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[KaraBulut]

I'm glad that it ended up working out so well for you.

Revenge is a dish best served cold. Never forget it.

Your little brother did something bad but you were mature enough to turn something bad into something good.

Hopefully, you are feeling like a weight has been lifted off of your shoulders. And hopefully, this opens the door for your parents to be a part of your life as you begin to date, have boyfriends and someday settle down with a partner who becomes part of your family.

 

[nsguy2]

Congratulations, Matt, you're a courageous young man and your parents should be commended for accepting their child for who he is.

 

[jaydizzo]

congrats matt18

and just whoop your little brother ass plz

 

[Mike1984]

if any of my brothers had pulled that kind of stunt I'd have beaten the crap out of them..he's just lucky you're such a nice guy.

 

[Love_chair]

Am glad everything worked out Matt.

 

[tallguy297]

Damn Matt,

I've had to be away for a week and you go and transform your world!!!!!

Congratulations mate!!!! It would have been my advice to you and I would have guessed that you would have chosen that path too in your own time! You would have taken all the good advice you have given out here yourself and used it... Awesome job buddy!! I hope you feel really proud of yourself!!!!

I'm glad your olds took it so well too... they see a very special guy who also happens to be their son as well. Its just more confirmation that the guy we see here is the real deal!

Now mate, give your brother a lift under the lug hole and then get on with living your life the way you deserve too... happy, proud and confident!!!

 

[michaelarchangel]

Well Matt you rolled the dice and came out ahead. With any luck you and your brother will have a pint and a laugh about this many years from now. Keep close to your family, including your little brother, if he didn't like you he wouldn't torture you. He just has a weird way of showing it. Trust me if your parents handled it ok, then your brother will come around. Just be cool though because he is now faced with having to defend his gay brother...something he probably wasn't planning on having to deal with. He may even have some trouble in school over it. I so be a big brother and watch out for him. As for you personally...I don't know you but you seem like a level headed person who will have no problems finding a boyfriend when the time is right.
Cheers

 

[Gooey45]

give your mom a big hug and tell her youll always be her baby and that this is a very critical time in your life and that you appreciate all the support and hard work she put in to make you such a happy person.Just thank both of them cuz not all of us have accepting parents like that ,you got lucky. Even though i love my parents i know this wouldn't be accepted by them . Be happy that its over with and now you dont have to hide your safe celebrate!!!

 

[BillyCanCum]

I have told her I appreciate the support. She has asked some weird questions but shes ok now.

I don't usually spend time in this part of JUB, but after reading your exchange with HR, I wanted to check up on your latest and stumbled on this. I am not a guy to offer advice. Each guy figures this out or doesn't based on how his life is going. It sounds like you did the same. I just wanted you to know we were thinking and talking about you. A lot of guys care about what you're going through.

Now get out there and get a kick-ass hot boyfriend so when your mom asks those weird questions you got something to tell her! Moms do ask the most ??? questions sometimes.

Good luck and I like your story too.

 

[KaraBulut]

Matt18:

That's great news on the boyfriend.

How are your parents doing?

 

[tallguy297]

Great work Matt! Its awesome to see you happy!

Take your time, dont rush things, learn a little about yourself and your guy... soak it all in. Enjoy what it means to be able to be free and do this stuff...

Take care of yourself and your heart... but have a great time opening yourself up to love and happiness too!

Proud of you mate!!!

 

[pocono]

Somehow I just found this whole thread.

Wow... what a story and what a cool ending. Congratulations Matt!

Well Matt you rolled the dice and came out ahead. With any luck you and your brother will have a pint and a laugh about this many years from now. Keep close to your family, including your little brother, if he didn't like you he wouldn't torture you. He just has a weird way of showing it. Trust me if your parents handled it ok, then your brother will come around. Just be cool though because he is now faced with having to defend his gay brother...something he probably wasn't planning on having to deal with. He may even have some trouble in school over it. I so be a big brother and watch out for him. As for you personally...I don't know you but you seem like a level headed person who will have no problems finding a boyfriend when the time is right.
Cheers

But I do have one question...did you beat up your little brother?

Just kidding (sort of)!

Congratulations again!

 

[KennyD]

Sorry Matt; BUT your brother was NOT helping you and he did NOT think so .
YOU won HIS game and since he cannot blackmail you anymore decided to preetend he was trying to help you ... What a piece of work !!
Don't fall into his little trap about how he was helping ... Bull Shit ! I'd NEVER trust that little piece of crap again and certainly NEVER do any favors for him again ..
ALSO: If you have your own computer ... put a password on the administrator so NO ONE can get into it .
By the way .. CoNGRATS for coming out to your parents .. That took some Big Balls !!