Birthday present.

[190E]

OKay guys, I have a question tos ee what you guys think of this, keeping in mind that I dont have any money until next friday, yes pay weeks suck. So, anyway my beautiful man's birthday is monday, I told him I had to go back to work sunday night, what he doesnt know is that I will be at his party on monday, and I have been trying to think of things to do for him. Being that he is a dancer, I decided that maybe the best thing would be to give him a dance show since he's always doing them for everyone else, but this is a private one, not like the type he preforms. Being that we havent really done 'anything' yet, basically on my behalf, because I asked him to wait, and he honored that, I figured this would be a nice lead in to that. Then after this dance, we could go to his birthday party, or should I do it after the party? I want it to be special for him, and I want him to enjoy it, so I got one of his other dancers who does dance moves to help me set up the whole deal and help me with some moves, you know candles pillows, and just him and I, the whole thing. What do you guys think of that? Is there anything else I can do or that you think I should do?

 

[_AJ_]

that is very sweet
im sure he will love the effort you have gone to

you shold probably do it before the party after you guys maybe a little drunk or whatever but if you were fine to do it after then after would be good

 

[metta]

That is a great idea. I think that you should do it prior to the party. After the party, he may be too tired or drunk to enjoy it as much.

- make him lunch/dinner
- take a romantic bath together
- make him a card and a custom certificate w/ an iou .........., fill in the blank with whatever sexual/non-sexual thing you would like. Include a short note telling him how you feel about him.
- candles would be a nice touch

 

[gmoney]

I think your idea is brilliant! The best gifts are the ones that come from the heart and not some department store. I too, suggest giving this gift before the party. You don't know how the party might wind up and he might not be able to fully appreciate your lovely gift.

 

[Orlandude]

Great idea! I agree with the other guys. You don't have to have a lot of money to show how you feel. When I look back on past birthdays, while I appreciated the gifts from everyone, it was the simple gifts and homemade ones that made a lasting impression and I always remember them. One friend made me a tray of food, all of which he prepared himself. One friend gave me a bouquet of balloons, the number of which were my age. He decorated each balloon by hand. Another came over and put up a fence for me all by himself, without being asked. I had the fence but would have had to pay someone to install it. That was his gift to me. Those are things I never forget. They come from the heart and say "I care". Yes, the store bought gifts were very nice, and appreciated, but they didn't mean as much.

 

[sexylad]

Excellent idea... you don't have to spend loads of money to make someone's birthday special

 

[metta]

Your Song





It's a little bit funny this feeling inside
I'm not one of those who can easily hide
I don't have much money but boy if I did
I'd buy a big house where we both could live

If I was a sculptor, but then again, no
Or a man who makes potions in a travelling show
I know it's not much but it's the best I can do
My gift is my song and this one's for you

And you can tell everybody this is your song
It may be quite simple but now that it's done
I hope you don't mind
I hope you don't mind that I put down in words
How wonderful life is while you're in the world

I sat on the roof and kicked off the moss
Well a few of the verses well they've got me quite cross
But the sun's been quite kind while I wrote this song
It's for people like you that keep it turned on

So excuse me forgetting but these things I do
You see I've forgotten if they're green or they're blue
Anyway the thing is what I really mean
Yours are the sweetest eyes I've ever seen


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Music by Elton John
Lyrics by Bernie Taupin
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[gmoney]

^ Metta, you couldn't have chosen a better song! I hope his present to his man is just as sweet! I love to see romance working so well!

 

[190E]

lol, that is a good song, I was kinda thinking since he enjoys the whole older R&B songs, he would enjoy boys II men's Thank You in Advance.

(excuse me, I know we just met But may I have this dance? )
Sitting here with a drink in my hand Your presence I cant ignore I must admit I like watching you dance But it seems like Ive seen this before Girl, you look like my first wife Though Ive never been married before So I kiss your hand and tell you thank you You turn and ask me what for

1 - for our first kiss on next week for when we make love in six weeks for the ring you wore proudly three months from now for when you said i do next march and for those beautiful children of ours yes, I know it might sound strange cuz we just met but I thank you in advance

(shawn, help me sing it)
Hi, my name is shawn Tell me your name Although I know the last one Its funny that were shaking hands [wait a minute, I know this hand] Its the same hand (Ill hold in front of a minister) Same hand (when youre havin my son and his sister) I dont mean to sound so bold and forward But I thank you in advance

Repeat 1

Its like I came back in time to tell you thank you Youre as beautiful then as you are now Look in the mirror, there is a picture of you and the man you love

Repeat 1

Repeat 1

I, i, i, i, i I thank you in advance, ooh Ooh ooh ooh

 

[pjlikesporn]

Just give him the dance AT THE PARTY--show all the guests just how much your man's man cares for him.

 

[190E]

Just give him the dance AT THE PARTY--show all the guests just how much your man's man cares for him.

I plan on dancing with him at the party, but I want this to be special, just the two of us, and no one else, the alone time we get is very precious, being the nature of the business he's in, and being very busy, any time we can get alone is needed.

 

[190E]

OKay, so I showed up and surprised him at the party, he thought I wasnt coming, he had no clue I was there, I hid in a closet in a room ladened with candle light and rose pedals. There was a pathway of roses and candles that led to a chair, my friend put the music on, and said, I'm going to go get your "stripper", I waited about twenty seconds, and pushed the doors of the closet wide open, started to sing, and he jumped up out of the chair, and didnt even let me do my preformance, he was more thrilled with the fact that I was there. Apparently it's the best birthday present he's ever gotten, according to him.

 

[antdak]

Thats is sooooo sweet, glad you two had a great birthday! He's lucky to have you! Here's to many more birthdays together!

 

[metta]

Awwwww.....that is even better.
Glad to hear that it was a wonderful day!

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[pjlikesporn]

For some reason, I really wanted you to get to do your dance in front of everyone. I'm sorry he stopped you.

But I'm glad he had a terrific birthday, and I'm glad that made you happy.