Bisexual Statistics and Facts You Won't Hear on Oprah or the NYT

[Capitolhillguy2]

I've been an erotic masseur for 33 years in two major metropolitan areas. I've seen many many thousands of clients over the years and almost always grill them about their past experiences. I've seen the same story OVER and OVER and think I can speak with some authority on the subject.
1. When I was younger a higher percentage of my clients were gay. After 40 about 80% of my clientele were bisexual. Bisexuals are less ageist than gays.
2. THE MOST SURPRISING STATISTIC: the vast majority of bisexuals don't have their first experience till they are over 35... many are 50 or 60. What this means is a survey of college students, at least in the past, about their sexual experimentation would show that most would be saying 100% straight in college but bisexual by middle age. This might be changing with this younger generation.
3. Bisexual men, for the most part, fall in love with women but like sport sex with men. I've met very, very few who ever were in love with a man also.
4. Bisexual men rarely have sensitive nipples. Most of the guys with sensitive nipples are gay. I think it is cultural.
5. Bisexual men always use the term " clean" to refer to disease free.
6. I've frequently met bisexual men who don't find men attractive but who love dick.
7. Very, very, very few bisexual men from my experience are out to their femaie partners about this. Some can handle it, but most women would have a big problem with this.
8. All of my bisexual clients appear classically heterosexual in behavior in every way except that they like sex with men.
9. After seeing many many thousands of clients for massage, ONLY gay clients don't want to get off during a massage. Bi guys ALWAYS do.
10. Bisexual men rarely like to kiss a man.

 

[nycguydowntown]

Great list---makes a lot of sense from my experience too.

What did you find out about anal?

 

[TK2129]

Does it ever escalate for you? Do the bi gets involved? Play with you? Fuck you? Ask you to fuck them?

 

[Capitolhillguy2]

Over half try prostate massage and like it. Most of the time the bi guys are involved at least in jo, but over 30% of the time oral with me. I use to fuck clients but haven't done that in years as I don't like condom sex and won't do bareback now. Thanks for your interest.

 

[Capitolhillguy2]

One other factor, it used to be common to find closeted gays getting married, but now you usually only see that in the over 55 set.

 

[Sebazz]

Very interesting read, I hope you can share more. I don't know how representative of bi men in general this is, though. You're basically a sex worker, it makes sense most guys going to a sex worker are inexperienced/closeted/only interested in sex

 

[Capitolhillguy2]

Very interesting read, I hope you can share more. I don't know how representative of bi men in general this is, though. You're basically a sex worker, it makes sense most guys going to a sex worker are inexperienced/closeted/only interested in sex

Most are also going to female masseuses as well. When I was younger I had a lot more gay clients.

 

[vidarr]

I never heard of nipple play being a cultural phenomenon lol.

Of course there will be more closeted gay/bi guys asking for a happy ending. Gay guys can easily get dick on their own via grindr.

 

[snakeeater1]

I’m a bi guy and you hit me right on the nail with
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9. Except I want to suck off the guy giving the massage!
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Love your observations and their amazingly true!…