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Blowjobs: Giving and receiving

Raincoat Massacre

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So, is it normal that I don't like receiving blowjobs but like giving them more? I don't mind getting them but I would much rather be rimmed. Thoughts?
 
If that's what you like, then that's what you like. ..| Some people love to receive blow jobs more than to give. Tell your sex partner what you like and vice versa so that two of you would be accommodating to each other's needs and not misunderstand each other.
 
HunterM said:
If that's what you like, then that's what you like. ..| Some people love to receive blow jobs more than to give. Tell your sex partner what you like and vice versa so that two of you would be accommodating to each other's needs and not misunderstand each other.
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Thank you, I was starting to think that there was something wrong with me. I have had blowjobs before... awesome ones. But I think it has a lot to do with dominate vs. submissive roles. Like: "ON YOUR KNEES AND WORSHIP MY DICK." "YES. SIR."
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I don't mind either, but I don't really like sucking dick (it's boring, and I always feel like I'm wasting energy on something unproductive lol), and I don't get much out of having my dick sucked. Might be cause my first bj was from a girl and I was trying to prove myself I liked girls (so false), so it was nerve-wracking and negative experience.

But hey - it's perfectly normal to not like stuff a lot of people like.
 
Rolyo85 said:
I don't mind either, but I don't really like sucking dick (it's boring, and I always feel like I'm wasting energy on something unproductive lol), and I don't get much out of having my dick sucked. Might be cause my first bj was from a girl and I was trying to prove myself I liked girls (so false), so it was nerve-wracking and negative experience.

But hey - it's perfectly normal to not like stuff a lot of people like.
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My problem is that I spend waaaaaaaaay too much time analyzing my motives and actions.
 
Most have one preference or another. I tried bottoming once with each hole, hated it and confirmed I'm a total Top, so naturally I enjoy putting my penis to someone's mouth or ass but dont care to take one in me, just as many bottoms dont care to take the Top's part in sex acts but they love and adore us men putting our meat to them and nutting in them.
 
It's all about what you like - as far as anal sex, I'm versatile. Oral sex? Love giving head - not so much into getting it. Works out great for my boyfriend because he doesn't like to give blowjobs.
 
I far prefer sucking Dick, and being Blown, than fucking Ass, or getting Fucked! I 'guess' I'm more Oral than Anal! :lol:

I'd rather be closer to a Guy's "Potential" than experiencing HIM at a "backdoor" distance! :bj: :69: (Even though that can be a LOT of Fun, too! :gaysex: )

I'd rather TASTE Him than FEEL Him! :drool:

It all depends on how you want to Experience the Sexuality of your chosen (conquered) Male! (!w!) (group) :-<
 
I love sucking cock, but I don't like to get fucked. However, I'll do what I have to do to get the other guy off, because that's what makes you a good lover, paying attention to his needs as well as your own. Such is life, we're all different.


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"Us men"? I find that wildly offensive :/
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I believe his attitude is our favorite rigid, hetero-normative sex role stereotype rearing it's phobic head.

To the OP. Don't ever let anyone tell you that some acts are "masculine," and some acts are "feminine," sex between two guys is about the most "masculine" thing you can do all around.

There are plenty of guys out there who have that baggage in their heads, we all know where it comes from, and it's not a healthy place.
 
As with many other sex acts, your attraction to your partner is very important.
The talent of your partner plays a role too, I've had guys blow me so great that I'd come in a few minutes while others sucked so long and so badly, all I'd end up with is a sore cock.
The same with giving a blowjob, some guys go crazy because they enjoy it so much. Others just lay there and almost just suffer through it.
I enjoy oral sex more than anal, but on a limited number of occasions I'd have anal sex just to please my partner. The main problem is if it took too long my cock or booty would just get too sore. So I made sure we had some great foeplay beforehand.
 
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