Bi?

[GayLad87]

I do class myself as a gay man and have done so since I was about 13, but lately I'm starting to find women attractive. Is that normal at my age or rare? I'm 30 btw.

 

[SeaCore]

It's not unheard of for sexuality to be described as 'fluid'. I don't know how common it is for someone's sexuality change but it's something other people describe happening to them and it shouldn't entail a negative outcome. Bisexual people, in particular, experience shifts in who they're attracted to and to what degree fairly regularly.

There appears to be a strong connection to hormones as well, trans people frequently report their sexuality changing after starting HRT. So it might not be a bad idea to check in on your levels the next time you visit the doctor; just in case there's something going on there, shouldn't hurt right?.

 

[ballcaphair]

I started out straight, but thought I was gay. After a couple of gay experiences, I thought I was gay. A 3 way with a college roommate and his girl confirmed I'm a switch hitter. I'd been all inside my head at sea with my confusion and emotions. Take a deep breath and go play "safe" with whomever you please. I, personally go through preference cycles, but I'm pretty much always horny. Don't get inside your head. Just do what you do and enjoy every minute. Smile a little too.

 

[KaraBulut]

I do class myself as a gay man and have done so since I was about 13, but lately I'm starting to find women attractive. Is that normal at my age or rare? I'm 30 btw.

The question is, "Why haven't you found women attractive before now?".

Most people have attractions to both genders. It's a matter of degrees and what feels right for you- physically, emotionally, etc.

 

[GayLad87]

I don't think my sexuality has changed as such. And I find woman's bodies more attractive than woman's faces and women as a whole. It started by watching trans porn vids and now I'm on to watching pussy squirting vids. Maybe I'm just a horny slut?

 

[TX-Beau]

I've only found one woman attractive and that was more of a Sympatico thing than a she gave me raging wood kinda thing.

I've had sex with a few women though, back in the closet - which was not unpleasant. Totally gay however, and if there weren't closet reasons, I doubt I'd have ever gone looking for women.

The things that interest me sexually do shift. Sometimes it's tall dark and handsome, I went through a short stocky blonde phase - in my thirties I wouldn't date anyone under thirty, now in my forties twinkies have more appeal.

Who knows, you may be just going through a bisexual thing. So long as you are careful and don't fuck with people's hearts, enjoy yourself.

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Oh btw, I'm a total slutty bitch. Welcome.

 

[RhyRhy]

I only had sex with guys until my late 20’s. Then my ex Girlfriend from high school and I hooked up and it’s only been her since. Still attracted to guys, but just haven’t seeked anyone of either sex out for a serious long term relationship.

 

[novastar]

Forget the labels, sexuality is fluid.

 

[xyxyxy]

Forget the labels, sexuality is fluid.

Very true

 

[xyxyxy]

I do class myself as a gay man and have done so since I was about 13, but lately I'm starting to find women attractive. Is that normal at my age or rare? I'm 30 btw.

You sound like the opposite of me. I always viewed myself as straight. I didn't have curious thoughts until my mid 30s

 

[jashir]

Forget the labels, sexuality is fluid.

Yeah, I love this. I identify as gay now, but onluy because spo many people wanted a label, lol. In my teens I was attracted (and mortified by) girls and guys. I jerked off to both. Girls mortified me most, as there were so many expectations placed on guys (that I did not meet--like being aggressive and exaggerating my masculinity; I was a sensitive soul).

As a teen I considered myself straight, and then bi. But people refused the "bi" label. Both girls and gay guys rejected that claim, and insisted I had to be one or the other. I tried to stand my ground but noticed I was lacking dates the more I stuck to being bi. So I considered and said, well it ieasier for me to have sex with guys, so I must be more gay than straight, Hence, gay.

Yet, at 45, I still love many things about girls that I dont get from guys. I havent had sex with a girl for over 20 years (they still mortify me, lol), but I jerk off to an image of vid on occasion.

OP: it is normal, you are normal. Enjoy the blessing -- you have twice the chance of getting laid when you go out, lol! (Or twice the chance of meeting that right person for a relationship). Depending, of course, on how comrtable you become with eitehr attraction.

 

[TX-Beau]

Yeah, forget that "no labels" bullshit, all language is one huge exercise in labeling and it's telling when people only care about the labels that require them to admit they like cock.

You like cock, you like twat, you're bi, so be it. You can be one thing today and one thing tomorrow, and something else the day after.

 

[imariver]

I do class myself as a gay man and have done so since I was about 13, but lately I'm starting to find women attractive. Is that normal at my age or rare? I'm 30 btw.

Does it REALLY make any difference? Ask yourself, "What is normal?" When you figure that out, you'll be able to answer your own question.

 

[novastar]

I'm attracted to girls, too, but I've always sucked at the "game." I get along easier with men.

 

[ncaladv]

I don't think my sexuality has changed as such. And I find woman's bodies more attractive than woman's faces and women as a whole. It started by watching trans porn vids and now I'm on to watching pussy squirting vids. Maybe I'm just a horny slut?

I feel like I'm going through the same thing--just opposite direction. I could say the same thing... Just switch genders, I find men's bodies more attractive than their faces...it started watching trans porn...and now I'm watching gay porn, especially really going at it (anal, oral, threesomes and identify with both participants...now not a girl in site). I go through cycles.

I think it's interesting that you seem as fluild too. It adds to the uncertainty of whether, I should go for it or not, or am I just horny?

I'm curious if women, seem more available to you right now?

 

[7-inch]

I had no interest in women whatsoever since I was 13 and by the age of 21 you could say that I started feeling more attracted to women than I am to men, but during the years to follow, my attraction was somewhat 50-50. I'm currently 24 and I'm equally attracted to both men and women.

 

[boyfox]

I began having sex when I was 13 with my older male cousin and loved that for quite a while. I didn't experience hetro sex until my early twenties, it was ok and then I had a romantic relationship with a gay male and that convinced me that I was innately gay from age 13 and before.

 

[willhunt]

I'm straight, was curious once, but am definitely straight. I'm a gymrat and I always see men as beautiful. We check all guys out. ALL guys. Some are breathtaking. I recommend you do whatever makes you feel happy and beautiful. Also stay out of your your melon on the horny thing. We're men so we're horny.