Blow Jobs

[sixthson]

A blowjob is not just about the dick and mouth. Let your hands roam around, over his ass, his thighs, his nipples. Use your hand on his dick as you suck. Use your mouth and tongue on his balls, too. Don't just go up and down on his dick with your mouth, either. Make love to his cock, kiss and lick and suck the shaft. If he is uncut, slide your tongue under his foreskin.
Let him get on top of you and fuck your mouth. Guys like the thrusting motion. Maybe hang your head over the edge of the bed and let him straddle your face. Let him be active in the act rather than just being in control of him. Rub his junk on your face, let him know you are loving it.

Be playful, have fun, tease him.

Don't forget to make eye contact...this is very important.

Get his feedback on what he likes. What works for one, might not work for another, so explore and ask questions, but not necessarily during the act. Talking about sex beforehand can be a form of foreplay and prime the pump for sex.

I've said enough now.

 

[chrisrobin]

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[Ram]

A blowjob is not just about the dick and mouth. Let your hands roam around, over his ass, his thighs, his nipples. Use your hand on his dick as you suck. Use your mouth and tongue on his balls, too. Don't just go up and down on his dick with your mouth, either. Make love to his cock, kiss and lick and suck the shaft. If he is uncut, slide your tongue under his foreskin.
Let him get on top of you and fuck your mouth. Guys like the thrusting motion. Maybe hang your head over the edge of the bed and let him straddle your face. Let him be active in the act rather than just being in control of him. Rub his junk on your face, let him know you are loving it.

Be playful, have fun, tease him.

Don't forget to make eye contact...this is very important.

Get his feedback on what he likes. What works for one, might not work for another, so explore and ask questions, but not necessarily during the act. Talking about sex beforehand can be a form of foreplay and prime the pump for sex.

I've said enough now.

 

[paatreides]

Well, one clue to giving good head is doing for him what feels good to you - it's a great place to start.

As a guy, you should be able to instinctively follow the signs of his enjoyment. And don't be afraid to ask for verbal encouragement. That doesn't mean stopping to ask "Does that feel good?" or "Do you like that?" It means telling him as you're getting him revved up that you like verbal clues, "I love it when I'm sucking a guy's cock and he tells me if what I'm doing really feels good and is sending him over the edge."

 

[SLOPPYSECONDS]

Not sure if this is the right place for this thread or not, but here it goes. I seriously lack good oral sex skills (giving). I'm adequate, but I want to be better than that. So I was wondering if I could get some advice, hints, tips, or maybe even real stories that I could learn from. Please help me, I want to be a better cock sucker!

wot adequate? is your adequate?

like ya got 1000 dudes ans 60 minutes ans theys alls ARH YEAH
or 1 dude 24hour goin wot ya doin?

so like betta then wot?


thankyou

 

[borg69unimatrix]

Suck it like he's dying, and you're trying to save his life.

 

[DigitalFudge]

A blowjob is not just about the dick and mouth. Let your hands roam around, over his ass, his thighs, his nipples. Use your hand on his dick as you suck. Use your mouth and tongue on his balls, too. Don't just go up and down on his dick with your mouth, either. Make love to his cock, kiss and lick and suck the shaft. If he is uncut, slide your tongue under his foreskin.
Let him get on top of you and fuck your mouth. Guys like the thrusting motion. Maybe hang your head over the edge of the bed and let him straddle your face. Let him be active in the act rather than just being in control of him. Rub his junk on your face, let him know you are loving it.

Be playful, have fun, tease him.

Don't forget to make eye contact...this is very important.

Get his feedback on what he likes. What works for one, might not work for another, so explore and ask questions, but not necessarily during the act. Talking about sex beforehand can be a form of foreplay and prime the pump for sex.

I've said enough now.

 

[LoveInEcstacy]

Suck it like he's dying, and you're trying to save his life.

Thats the best bj advice ive ever heard by a longshot lol

 

[Yves Grey]

Suck it like he's dying, and you're trying to save his life.

 

[lolalola70]

put some warm water in your mouth first..get your mouth nice and warm

 

[Yves Grey]

Whoa, I think we have a winner, borg69unimatrix!

I agree with sixthson--a blowjob isn't just about a dick and a mouth. Titillate his body: brush over his arms, graze his chest, pull your fingertips over his sides. Put your fingers in his mouth--or put a finger up his ass! Pay attention to his balls, inner thighs, and perineum. Push his knees up to really stretch those pubococcugeus muscles and intensify sensations a bit. Take a breathless moment to tell him how much you love his cock. Smother your face in it.

Dick + mouth feels good, but it kind of palls if you keep rowing the same stroke. Sensory adaptation and all that jazz. Mix it up. Up the ante.

 

[Yves Grey]

Ooh, I haven't tried this one yet personally, but I've heard humming when you've got him in your throat makes for an amazing sensation.

 

[borg69unimatrix]

LOL Thanks guys.

 

[MJEH89]

The way I do it is I kiss it first then swirl my tongue around the head then I slowly insert the dick in my mouth by grasping the base and guide it into my mouth. Once it's inside, I swirl my tongue and lick the tip while I suck in. Then I take ot out and repeat. Then I suck it like a lollipop and then I put it all the way in my mouth and just pause to feel it pulsating and making it nice and warm.

Make him believe that you are enjoying it. Make some sounds and moaning while his dick is in your mouth.
Look at his face and read his expressions. And suck that dick like it's the most delicious thing you've ever put in your mouth.

You don't need to jerk him. Just use your mouth.

Cool!!

Getting cocksucking advice from "Elvin" is like learning how to be Catholic from the Pope...!!!

 

[chrisrobin]

Make him believe that you are enjoying it.

You're not?

And suck that dick like it's the most delicious thing you've ever put in your mouth.

It isn't?

 

[RDaniel]

Reading Elvin's advice made me remember a dream I had last night.

 

[JayHawk]

All of this advice is good.... it is an overall experience BUT in the mouth work on a few techniques such as your hand stroking the base of his cock while you suck up and down on the tip letting your tongue pulse and play just under the head.... ever few strokes break the seal around you lips and inhale deeply while you pull back.... work the tongue on the underside of the shaft while you cup the other side (this works well when you intend to go down and suck one or two balls into your mouth.... and finally if you are not good at deep throat then don't force it because gagging (and worse) really ruin the mood for some.... BUT if you go at the dick from a 69-ish position it more naturally pushes into your throat....

Anyways like I said all great advice but there are a few things you could give a shot.....

 

[cocksucker4use]

Gee, this topic seems to have sparked interest, and some very good advice. Assuming you know the dude, get them to tell you what does it for him. One guy I play with...the most sensitive part of his dick is mid-shaft. Also, what about his balls? The right amount of attention to them can make a big difference. Start out light, brushing down both sides of his sack with both hands, or just diddle them a bit with the fingers of one hand...depending on the response, you may end up going for hard squeeze and tug, and if he's into it (a surprising number are). When licking the balls, go a little behind toward the taint. You don't necessarily have to rim him, but some guys like assplay alot, obviously. If you are having a, well, casual encounter and don't necessarily know the guy, sucking like your saving his life is a brilliant idea, and will almost always get a guy off.
On deep throating. Length is not the issue, but girth. Unless you are pretty experienced, build up to it during the bj. Test it out and stretch your throat out to take it deep, so your kissin his belly with his dick buried in your skull. Woof. Letting the top thrust, as mentioned above, is a turn on for both of you. Grab his ass and go down on him, and alternately hold your head still and pull his ass toward you to guide him into skull fucking you. Once he catches on, it can be like a dance....he leads, you follow, different strokes. Hanging your head over the edge of the bed or laying down to have him mount your face is more for experienced cocksuckers

 

[RDaniel]

Well????

I don't remember the dream that well tbqh but I do remember that I was able to see everything the mouth was doing. I can see the tongue swirling around the dick, the tongue licking the head, see the dick go further into the throat. I couldn't see anyone's face so I don't know if I was giving it or getting it.

Quite the lackluster dream.