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I need to rant...#-o

Okay...so I attended a rock concert a few days back alone. (well..pretty much alone....my younger sis was there with her friends but we didn't hang out) Anyways, during the set for the final band a guy caught my eye. He had to be no older than 20. Around my age! He was wearing a baseball cap, a brown jacket, and baggy blue jeans. He wandered over to my area to watch the final band perform several songs. Like me, he was all alone. Now, I wouldn't call this guy the sexiest guy in the world but he was definitely really cute. As the night progressed and the band played on, I noticed he kept staring at me. Every 2 minutes he would look at me for a couple of seconds and then stare back at the stage. To notice this, I was obviously glancing at him as well. After every song, everyone would clap and cheer and he would just stay quiet. (unlike me....I was going nuts!) Finally, after about 45 mins there was an opening for some conversation. A strange drunk guy stumbled over to me and said some jibberish before walking away. Well, he witnessed this incident and smiled at me and asked me what the hell the drunk guy said. I responded by saying 'I have no fuckin idea'. We both laughed about it. From there on we had a nice 10 minute conversation about music. I felt a great connection with him. He seemed to really like me, too. Unfortunately, right as we started chatting the concert ended. That was that. He was gone. I left, he left. I never found out his name, where he's from etc. I'll most likely never see him again.

So...again...I feel I fucked it up. I blew an opportunity to make a good friend (and it possibly could have been something more...?) I would say you don't know how hard it is to deal with it, but I know most of you do know. It really sucks....but life goes on.....

I'm going to a few more concerts this summer. We'll see what happens!
 
The situation was out of your hands...because you failed to reach out and grasp it. You need to start reaching out a bit. You don't have to jump straight to "wanna be my boyfriend?" But if the conversation was fun, and you then had to leave, you could've just said, "I gotta head out, but I'd love to continue the conversation sometime. Can I get your e-mail address, or myspace page?" These tend to be the safest, least "pushy" sorts of contact info to exchange. And, of course, offer to give him yours. Put it in your phone, so you don't forget. And then see where it goes the next day. :)

Lex
 
Yeah, I know...you're exactly right Lex. I should've given him my IM address or number. That's been my problem in recent years. I've had the same small group of friends since elementary school that I haven't bothered to meet any new people. They're all busy with college or work now and im pretty much left all alone. I won't see my best friend until late October and he's the only person i've hung out with the past 6 months.
 
There's a lot of days between now and late October. Don't spend them waiting. :)

Lex
 
No, I definitely won't be waiting around. I got some things lined up for the rest of the summer. I'm hoping to meet a few new friends and maybe something more....

:)
 
Yes, it is. It is beyond frustrating. I probably won't be able to get that exchange at the concert out of my head for a long time.
 
If you are trying to find the same guy again i would suggest you go to the same band's concert again if possible (if it is a small enough venue) or make a post on craigslist in the missed connections section.
 
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