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BIG night for me in the coming out process!

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I'm about to tell my first straight friend that I'm into guys.

He just called and asked me if I was going to our mutual friend's party tonight. He has known the kid since third grade. I, however, know him from the gay clubs. My friend says "The only thing is, there's going to be a lot of gay dudes there". I said of "course there is, thats fine"... and he said he wasnt sure if I'd care or not. My friend is completely straight, and apparently slightly dense, as to think I cared about a party with a bunch of cute gay dudes LOL.

But... in any case... I'm coming out to my first straight friend on the way to the party. I'm nervous, but hopefully this will be a big step in being honest with my friends. I know he won't have a problem with it, and there are a select few I know would be cool with it that I also plan to tell soon.

Wish me luck!
 
Good luck tonite. Be sure to come back here and let us know how it went
 
That's great! I'm glad that you are being careful with whom you are sharing to start off. I hope you enjoy the freedom of honesty. Let us know - and know that we do support you!
 
Good luck----why do it on a night where you have plans together---he may need time to "digest".
 
hey..good luck ...may be there's alot of luck from ur str8 friend ....
 
Update!!!

The whole way to the party, I was waiting for the right time to tell him. We parked a bit far from the house, and I was going to tell him on the walk to the house, but he started talking about something and I couldn't do it.

So we go into the party, it was 4 other gay guys (one couple, two single dudes) and two girls. The couple started making out, and I tried to get a read on my friends reaction, but I couldn't. My friend having the party kept telling me to tell him already, and I kept trying, but the time was never right. So, instead, I let him see my true self completely. I didnt hold anything back, got close to some of the guys, etc. I even mentioned that I went to the gay club the night before.

So we were watching a movie, and my friend having the party cuddled up with me a bit on the bed while my friend layed on the floor. We ended up jerking eachother off and sucking eachother while my friend was laying there watching the movie.

On the way home he's like "that wasn't as gay as I thought it would be, there were only 4 gay dudes there".... so I was like "actually there were 5." He's like,who's the fifth... so... I told him. He's like "dude I don't support that at all, but I wont tell you what to do with your dick and you dont tell me what to do with mine". Not the reaction I was hoping for, but I think it was out of pure shock, as he said he had "no fucking idea!" . Eventually he started asking questions about if its just a thought or if I knew, and I was very honest with him. I told him I had dated a guy, and I told him everything he wanted to know. I told him there were no more secrets, and asked for him to respect me and not tell anyone else.

By the end of the night we were talking about everything except my sexuality, and it was all back to normal. Tomorrow, I tell the second kid I wanted to come out to this past weekend, our mutual friend Josh. I wanted to tell them at the same time, but it didn't exactly work out like that.
 
Well...uh, I guess you certainly weren't discreet. But kudos!
 
LOL, it definatley would have been an intersting way to come out if he looked over while my friend was sucking me off haha. We were under the covers the whole time, then for some reason my friend pulled htem off for a second, and in that second my straight friend looked over and started talking to us. Both of us were totally exposed, but apparently he saw NOTHING. I was sure he did, and that's why I didn't think it would be much of a surprise when I told him I was gay....
 
Congratulations! Your friend doesn't sound like a rocket scientist, but he does sound like a good friend. He probably noticed some clues, but rejected them out of denial. His initial reaction was a little funny, but maybe he was just trying to say he wasn't gay, not that he doesn't support you. I know I have said things that were totally not what I meant. Good luck with the second friend!
 
Thanks guys! Myself and the first friend are hanging out with our other friend in a bit, I'll let you know how that one goes.

On another note, one of the other guys at the party really wants to cuddle tonight lol... I should bring straight friends with me more often, apparently it's somehow good for getting guys. lol
 
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