BJ from craigslist?

[TMachine]

I posted an add a little while ago on craigslist and I got an offer for a bj that is really promising. The guy seems normal, used his real name, gave phone number. I'm thinking I want to meet at a hotel, is it still too dangerous? It's fine if I meet in public first, leave his information somewhere, and use protection right? I want the BJ!

 

[1091MAC]

First, if you are that concerned, I wouldn't do it. Second, how do you know its his real name? If you have a number and have spoken with him on the phone and have a pic or two, meet him for coffee. You might half joking tell himn you are so nervous about meeting that you left his information at home on the kitchen counter. It's been my experiecne that too many guys are on Craigs List to collect pictures and they rarely follow through. Good luck and let us know how it goes.

 

[hotatlboi]

You're over thinking it. It's just a BJ, do it if you want, don't if you want.

You'll be fine either way. I've met plenty of people on Craigslist. The only issue I've had is people that sent fake pics because they were ugly lol.

 

[Seasoned]

Meet in a public place and trust your instincts.

Welcome to JUB. If you'd like this tread moved to hot topics let me know. I'm inclined to leave it here, because this is a no flame forum and you are new seeking out a new adventure. Good luck to you.

 

[TMachine]

Thanks for the welcome!

 

[SwitchHit50]

So, what happened???

 

[racer2438]

I would always meet in public place 1st, and also tell someone where ur at, just in case...to many crazies I don't like the idea that they always ask 4 ur pic, b4 u get there's. Who's to say they will post ur pic all over the internet.....

but then again i dont use C/L

 

[Halifaxboy8]

All the above info is valid. Unfortunately many people who use the internet as a medium for hooking up aren't that truthful and will say what they need to say, and show whatever photos that will gather the best results. Getting amateur photos to claim they are yours, and posting them on a profile, takes a whole of 2 minutes online.

ALWAYS meet at a public place first. Ideally, set up a time then try to be a couple of minutes late so you can observe to see them before you meet. I know, it sounds clandestine, but it really is a safer route. You never know what the reality is going to be.

By the sound of it, you are just super horny and need a release. Don't let that over-shadow common sense. No one needs a bj that badly.

 

[strosbuff88]

add him on Facebook and see what he's about

after reading how you take pleasure in destroying another person's life, i don't believe anyone should heed your advice.

i'll try and attempt to not convey my anger, but what you did and how you rationalize thoughts is horrendous... and scary!

just when i think that maybe telling one person of my curiosity would be alright i cower in fear due to people like you.

 

[cocksucker4use]

It is just a bj. The CL thing can be quick and anonymous or you can protract it and get more information. I go on CL when I travel and hook up. Have had a lot of information and guys are really hot, etc., but you get together and nuthin happens. Other times, two emails and see ya in 10 and it's awesome, memorable and one dude I met like that lives bi me, share the same gym, and I have seen for nsa HOT SEX over four years. If you meet somebody and it isn't happeing, just say so and move on. It's not a huge investment, and they may not be all that excited about you.