bisexual in relationship

[MaxMouse]

Such a dilemma! I feel bi at times but am afraid to pursue girls as I would likely hurt them.

 

[mrhumphrys]

My wife and I have been together for over 16 years and have children and we have a very open and honest relationship. We love each other deeply but also both know that we cannot satisfy our sexual needs at times. My wife is really into the BDSM scene and I am not, but into guys. When we first talked about our opposite attractions it felt strange but we decided we love each other too much to live without each other. The open relationship really works, there is a good set of ground rules and this has helped to get over that awkwardness at the beginning. The only trouble has come when one or both of us has become emotionally attached to other partners, but we have found that so long as we always talk openly about our feelings and regularly we have always worked through things. Our open relationship allows us to be both one and individuals at the same time and has certainly brought us really close together in a much more fulfilling relationship.

 

[COACHMN]

My wife and I have been together for over 16

Congratulations and Best Wishes for many more years with all the Satisfaction possible.

Good to read others have experienced as I have instead of all the rigid negativity be espoused around here on this topic.

-dan

 

[TylerDurden222]

My wife and I have been together for over 16 years and have children and we have a very open and honest relationship. We love each other deeply but also both know that we cannot satisfy our sexual needs at times. My wife is really into the BDSM scene and I am not, but into guys. When we first talked about our opposite attractions it felt strange but we decided we love each other too much to live without each other. The open relationship really works, there is a good set of ground rules and this has helped to get over that awkwardness at the beginning. The only trouble has come when one or both of us has become emotionally attached to other partners, but we have found that so long as we always talk openly about our feelings and regularly we have always worked through things. Our open relationship allows us to be both one and individuals at the same time and has certainly brought us really close together in a much more fulfilling relationship.

thats a great relationship. i envy the succesful marriage you have built, and it sure sounds like alot of fun too

 

[BIMICHAEL4FUN]

My wife and I have been married for 7 years. I told her that I was bi prior to our getting married and we enjoyed some MMF and MMFF action both before and after our wedding.

It turns her on to see me sucking another man!! However, we have agreed that the only time that either of us will engage in any sexual conduct with anyone else, male or female, will be when we are both involved in a group setting. This arrangement has kept us both happy and I don't forsee that changing anytime soon...

 

[chillyboi]

Hmm, no updates??

 

[TylerDurden222]

My wife and I have been married for 7 years. I told her that I was bi prior to our getting married and we enjoyed some MMF and MMFF action both before and after our wedding.

It turns her on to see me sucking another man!! However, we have agreed that the only time that either of us will engage in any sexual conduct with anyone else, male or female, will be when we are both involved in a group setting. This arrangement has kept us both happy and I don't forsee that changing anytime soon...

awesome. would love to get into some MMF/MMFF action. you sir, are a lucky man.

how did you find the 3rd party people to mess around with?

 

[Alpha1851]

thats a great relationship. i envy the successful marriage you have built, and it sure sounds like a lot of fun too.

Have you told your wife you're bi and asked if she'd be into an open relationship or threesome? You seem to really want that sort of life, so I'm curious as to what's holding you back.

For those w/ children, how do you handle that sort of thing? Do they know about your sexuality or sexual endeavors? Are they oblivious and think you're just working late or something? Jas and I don't have children and I've always thought it made our sex lives easier. We can fuck all over the house at any hour of day and not have to worry about little ones interrupting. It's obviously not an obstacle for some of you, and I'm dying to know how it's done.

 

[COACHMN]

Thanks for contributing a truly helpful response, Dan. Without judgement or scorn you really helped a lot of guys out.
-j

Why thank you for saying that, J. I am glad what ever contribution I may make makes a difference.

-dan

 

[we32psu]

For those w/ children, how do you handle that sort of thing? Do they know about your sexuality or sexual endeavors? Are they oblivious and think you're just working late or something? Jas and I don't have children and I've always thought it made our sex lives easier. We can fuck all over the house at any hour of day and not have to worry about little ones interrupting. It's obviously not an obstacle for some of you, and I'm dying to know how it's done.

I can speak for myself, my kids know nothing about me and guys. If and when I find mr. right rather then mr. right-now, i will explain it to them. However, the ex and i have specific rules about introducing new dates to the kids and when it happens. Of course my kids know about same sex relationships, we have family that are gay and are married, so they know that healthy same sex relationships exist.

 

[Khia88]

My wife and I have been together for over 16 years and have children and we have a very open and honest relationship. We love each other deeply but also both know that we cannot satisfy our sexual needs at times. My wife is really into the BDSM scene and I am not, but into guys. When we first talked about our opposite attractions it felt strange but we decided we love each other too much to live without each other. The open relationship really works, there is a good set of ground rules and this has helped to get over that awkwardness at the beginning. The only trouble has come when one or both of us has become emotionally attached to other partners, but we have found that so long as we always talk openly about our feelings and regularly we have always worked through things. Our open relationship allows us to be both one and individuals at the same time and has certainly brought us really close together in a much more fulfilling relationship.

I applaud your honesty. Alot of bi guys I know and dated are selfish.