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Bimarried guy looking for tips in gym hookups
Halifaxboy8 said:
There are a 1001 reasons why someone would want to go outside of their relationship. Speaking in absolutes isn't a good way to go about life, and limits your understanding of others. You aren't walking in this guys shoes, or anyone else's aside from your own. Bringing judgement here just underlines your ignorance and intolerance. It's nonconstructive.

I know many people that go outside of their marriage for one reason or another. Some of them I disagree with, but its not my place to wag a finger at them. How does that help? I also know people that live very closeted lives due to work and family pressures and expectations. Other people I know got married early, have kids and love their family dearly then came out much later in life. There are many reasons why someone would go outside of their marriage.
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Just because there are many reasons to go outside a marriage, and cheat does not make it right. It still is wrong. I wonder how would the OP feel if his wife was cheating on him? Maybe she should go, and hook up with men, and other women cause apparently he is not satisfied with her.And she should know that. Look OP. if you have the balls to go fuck a man behind your wife's back, then you should grow another pair of balls, look your wife dead in her face, and tell that she's has a vagina, you are no longer attracted to vaginas, women disgust you, and then serve her divorce papers. Stop being a little boy grow up, be a gay man tell your wife, and start filing for divorce papers
 
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Stop the "don't cheat" advice bullshit. The OP didn't ask for that advice.
 
Jack Springer said:
Why do you post here rareboy if you don't give a fuck about anyone and what they do. That's being hypocritical to your own twisted views on relationships.

Cheating is never a good thing. The OP expressed that he wanted to cheat.
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No. You and your new BF Medusa are the ones who have it wrong.

This forum and this thread aren't about you two coming in here and moralizing or chastising the OP and giving him marriage advice.

You don't know Jack shit about him or his marriage.

If you don't want to stick to the point of the thread, then you are the ones that should butt the fuck out.

Okay?
 
Telstra said:
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Stop the "don't cheat" advice bullshit. The OP didn't ask for that advice.
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"any comments are welcome" ... I guess you missed that part.
 
rareboy said:
No. You and your new BF Medusa are the ones who have it wrong.

This forum and this thread aren't about you two coming in here and moralizing or chastising the OP and giving him marriage advice.

You don't know Jack shit about him or his marriage.

If you don't want to stick to the point of the thread, then you are the ones that should butt the fuck out.

Okay?
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The point of the thread is that the guy wants a way to get action outside of his marriage. He told us he was married.

Almost sounds like you're in a position where you trying to justify cheating on a spouse.

.. just saying.
 
Halifaxboy8 said:
There are a 1001 reasons why someone would want to go outside of their relationship. Speaking in absolutes isn't a good way to go about life, and limits your understanding of others. You aren't walking in this guys shoes, or anyone else's aside from your own. Bringing judgement here just underlines your ignorance and intolerance. It's nonconstructive.

I know many people that go outside of their marriage for one reason or another. Some of them I disagree with, but its not my place to wag a finger at them. How does that help? I also know people that live very closeted lives due to work and family pressures and expectations. Other people I know got married early, have kids and love their family dearly then came out much later in life. There are many reasons why someone would go outside of their marriage.
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If you're cheating .. you don't love your spouse or your kids. You love yourself.
 
Well anyway, back to reality.

I'm not one for labels and I sure as hell can recognize that if you're messing around with someone of your own gender, you're not straight. That being said, it does not mean you are gay or bi or whatever. If you want to suck your buddy's cock every once in a while and go back to your wife to eat her out and still call yourself straight, who the fuck the cares; if that helps you sleep at night, more power to you.

This whole married bi dude thing is quite common....

I have hung our with a group a dudes many times who are all married with kids, they all consider themselves straight and are not all that welcoming or accepting of gay people.
Their usual thing to do every other other Saturday night is to get together, watch some sports, play poker, drink beer and top the night off with some porn where they all usually end up naked, stroking and sucking each other off. They chalk it all up to "being drunk."

The kicker here is these guys are really good friends, they've known each other since grade school so most likely were doing this when they were going through puberty etc. and to top it all off, their wives know they do this. The wives are fully aware they jack off together and their wives are completely ok with this. The wives just see it as something that guys do, no different than getting together to go see a ball game. These people are not fresh out of high school or college either, they are in their late twenties to mid-thirties.

I know all this goes down because I have taken part in a few of these "guys nights" and once a few of their wives finally told me they are fully aware of what goes on when the boys get together I finally asked them what they thought. A couple of the wives laughed and told me it reminds them of being drunk in college when some of the girls would have "slumber parties." Two of them told me they find the thought of the guys getting together to jack off and possibly mess around a little is hot. One wife told me the turn on is the equivalent of men having a fetish for watching two women together. After that I guess I didn't really feel bad or guilty about it all since their wives know about it and seem to be ok with it. I still think it's weird that the wives know, but if it turns them, what the hell...besides my main buddy of the group is a ginger, we workout together and he has a beautiful fat cock that feels awesome in my hand.

This is just one example of one group of friends that I hang with. These people consider themselves good church-going Christians btw.
 
Thanks for all of your comments...even the inimitable Medusa....she sure doesn't mince words... and gave me much to consider even if she didn't know my circumstances......from the comments I do have the impression that meeting at the gym is fraught with too many possible complications that I'd rather avoid, so I'll be going about meeting at places/sites other than where I work out....
 
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