bisexual? really?

[Telstra]

simple,
if they like pussies and like cocks as well, they are bi.
It is up to them who they want to have adult fun with.

 

[Grigori226]

I think one must also consider that sexuality is a sliding scale. Not every bisexual is equally attracted to both genders. Some guys like more women than men, others more men than women. My wife says that I am a 70/30 men to women bi-guy. If I had not fallen deeply in love with her, I'd have probably dated her for a short while and moved on. Yes, I still go after cock. Yes, she knows about it. I tell her about all my encounters and she tells me about all of hers; after all, if I'm getting extra dick, I can't in good faith tell her she can't get extra dick.

We are not all copied from the same xerox machine. We're black, white, red, yellow, brown, and mixed. We're male, female, intersexed, transgendered, and other. We're all gay, mostly gay, omnisexual, all straight, partially straight, bisexual,curious, pansexual, and nonsexual. We're monogamists, polygamists, polyandrists, swingers, cheaters, and polyamorists. There are more things (sexually and otherwise) in heaven and earth, than are dreamt of in our philosophies.

Gregory

 

[GhostBear]

Human sexuality is much more complicated than this. To limit the possibilities to just 3 (gay/straight/bi) is ridiculous.

 

[fingers]

I always laugh when non-bisexuals try to tell bisexuals there's no such thing as bisexuality. Both women and men make me hard. If you can't deal with that, I just really don't care. It's like trying to explain reality to people who still think the world is flat and that NASA fakes all the space pictures.

 

[giorgiobaby]

He got scared, u feel used and now you're bitter. Get over it

 

[TylerDurden222]

i'm personally getting tired of the "i dont believe bisexuality exists." and i find it ironic coming from the same gay guys who take offense to the straights who claim "i dont believe homesexuality exists." do you think its a "phase" for us, we "made it up"

unreal

 

[DonQuixote]

Could it be that the Phase is a little thing called Our Lives and welcome to it???!

There's been a lot of good dialogue on this thread. I hope all of the less open people out there take some of the messages to heart.

I absolutely believe that there are a large group of men who come to accept their sexuality by degrees and for them the "there's no such thing" premise holds true.

BUT, I ALSO believe that there is a large contingency of people all along the spectrum.

I've discussed my beliefs re: sexuality and Normal vs The Norm and the standard bell curve that brings us Avogadro's number (80:20 rule), etc. in all manner of different aspects of nature.

We. collectively, once again demonstrate the simple truth of this empirical formula.

Yes, Virginia, there really are all manner of varying degrees of hetero to bi to homo sexually oriented people of both genders in our world.

And, to answer all of the fundamentalist preachers of "God's" (???!) word, as Clearly defined in the King James - particularly the OLD Testament, I find the reveal of this natural phenomena, one that applies to virtually all manner of different things on thing beautiful planet of ours, a HUGE reinforcement that our TRUE God would and does NOT condemn those who are in loving, committed relationships of any persuasion along the spectrum.

That is going a bit further than I would have a few years ago -- I still believe we are fundamentally a monogamous people, and we need to make commitments to our life partners. BUT, I also accept that there are people with bi-sexual needs, and they have a right to have those needs fulfilled. I guess that would allow me to extend a committed relationship to include three, not just two.

I'm not condemning people who are not monagamous(or coupled to just one other partner of a gender), but I see that as one of our societies overlying mores, even above Hetero marriage is the only marriage. I truly do NOT believe that is just or in God's eyes.

Don't come down on me w/ hate responses - I enjoy the stories about the coming of age explorations, and I think that, too, is a natural part of our humanity. Most of the people I've read these epically HOT stories about come to the same conclusion -- as they mature, they outgrow the sew your wild oats phase and settle into the committed life stage.

Peace to one and all.

 

[DVM26uk]

I don't think its quite that simple. Its like you meet someone and fall in love and break up. Does that mean you can never fall in love again?

I'm not really a big porn guy in general. But I sometimes watch it. Sometimes its straight porn and sometimes gay porn.

Now when watching gay porn obviously I'm watching it for the men. With straight porn it depends. There are times I watch it and put more focus on the guy. Where as other times I put more focus on the woman.

As for number 3. Sometimes I masterbate and while I'm doing it my fantasy is about a guy where as other times its about a girl.

I do believe some people might use the bi angle due to for what ever reason they don't wanna admit they are really gay.

But thats not always the case. I know I like women too much to be gay, but I also know I like guys to much to be straight.

I would date a women as well as a guy. Maybe the next four people I'm with are all men, or maybe next few are women.

It depends on who I click better with. And I'm sure I could find a girl or guy who I click with on all levels. If I meet a girl and it gets serious I'd only be with her and I wouldn't get with a guy.

If I meet a guy and it gets serious I'd only be with him and not with any women. Simple as that.

I do think we all have one we like more. But liking girls more doesn't mean you don't like guys or liking guys more doesn't mean you are gay.

Like I said if I meet a girl I click with then that's it I'd be with her and again if I meet a guy I'd only be with him and no women.

I agree with what you're saying and I do believe bisexual's exist, but at the same time the Bi label is also frequently used by people who find the Gay label degrading.

It's definately a complicated subject and as there's no sure fire way to ever know if a bisexual is a true bisexual we'll never get to the bottom of it.

As the old joke goes...

Q. What's the difference between a Straight guy and a Bisexual?
A. A shit load of beer.

 

[Normy7]

It's about as viable as homosexuality, heterosexuality, pansexuality, asexuality, or any of the other dumb labels people use these days.