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Bisexual = Cheater?

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I had an interesting thought earlier, when responding to another "My bf is bi so he'll cheat on me" thread.

Most people when they think of bisexuals, think of someone who is attracted to both sexes.....
I think it might help to look at it from another angle.


A Bisexual is someone who is not turned off by either sex!


I think this might be an interesting way of looking at it.

What do you guys think?

Joshua
 
I don't think, I know I have become more honests discovering my bisexuality. Not sure if its the bad rap Bi's get,but I have never cheated.EVER.I've done alot of things I am not proud of in my life,but I can look myself in the mirror everyday and know that I have never and never will cheat.

There are alot of myths and lies about bisexuals.People are ignorant. One of my gay friends said something that really makes you think. He said Homosexuality and heterosexuality are the two extremes and most people fall right in the middle. I like that and use it often when trying to explain my bisexuality. Some bi's are different. Some like sex with men and are attracted to both sexes,but want a woman to settle down with. others just enjoy both and see not settling down at all. For me, I just want someone to give my heart to. It could be a man or woman. I do not think true love recognizes gender. Bisexuals are capable of loving both sexes.
 
Cheating or not, it depends on the person, not their sexuality.
 
You don't have to be bisexual to cheat. I know plenty of gay guys that cheat and plenty of heterosexual's that cheat.

I fear dating a bisexual only because I'm insecure and I would be worried that he would get tired of gay sex and want to fuck a pussy. Thats my fear. Because how can a person who's sexual attracted to both sexes commit to one sex?? I'm not talking about committing until you break up. I'm talking about a committed relationship that doesn't end.

Do those even exist anymore....??? Guess thats a topic for another thread.
 
Just because someone is bisexual, doesnt make them a cheater. Being a cheater means making a conscious decion to disrespect and hurt your partner by doing something (probably sexually) with another. it happens too many times in the LGBT community and i for one am sick of cheaters! it may just be me, but after my experiences of being cheated on, i wont ever date someone who has cheated in the past, even if they feel bad about it. it just shows what kind of person they are. thats just my take on it though.
 
I find the assumption of bisexuals cheating on their partners offensive. Yes, it happens, but I hear my straight coworkers talking about things like going around behind their partners' backs all the time.

I think, however, it's the fear of not being the exclusive lover that bothers some people. I think also that the people who are so paranoid they're going to get cheated on need to reevaluate their relationships. For instance, if they plan to spend every day making up fictional scenarios in their heads about how their boyfriend's going to leave them for a woman, maybe they should think about their issues with trusting other people.
 
Romantico said:
I don't think, I know I have become more honests discovering my bisexuality. Not sure if its the bad rap Bi's get,but I have never cheated.EVER.I've done alot of things I am not proud of in my life,but I can look myself in the mirror everyday and know that I have never and never will cheat.

There are alot of myths and lies about bisexuals.People are ignorant. One of my gay friends said something that really makes you think. He said Homosexuality and heterosexuality are the two extremes and most people fall right in the middle. I like that and use it often when trying to explain my bisexuality. Some bi's are different. Some like sex with men and are attracted to both sexes,but want a woman to settle down with. others just enjoy both and see not settling down at all. For me, I just want someone to give my heart to. It could be a man or woman. I do not think true love recognizes gender. Bisexuals are capable of loving both sexes.
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Well said man.i agree with u.all bisex guys are the same.some bisex guys do remain faithful and commited to their respective partners either it's wiv a guy or a gul.i recon that bisex guys are capable of loving both sexes...

i know a bisex guy who when nver looked n dated any gul as long as he was commited to his Gay boyfriend.hats off this guy.i really apreciate him.
 
I think it depends on the situation. If you have a girlfriend and you go your seperate ways, you look for another girlfriend. If you're bisexual, you may find a boyfriend for a while and if it doesn't work out, you move on. Doesn't mean you cheat, it just means you are a switch hitter.
 
Let' be honest; there are cheaters in every category. I never thought of myself as anything other than a "regular guy" and expected that some day I would, as every other guy. get married and live happily ever after.

Things don't always happen as one expects them to happen and my very first
sexual relationship was with another teenager who like me thought of himself as a reuglar guy. Our friendship became more than a friendship and soon we were expressing our feelings for one another sexually. Would we have invited either another guy or a girl to join in? Hardly! We were not cheaters. Our sexual relationship ended at graduation when we went our separate ways.

My next sexual relationship was with a young woman. I found sex with a woman very natural and satisfying. Again, I was not a cheater in that relationship either
but in moments of reflection I was aware that I was also attracted to males and they to me. When I found myself in the U. S. Army and surrounded by men, many of whom were sexually attractive to me, I found myself sexually frustrated. I was not eager for casual sex available off and on base; I was also aware of the way in which the Army dealt with men who "went too far" with their buddies! My military service was for me a desert sexually and I was eager to get back to college. I met another veteran and we soon were roommates and then more than roommates; we were committed lovers until we graduated. He married and was soon a divorced man and confided to me that he did not think he would ever marry again; today he is happy in a very long term relationship with a man.

Throughout my life I have expected faithfulness in relationship and I have not been disappointed. My mind and my body tell me that I am still powerfully attracted to men, but my mind and my body also tell me that I am powerfully attracted to women one of whom happens to be my wife. I rather suspect that so-called bisexual men such as myself are no more and no less likely to be cheaters than other men. And, I am impressed by the lasting devotion of many men who have men partners.

In short, generalizations about bi-sexual men are as dangerous as are generalizations about gay men and straight men.
 
agreeing with most people here i believe being bisexual means you would cheat, true you can be attracted to both sexes however its the same if you were partial to a single sex. Its all about willpower if a guy was going out with a girl of course he can be tempted by other girls but its all about his personality if he cheats no his sexuality.
 
Id rather have my man cheating on me with another woman than a man.

Dont ask why, i have a warped mind.
 
LatinoSTAR said:
Id rather have my man cheating on me with another woman than a man.

Dont ask why, i have a warped mind.
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My wife and I are the same way, we don't care if the other plays with someone of the same sex but there is a very real sense of betrayal when it is someone of the oposite sex. That feeling that there is someone out there she prefers over me, what did I do wrong? Where am I lacking that the other guy isn't? With someone of the same sex, it is something we cannot duplicate with each other so the betrayal isn't there.
 
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