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"Bisexuality Doesn't Exist" Apology.

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Hi Everyone,

I would just like to say that my earlier post "Bisexuality Doesn't Exist" was in no way an attempt to insult, degrade, or offend you. What it was, was a study that i had read about the possibility of men not actually being capable of being Bisexual. This topic interested me and i wondered how others, mainly Bisexuals felt about this study.

I do admit that in my prior thread i stated that i could believe this study, based on my personal experiences, and it may have a point. but i clearly said that it was not my idea, and it was only MY experience which doesn't hold much water, so to speak.

In the Thread i did become angry at others posts about how horrible a person i was for, Quote: "telling me i don't exist" and i spoke out of anger and frustration a few times trying to defend myself. I did not in any way, shape, or form tell you did not exist. it was a study that i read, i wanted to bring it your attention to hear what you had to say about the study. not me personally.

Maybe i didn't state that clearly in my post. Maybe some didn't care to read it all and just responded. But i would like to say that i am sorry. I would never intentionally attack someones sexuality, i know how it feels, I've been attacked many a time.

Please accept my apology and do not hold this against me. i'm most certainly not "Biphobic"

Hammertank.
 
I was not offended at all. So I don't accept your apology, because there is need for me to have one. But I thank you.
 
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the people who didn't understand the intention of your post should have apologized for it seems there are some bi-guys out here on JUB who get very touchy with this subject.
 
Hammertank, we cleared things up in our PM and I think your a classy guy. I can't speak for other bisexuals here but I don't think your biphobic at all. Message boards are tricky because alot of what we say goes by body language, tone, and attitude. Typing can not always get the gist or meaning of our posts.I've posted things out of sarcasm thinking others picked up on it where in fact they haven't. Again, not speaking for all the bi guys or even the ones who posted, but I will be the first to admit I am very touchy about the subject,and I have my reasons. I'm sensitive and touchy for the same reasons gay men are touchy in other boards over certain things.(see LatinoStar's Appology thread in the Hot Topic section for example) Bisexuals here aren't the only ones who may get touchy. All is well. I look forward to Hammertank's posts here and think he is an asset to JUB! :wave:
 
the people who didn't understand the intention of your post should have apologized for it seems there are some bi-guys out here on JUB who get very touchy with this subject.


It's hardly surprising that guys get very touchy when a thread title states baldly "their sexuality doesn't exist". I imagine a lot of gay men and women would get very 'touchy' indeed if someone started a thread on a forum where they participate saying "homosexuality doesn't exist". And rightly so!

Anyway, it's cool that hammertank and Romantico have made up, but I still think there would have been far better ways of encouraging a sensible discussion on bisexuality than by titling a thread "bisexuality doesn't exist". That's just asking for trouble. I'm not even bi, and that title offended me.
 
I was offended and I do accept the apology. I thank you for having the courage to extend your hand to those of us who were hurt by what was said. I think everyone learned a great deal and it is time to move on.

I wish everyone a Merry Christmas.

Grumps.
 
Hey Hammer, I didn't respond to the original thread but I saw the storm coming, I understood that it was a "study" I could conduct my own study and support a different conclusion. The one thing I do know and trust is my own experience and that tells me that Bi-Sexuallity is alive and well. That's all the proof I need. So, no offense taken here. I look forward to your next post.
 
You know, that was a pretty interesting study. It came out about a year ago, didn't it? I haven't read the particulars in a while.

Y'know, sometimes when the general news media reports the results of studies from the scientific community, they don't quite get it right. It's very attractive to the general media to find the catchiest and simplest way to attract peoples' attention. What's better for that than "explaining sex"?

You remember that study from a few weeks back about how 1/3 of mainstream american male athletes had had sex with other men? Now, I thought *that* was a weak study. The sample size was small (somehow the numbers "34" and "74" come to mind, so I think it's somewhere in that range), all the guys had been high school athletes, but then were cheerleaders in college (!!! Hmm, what guys can I think of who were cheerleaders in college...), and they were all pretty much personal acquaintances of the guy who did the study. So perhaps in some department somewhere, that counts as a "study," but in other departments, it's not something you call the newspaper over.

This other study, on the other hand, the one about the sexual response (probably measured by penile engorgement in response to visual stimuli like pornography, but I don't remember for sure) of self-identified heterosexual, bisexual, and homosexual guys, and if I remember correctly -- like I said I haven't looked at it in a while -- the bisexual guys had a sexual response like the gay guys, and unlike the straight guys.

Now, those results (if I'm remembering them right) are what they are (and if i'm not remembering them right, the results *still* are what they are, and anybody can go look them up). Those results are what they are. Because of the way the study was done, it's interesting to me, and more interesting than the "1/3 of male college cheerleaders have had sex with men" study.

I wonder if they included any men who occasionally have sex with other men but don't think of themselves as bisexual? I mean, it seems to me that those guys are out there. I don't remember whether any of them were in the study or not.

:-)
 
Oh and hammertank props on your diplomacy! :=D::wave:..|:=D::wave:..|

...as well as for your initial curiousity about the topic.
 
This other study, on the other hand, the one about the sexual response (probably measured by penile engorgement in response to visual stimuli like pornography, but I don't remember for sure) of self-identified heterosexual, bisexual, and homosexual guys, and if I remember correctly -- like I said I haven't looked at it in a while -- the bisexual guys had a sexual response like the gay guys, and unlike the straight guys.

Now, those results (if I'm remembering them right) are what they are (and if i'm not remembering them right, the results *still* are what they are, and anybody can go look them up). Those results are what they are. Because of the way the study was done, it's interesting to me, and more interesting than the "1/3 of male college cheerleaders have had sex with men" study.


In the study, 75% of the self-identified bi men reacted to porn showing men together, and 25% to porn showing women together.

The number of participants was also tiny - 101, I think.

Around one third of all the men in the study did not respond enough to the porn to register penile engorgement, and were discounted from the study. Oddly enough, the researchers did not draw the conclusion that 30% of men are asexual. :rolleyes:

3 of the 25 self-identified gay men in the study who showed enough penile arousal to be included responded equally or more or less equally to both kinds of porn, men and women. Oddly enough, again, the researchers did not draw the conclusion that 12% of gay men are actually bisexual.

In a similar study recording women's sexual arousal, the researchers came to the conclusion that ALL women are bisexual. :confused: :rolleyes:

The study has been comprehensively discredited numerous times.
 
The tinyness of the sample is not quite as important to me as its randomness. Regardless, thanks for the memory refreshment. I like your comments on the study.

I found the citation for this study:


* Rieger, G., Chivers, M. L., & Bailey, J. M. (2005). Sexual Arousal Patterns of Bisexual Men. Psychological Science. 16(8), 579-584.


...Somewhere in the piles, I probably have a copy of this journal.


I found the NYT article from 2005 about the original study in my "personal archives" in my computer, as well. It's a pretty interesting article, and fairly well written. It seems that there is disagreement among the authors even as to what exactly the results mean. Baily says, "for men, arousal is orientation." Rieger's Doctoral Advisor, Lisa Diamond, did not seem to agree that "for men, arousal = orientation." (Rieger apparently completed his Ph.D. in '07 with a study that used as data home movies of homosexual people across their development, arguing, essentially, that you can "spot the queer" early on through body movement).

Mostly the authors and people associated with them seem to be pretty careful in not saying "bisexuality doesn't exist," but rather, in saying their evidence does not show that specifically bisexual arousal didn't appear to exist in their sample.

As a matter of fact, here's more information on that study , as well as the abstract:

Rieger, Gerulf Northwestern University, Evanston, IL, US; Chivers, Meredith L. Centre for Addiction and Mental Health, Toronto, ON, Canada; Bailey, J. Michael Northwestern University, Evanston, IL, US E-mail: gerulf@northwestern.edu
Title: Sexual Arousal Patterns of Bisexual Men.
Source: Psychological Science Vol 16(8) (Aug 2005): 579-584
Additional Info: United Kingdom : Blackwell Publishing
Standard No: ISSN: 0956-7976 (Print); 1467-9280 (Electronic)
DOI: 10.1111/j.1467-9280.2005.01578.x
Language: English
Abstract: journal abstract: There has long been controversy about whether bisexual men are substantially sexually aroused by both sexes. We investigated genital and self-reported sexual arousal to male and female sexual stimuli in 30 heterosexual, 33 bisexual, and 38 homosexual men. In general, bisexual men did not have strong genital arousal to both male and female sexual stimuli. Rather, most bisexual men appeared homosexual with respect to genital arousal, although some appeared heterosexual. In contrast, their subjective sexual arousal did conform to a bisexual pattern. Male bisexuality appears primarily to represent a style of interpreting or reporting sexual arousal rather than a distinct pattern of genital sexual arousal. (PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2007 APA, all rights reserved)
Correspondence Info: Rieger, Gerulf. Psychology Department, Northwestern University, Evanston, IL, US, gerulf@northwestern.edu
Peer Reviewed: Peer-Reviewed Journal

I think the last line is key: "Male bisexuality appears primarily to represent a style of interpreting or reporting sexual arousal rather than a distinct pattern of genital sexual arousal." Where does that say that bisexuality doesn't exist?

While I was kicking around, I also found this recent publication:

Author(s): Kauth, Michael R. Southeast Louisiana Veterans Health Care System, New Orleans, LA, US E-mail: michael.kauth@med.va.gov
Title: Epilogue: Implications for Conceptualizing Human Sexuality.
Source: Journal of Psychology & Human Sexuality Vol 18(4) (2007): 371-385
Additional Info: US : Haworth Press
Standard No: ISSN: 0890-7064 (Print); 1540-8698 (Electronic)
DOI: 10.1300/J056v18n04_04
Language: English
Abstract: journal abstract: Contrary to initial expectations, this project did not provide agreement on how to define sexual orientation. Rather, contributors wisely chose to abandon the concept of sexual orientation for descriptions of sexual behaviors and sexual relationships. This outcome may have resulted in part from editorial demands for explicit definitions and discussion of assumptions but more likely emerged from the transhistorical approach of evolutionary psychology. I argue that abandoning the flawed concept of sexual orientation will lead sexual scientists toward a new way of thinking about human sexuality, especially nonexclusive attractions and sexualities that are not defined by sex of partner. (PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2007 APA, all rights reserved)
Correspondence Info: Kauth, Michael R.. michael.kauth@med.va.gov
Peer Reviewed: Peer-Reviewed Journal

I honestly think that calling "sexual orientation" a "flawed concept" is pretty enlightened.

...wasn't able to find a whole lot of comprehensive and repeated refutations or discreditings of the original study -- not even a fair amount of argument about it. Where is all that?
 
Tygrbryte: BeardedWoof, JUB member, has written posts about it here, but I don't know where without searching for them. He'd be a good person to point you in the right direction. I don't have any links - I'm not bi, so my interest is limited, to be perfectly honest - but I know I've read plenty of blogs and articles refuting the findings of the study (and pointing out that Bailey, the chief researcher, has often said that, if and when a 'gay gene' is found, he supports selective abortion if the fetus will be gay). I know there's a forum at bisexual.com where people have discussed this study a lot.

I think it wasn't just the original study that got a lot of people's backs up, but a subsequent article in the New York Times called something like 'you're either gay, straight or lying'. For myself, I think it's ridiculous to think you can reduce something as vast and complex as human sexuality to genital reaction to a set of fairly random images (not to mention that the bit that says 'all women are bi' is crazy...I'm a woman, and I'm sure as hell not!)
 
Yay, science.

I would eat my right shoe if an airtight sexuality study was ever conducted.

There's no way to untangle a researcher's bias from the experiment either. We're taught in psychology to pick apart studies and to be wary of any bold claims because they are almost always based on bad experiments.

The problem with sexuality is it's far too complex an issue to break down into a simple and neat experimental design. I have yet to hear of any real studies being done on bisexuals either, as the majority of sexual research will actual exclude anyone identifying as bisexual.

Uhhh... yeah... 33 participants are going to be really good for generalizing to the greater population. ;)

No worries with the previous thread, hammertank. Your intention wasn't to be deflamatory or abusive, so I don't really think you need to apologize.
 
That is all really interesting about Baily. I had heard about the transgender book and the brou-ha-ha, but I hadn't linked him with the "75% of 33 bisexual men responded to gay porn" study (that's why we're here, huh?).

I'm somewhat embarased to find that I myself got out ahead of my facts in this instance. After I made my post yesterday, I thought about it and considered going back and editing the last part about "show me where it's refuted" (I have lived in Missouri for about 25 years, and that "show me" stuff rubs off.... If you're not in U.S. and don't know, Missouri is known as "the show me state," and I think it's fair to say that stubbornness is a local virtue....). I apologize for sounding all high and mighty.

It seems that most of us agree that hammertank really had nothing more to apologize for. The intention of my initial post was to say that, regardless of how peoples' hackles got up in response, I thought it was cool that he was interested in the original study.

Another thing I was trying to get at is, that it's often useful to go back and look in detail at what the published study itself said -- not just the reports in whatever newspaper. Yet another point was: All that information is out there, and with some effort -- in some cases more than in others -- it's possible to go back and read it for one's self.

That being said, here's some other thing I get the feeling we all agree on:

1. No one study will ever "get it all right" in terms of human sexuality. Actually, any behavioral scientist who's responsible and well educated will repeat this at you until they are blue in the face.

2. The study, as conducted, certainly does not prove there is "no such thing as bisexuality." Now, we may not all agree on the rest of this paragraph: Reading the abstract, I'm relatively certain that the study itself never says that per se, and

my guess is that there is probably at least one line in there that says, "this
certainly doesn't prove that bisexuality exists, but it does not support a
unique pattern of bisexual arousal in men who call themselves bisexuals."

...I put that in a little "block quote" because I think it's a useful point to consider when deciding how much of a huff to get in about these things: The difference between "proving" something and "failing to support" something.

When I get my hands on the whole original thing, if I'm wrong, I'll come back and tell you. If I am wrong, my guess is that that statement it will be identified as coming specifically from M. Baily.

OK, back to things I think we all agree on:

3. The study, as conducted and reported, is not by itself remarkably strong. Y'all are absolutely right: 33 self-identified bisexuals is most certainly not a large enough group to generalize to two possibly different but possibly overlapping groups: Men who self-identify as bisexual, and men who have sex with both other men and with women.

HOWEVER: What makes the study interesting and possibly important -- if we don't decide to dismiss it for other reasons -- is that there just aren't very many studies out there at all, weak *or* strong, that examine this issue. This study got the three groups from running ads in "gay and alternative" newspapers in Toronto.

1. If we used the same recruiting methods but tripled the sample sizes, how might we expect that it would change the results?

2. If we used different recruiting methods to get a more "representative" sampel -- always a challenge in studies of sexuality -- how might that change the results?

3. If we used different sets of pornography to arouse participants, how might it change the results? (This to me is actually the most interesting question because I think that the actual content of the "stimulating" material could make a difference; at the moment, I know 0 about the material they used.)

..... Because I'm embarassed about having gotten out ahead of my facts, and because I can because I'm interested, I just spent about an hour or so reading through the abstracts of about 50 publications that J. Michael Baily has been in on going back to about 1990.

1. He did indeed author a publication that suggested that it would be OK for parents to abort a pregnancy they knew would lead to a gay child because it would leave the parents more free to raise a child like they wanted. This is personally chilling to me. Given what we know about societies where elective abortion is practiced simply on the gender of the foeti (China, India), it seems to me there's evidence that that kind of elective abortion can lead to certain social problems. As someone who is for safe and legal abortion, this makes me squirm. It was also important for me personally to see this with my own eyes, because if I were just going on the basis of the blog entry that beardedwolf provided, I would have said, "at the moment, I'd have to take that as hearsay."

2. He's done a lot of science that at first glance seems sound in terms of different partterns of sexual arousal and males and females, gay and straight. It seems consistent that gay and straight men have different arousal patterns to porn than each other, and than to women.

3. He seems to have a high number of pubs that find results that don't match with previous studies... maybe kind of a red flag. He seems to be very interested in making "definitions" that are measurable, so he may be measuring things differently than others. (It's also possible he's cheating. He's got some pretty high-profile co-authors here and there, not the kind of folks who would want to be associated with research cheating.) He does consistently focus on biological measures as the basis of his definitions, rather than the other kinds of things that can go into a person's "Sexuality." This seems to me like a big place for critique.

4. He's got several pubs that talk about ethical and moral issues in social policy and how they don't necessarily have to be tied to "biological" definitions. Don't know if I'm communicating this well, but I don't think I like the "smell" of the abstracts.

5. Then there's all that stuff about the transsexuals. His controversial stance does appear to have some basis out of his research: i.e., that there appear to be two different groups of m-f transexuals, in terms of their arousal patterns to pornographic stimuli.

...so, like a lot of things in science, his body of work is open to argumentation. And that's always a big part of "scientific community," folks are arguing. It's hard to get the full impact in a newspaper report.

Now, about the NYT report of the study, published July 5, 2005. By-line is Benedict Carey, in case you want to go to their archives and look it up (this is free since about last September.) The title is "Straight, Gay or Lying? Bisexuality Revisited" In my opinion, the title is unfortunate, but it's a very balanced article. It seems to me that it gives way more air to criticisms of the study than it does to reporting on the study itself. I'm not sure why people who read it carefully would get really upset.

OK, about the Americablog entry that beardedwolf cites:

"You would think, you would hope that the New York Times would do a little research of its own before splashing the work of Dr. J. Michael Bailey, a professor of psychology at Northwestern and the study's lead author. But no. It took threader Kathleen to alert me to what the NYT should have known before presenting this study uncritically."

1. Besides the controversy, Dr. Baily has a 15+ year history of being published in strong journals. It's not like he just popped up like a mushroom. While Americablog called for NYT to point out the controversies, they would also, then, have to point out the strength of his record.

2. The blogger is simply wrong on saying that Dr. Baily is the lead author of the study. He is not; G. Rieger is -- not only is Mr. Rieger's name first, he is also the person to whom correspondence about the publication should be directed. True, it came out of Dr. Baily's lab -- but if we're going to pick nits, shouldn't we pick them all?

3. Again, I don't think the NYT story at all presents the findings "uncritically."

Wow, what a bunch of effort I expended over old news, all because I got embarassed about not knowing everything about what I was talking about, because I wanted hammertank to not feel bad about being curious about an important question.

:wave:
 
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