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Blocking a guy right after a hookup?

chrisdobro said:
One explanation I can envision is you being so horny you hook up with a guy you don't care for. When you cum, you "wake up", realize how disgusted you are with yourself, and block the guy to help make those feelings go away. Just a theory.

If I don't feel comfortable with the guy, I don't cum. Sometimes I help get them off if appropriate as its easier to get them out, or sometimes I finish things up before that too, but that's rare. Hmmmm. I am not that great with hookups anyways. But I am not sure other guys are any better, looking at some of their behaviors.
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You say that, but a.) you keep doing them and b.) every thread you create is about how crap they are.

So, in all seriousness, why do you bother? :confused:

-d-
 
My interpretation of Cris' thread(s) is that he's kind of a Man Collector. IMO He goes into these hookups kinda leading them on thinking that it could lead to more than just a one night stand, and he seems to like having lots of guys around hanging on, in some kind of sex harem.
 
I thought hookups were all supposed to be about the wham-bam-thankya-man... wait...you're actually pondering whether to talk or block? ;)
 
chrisdobro said:
They don't get me off :/

They are more interested in getting off and leaving.
I am starting to feel that I experience sex differently, and that most guys into hookups don't care about getting the other guy off.
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Are you saying they agree to sex, come over, get the blowjob and fake a call from their mother?

....because I've only had that happen once. Was irritating. And then he had the nerve to ask if I was free again.
 
USEDCAR said:
Rarely, I blocked one guy for being annoying the hook up was horrible and he kept messaging me. But usually we just stop talking after the hook up
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Hookups are like used porn mags...once the pages get sticky you chuck em in the bin. Heck some porn mags are single use.
 
chrisdobro said:
They don't get me off :/

They are more interested in getting off and leaving.
I am starting to feel that I experience sex differently, and that most guys into hookups don't care about getting the other guy off.
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I mean, it sucks that you're not getting off. At the same time you kind of have to expect that 2 people only getting together for sex is going to be quite selfish. I am in a relationship, but when it came to hook ups it is pretty much like jerking off for me, I get off and then I am done.
 
borg69unimatrix said:
My interpretation of Cris' thread(s) is that he's kind of a Man Collector. IMO He goes into these hookups kinda leading them on thinking that it could lead to more than just a one night stand, and he seems to like having lots of guys around hanging on, in some kind of sex harem.
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I'm not so sure about that. I was thinking more like he simply takes the blocking personally. "Why did he block me? Was I not good enough? Am I not even worthy of being a hook-up?" To me, it'd just be "OK, he doesn't want to get together again" and I'd move on.

Lex
 
G-Lexington said:
I'm not so sure about that. I was thinking more like he simply takes the blocking personally. "Why did he block me? Was I not good enough? Am I not even worthy of being a hook-up?" To me, it'd just be "OK, he doesn't want to get together again" and I'd move on.

Lex
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He might also not be, what's the word, circumspect enough in who he's hooking up with. He could just have replied to an inordinate number of asses. Took me a month and a half to tweek who to reply to on cl. I find the ones who don't complain about condom use in email with virtual strangers are at least invested in their own health, the ones that don't discuss safer sex I avoid. The ones that use gloves and get tested regularly go on a mental V.I.P. list. If you add that "when responding, include your kinks/interests or no reply" also helps. Weeds out the copy/pastes, which is good cuz I'm stuck in a nich group, I just delete anyone who doesn't write in complete sentences, as "Iwana fukk, #Call Me!" is no way attractive to my future health.

And if you sound needy or complain about your ex wife for 40 minutes, you're unlikely to get email back either. Just as an example to not wax about an ex, if you have one. Turns a *lot* of people off. Now, if they pay me to listen about their ex, fine. But for a hookup? No.

-I've never actually had anyone pay me to listen about their ex. Other things, but not their ex.
 
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