend who dumped him because the boyfriend decided he wasn't gay after all and wanted to go find a girlfriend.