Bisexuality

[LAPan75]

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On the Flexuality Test I got:​

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-------- Straight - 1
- Heteroflexible - 6
---- Ambisexual - 8
-- Flexamorous - 3
---------- Queer - 0
------------- Gay - 0

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------ Versatile - 0
-- Supersexual - 7
--------- Macho - 0
---- Restrained - 0
- Transitioning - 0
- Metamorphic - 0​

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Not quite sure what it all means yet since I am not familiar with this test, so time for Research.

 

[CodysSecret]

That's exactly how I feel

 

[Benvolio]

The important question is to whom you are sexually attracted. Few are sexually attracted to both, but can enjoy sex with either when young. Sex with the gender you are less attracted to is more a form of masterbation. Guys in prison or the military sometimes have sex with men without attraction as a form of masturbbation. As you grow older and less intense you will strongly prefer one rather than the other.

 

[Benvolio]

I suggest you rent a lesbian porn disc and see how much it turns you on. Compare that with watching a gay one. If you really gay but marry a woman, thinking you are bi, you will in a few years discover that you prefer men but have a wife and family. Not fair to her, and you are likely to be unhappy and have a big support obligation.

 

[Singularity]

The important question is to whom you are sexually attracted. Few are sexually attracted to both, but can enjoy sex with either when young. Sex with the gender you are less attracted to is more a form of masterbation. Guys in prison or the military sometimes have sex with men without attraction as a form of masturbbation. As you grow older and less intense you will strongly prefer one rather than the other.

By your theory it must be possible for me to "masturbate" with a woman, however, my equipment doesn't work in presence of one, even if I tried. How do you explain that.

 

[Benvolio]

When you were younger was it easier to get hard without effort? Obviously it is easier for some than others.

 

[Singularity]

^ I've never gotten hard in the presence of a woman - even while as a hormonal teenager. I got my first kiss by a girl (by accident, I suppose) and all the while I didn't feel anything. I knew I was exclusively attracted to boys/men long before I knew what being gay meant.

 

[BiMike]

^ I think that can be completely true and indicates that you are 100% gay just as there are guys who are 100% str8 , being completely un-interested in any sexual contacts with another guy. However there are quite a number of guys between these two extremes who do have a sexual interest in other guys, altho in the majority of cases they do not pursue it and even may deny it.
In my view the fact a guy has a sexual interest in another guy does not necessarily mean he has any emotional interest in guys, that is a completely seperate matter.