Bleeding Profusely After Sex

[cityboy-stl]

He is very forceful in are relationship and he tells me what to do.

This is your problem.

You should not bleed and there's more going on than just sex. He is abusing you and taking advantage of you. If he truly cared about you this wouldn't be happening. Stand up for yourself and don't allow him to control you anymore. There are plenty of kind, gentle people who will treat you with the respect you deserve.

Edit: You are using condoms - right?

 

[HappySmiles]

lol I love how you mention that he has a GF

runnnnnnnnnnnn lol

 

[Johnbarrowmansbitch]

If he has a gf as well, maybe that is a problem too? What i mean is, he could just be taking advantage of you because his gf probably doesnt like anal???

 

[Seasoned]

Im 18 and my boyfriend is 25. We have had sex about 5 times, and each time my anus bleeds profusely. He uses half an entire bottle of lubricant during sex but it doesn't help. I am contemplating on telling my boyfriend I can't have sex with him anymore. His penis is 2.5" wide & 6" in length. He is very forceful in are relationship and he tells me what to do. He has a girlfriend aswell.

Welcome to JUB and I glad you posted this. Don't accept this kind of behavior, please. You shouldn't be bleeding after sex. Do you have hemorrhoids? Is he concerned by this? Do you hurt? How long before it stops? Please tell us you are using condoms. When do you plan to see a doctor?

 

[deserter85]

I've only started having anal sex in the 4-5 months, but since I've started I've had anal sex nearly daily (unless my boyfriend is out of town) and not once did my ass bleed - not even when I lost my virginity.

A question though: do you bleed only when or just after having sex? Or does that also occur when you aren't having sex.

If it is the former, it sounds like either (a) you're not "loose"/relaxed enough before you bottom and he just "forces" it in anyway; (b) possible (but unlikely) haemorrhoids; (c) not enough lubricant/ineffective lubricant

If it is the latter, go see your local doctor.

Anyway, if your boyfriend continues pounding your ass even though you're bleeding quite a bit, he obviously doesn't give a shit about you. Also, there's more to sex than just anal sex - try suggesting that to him. See how it goes.

 

[KaraBulut]

If you have hemorrhoids or you get a little too "into the moment", you might have some pink blook on your toilet paper or in the toilet.

You should never bleed "profusely" after anal sex.

His penis is 2.5" wide & 6" in length. He is very forceful in are relationship and he tells me what to do.

That's not unreasonably large and it's not unreasonable when you compare that size to the size of what comes out of your ass when you go to the bathroom. You should be able to accommodate a penis that size.

Which begs the question- is this guy just putting it in without prepping you and is he just pounding away until he gets off? That's probably the problem and if it is, you need to stop having sex with this guy and find someone who is a little more interested in your needs.

 

[Daximus]

Exactly what Kara said. He sounds like he's just plowing into and your life. Ditch this loser fast especially because he's using you. He can't have a girlfriend for looks and social acceptance, and then you on the side as his hidden boyfriend to fulfill his sexual needs. I don't even know anything about this dude, but sounds like a real assface.

Next time you do have sex make sure your partner takes things very slow and takes your comfort into account.

 

[geoffmontgomery]

if he has a gf, he needs to understand that an ass is not a vagina, you normally cant fuck it the same way. I agree with the others, run way before he ruins your life, and your ass.

 

[goodguybad]

Im 18 and my boyfriend is 25. We have had sex about 5 times, and each time my anus bleeds profusely. He uses half an entire bottle of lubricant during sex but it doesn't help. I am contemplating on telling my boyfriend I can't have sex with him anymore. His penis is 2.5" wide & 6" in length. He is very forceful in are relationship and he tells me what to do. He has a girlfriend aswell.

Oh HELL NO! Kick this guy to the curb now before you get in too deep. He has a gf, and he doesn't care that he hurts you physically?! No, not a good guy. Flush him and find someone better.

As far as the bleeding if a guy forces himself in, that's going to happen. It happened to me with my first bf. I didn't get pissed cause neither of us knew what we were doing. But the next time (after I healed) I told him to take it slow, made him hold it in place for a while till it started feeling good, THEN we started fuckin like bunnies and it was amazing. That's how it should be.

However if you have gentle sex and you still bleed, you may need to see a doctor.