DeadRussianSpaceMonkey
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altlover85, I really do understand where you are coming from, but all I really thought I should say is that generally older men dating young kids that age, have other intentions in mind, and those intentions are usually not building towards a future together and shouldn't that be a the goal of a relationship to share and build a bond for the long term along side of intimacy and sex? My point is generally kids this young are naive enough to think that there dating experience is going to lead to something more, and they usually end up hurt. I have seen very few younger / significantly older relationships that are legitimate. So, do I think it's going to work, probably not. It could. Although, I think his chances are low. Just hopefully he'll be able to pick up if it's just all an illusion or if he has something of real substance with this guy. It seems to me like he has growing up to do as it is. Idk.
@Drew.
"Wait, so do you think I should try it or not? You're saying one thing, then telling me to do something completely opposite."
You are going to do as you like anyways. So, all I was doing is tell you to be careful if you decide to go through with it.- Which I was assuming that you probably would when I wrote my response. Seems like you still will. So, be careful, and I am really interested in how this turns out. So keep me updated? Maybe in 3-6 months to a year? Although, i'd be shocked if it hits the year mark.
"How do you know this? Have you spoken to him, or had a conversation of substance with him? I think it's rather idiotic of you to make such an ignorant comment. Don't assume that because someone of a certain age has accomplished x amount."
You aren't open minded at all.- Does he have a career, does he have his own place? Probably.
Other questions you might want to ask-
When was his last relationship? Is he fresh out of one? How many relationships has he been in before? What was his longest relationship?
"I didn't ask to be told that what I want to do is immoral, pointless or lacking value."
If this is what you truly understood out of what I wrote- Than, I'm very sorry, and I wish you the best of luck with dating this guy. Hopefully, he's your soulmate.
You are the first person that has ever called me a bigot. <3
@Drew.
"Wait, so do you think I should try it or not? You're saying one thing, then telling me to do something completely opposite."
You are going to do as you like anyways. So, all I was doing is tell you to be careful if you decide to go through with it.- Which I was assuming that you probably would when I wrote my response. Seems like you still will. So, be careful, and I am really interested in how this turns out. So keep me updated? Maybe in 3-6 months to a year? Although, i'd be shocked if it hits the year mark.
"How do you know this? Have you spoken to him, or had a conversation of substance with him? I think it's rather idiotic of you to make such an ignorant comment. Don't assume that because someone of a certain age has accomplished x amount."
You aren't open minded at all.- Does he have a career, does he have his own place? Probably.
Other questions you might want to ask-
When was his last relationship? Is he fresh out of one? How many relationships has he been in before? What was his longest relationship?
"I didn't ask to be told that what I want to do is immoral, pointless or lacking value."
If this is what you truly understood out of what I wrote- Than, I'm very sorry, and I wish you the best of luck with dating this guy. Hopefully, he's your soulmate.
You are the first person that has ever called me a bigot. <3
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Thanks for your concern Croy! At this point we're just friends. A second date/get together has yet to be set up. Maybe sometime in the near future. But, I'll be sure to update with anything new!
