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Boarding a friend's son...

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So I have taken in my friend's 18 year-old son while his parent's are going thru a nasty divorce in order to keep him in school district. His mom is currently working overseas while his dad has started to drink and do drugs more regularly. I gladly took in this sweet mannered but troubled young man. He just finished high school in May and is now taking college classes. He and I have gotten pretty close as he has disclosed the physical beatings that his dad has given him (he is a bastard hill-billy who has beaten on him since he was little) and the cruel mental games that his mom puts him through because of her asian background. He has lived with me for about a year. Our relationship is one of honesty and trust (in which he breaks occasionally but has really turned a corner this calendar year). He has always been the ladies man, having multiple stories about his conquests and the multiple girls who have come over and retire to his room daily. I even heard one girl with her high pitch squeal during an orgasmic moment of ecstasy while I was in the garage (his room is upstairs on the other side of the house...ventilation is really interesting in my house). I am bisexual and currently not in a relationship. I find him very cute but have never instigated anything. I do find myself in the garage more often when he heads upstairs when one of his girls comes over (I get turned on hearing them go at it).

Recently, another bisexual friend of mine was talking about using Craigslist to settle any needs during dry-spells in his sexual life. I got on last week and looked over the "Casual Encounters" & "Men Seeking Men" for our town to see what's out there. While browsing the ads, I stumbled across a "NSA Blowjob & Maybe More" ad under my part of town. It happens that the age is listed at 19 years old (19 years my junior) but has a pic attached. What's the harm in looking, right? So I open the ad and I immediately freeze. There is the picture is a nice sized cock with the abdomen with a blanket and dresser showing in the background...my unique bedspread and my dresser that are in his room!! I think surely this is a coincidence, but I decided to be vigilant and pay attention to my security system indicator lights on the control in my bedroom. 2 hours go by and my living room motion sensor indicating light goes off and it was about 2:30 in the morning. I quietly sneak out of my room and see the back door slowly shutting. I walked slowly in the living room but I hear the side gate on my fence open through the dining room window. I hear some quiet talking on my porch and go to get another view from the kitchen. I glance out the window and see a older guy, around my age, sit in my reclining porch chair and my friend's son squat down and start blowing him!!! It took me a second to process everything. I watched him complete the blowjob and then turn around and drop his pants. The random dude then started fingering his hole and I heard my "roommate" begin to moan. I was astounded!! I started thinking about this situation and began to get scared for him...miscellaneous, random sex act with someone from Craigslist (I know some of you probably use it but as I have said, he and I are close and I worried for him). Before anything moves along more, I decide that I will break up the party. I go into the living room and turn on the light and act like I am getting water in the kitchen. I hear the scramble of feet on the porch/deck and hear the gate open. Just then, "Benji" came in the door saying that he was peeing off the porch. He asked if he woke me and I said no. He went upstairs and I went back to my room. I could not sleep the rest of the night as I thought about the situation all night and even took the time to rub one out myself from the memory of his activity on the porch.

So, the reason I am telling this story...what do you guys recommend that I do? I want to protect him from any bad situations but I also want to let him know that I know that he is bi-curious or in the closet without freaking him out. I have never been in this situation before and need any ideas you may have....

GC
 
It sounds like you are pissed that he was blowing another guy and not you. As for sneaking into the garage so you can hear him having sex, sounds like you are being a voyeur or a stalker.
Be honest with yourself, and admit you have the hots for him. Otherwise why "rub" one out whilst thinking about him doing sexual acts with another man.
 
Are you interested in hooking up with him yourself? If so, I would totally go for it. Sounds like he'd probably be up for it too and it could be such a hot and convenient situation.
 
I think it is totally ok to tell him that saw the ad on Craigslist and recognized the furniture. Then go up to him and start to unbuclke his belt and pull his pants and underpants down. then drop to your knees and blow him. It's ok at this point.
 
I think it's time you start wearing a lot fewer clothes and leaving doors open....... :twisted:
 
you are his guardian i would not try to have sex with him. But i would maybe make sure that he is informed about safe sex
 
I think you were a jerk for breaking up his porch activity. he was probably terrified. how would have you liked it had it been you in his position? does he know about your sexuality? if so he'd let you know if he was interested. he's trusted you with some of the horrific things he's been through. I think you should stay as a confidant to him but let him make the first move. you're coming across as a little stalkerish. let the kids have his privacy. it sounds like he's been through enough. let him explore and figure things out. let him know he can talk to you about anything. as far as the being safe talk you can still have the talk with him workout letting him know you saw the ad and his activity. tell him you know hes having girls over and he should use protection to avoid std's or pregnancy no matter who he's with. he'll get the idea.

Steven
 
I think you were a jerk for breaking up his porch activity. he was probably terrified. how would have you liked it had it been you in his position? does he know about your sexuality? if so he'd let you know if he was interested. he's trusted you with some of the horrific things he's been through. I think you should stay as a confidant to him but let him make the first move. you're coming across as a little stalkerish. let the kids have his privacy. it sounds like he's been through enough. let him explore and figure things out. let him know he can talk to you about anything. as far as the being safe talk you can still have the talk with him workout letting him know you saw the ad and his activity. tell him you know hes having girls over and he should use protection to avoid std's or pregnancy no matter who he's with. he'll get the idea.

Steven

I agree. Leave the kid alone. You might as well bring hook ups in your house. You need to get laid.
You should have just left him alone finish his hook up. He would have probably hooked up with more guys, several times with other guys probably. Now, he'll be hooking up away from your house. You're obviously jealous he's getting it on and you're not. So, bring your hook ups over. It's your house. But don't pursue him. Let him come to you. If he discovers you are hooking up with guys, tell him you're bi. "They give better head :)"
The reason you shouldn't pursue him is because you might not be his type. Don't force it. Don't even make a hint. Get your own 19 y.o.
 
I wouldn't touch him in this situation, but I would make sure he knows about safe sex and the danger of random hook ups. That guy could be a psycho stalker.

I admit that I would have been aroused myself, but you are his guardian and "safe spot".
 
I agree with the others that it's obvious that you're attracted to him. And that's perfectly fine. Maybe you can be honest about it? Don't think you'll freak him out since he likes men too.
 
Since you are his guardian, i know its tempting but DONT do it

lol keep us updated:lol:
 
Interesting story.....I would say don't open that box. Why? because your actions will not just effect him, but your friendship with his parents....
 
He needs someone to stick up for him like his dad never did. If you look for something else, you will leave him without the relationship he actually needs. So quit perving on him.

But also, him fucking around with randoms from craigslist is a good way to get a disease. You're right to show some concern about that.

The way to do it is not to point out you've been cyberstalking him (unintentionally I admit), but maybe to come out to him. But if you trust him with this news, with NO EXPECTATIONS other than being honest with him, then maybe he'll trust you with his news. Then you can talk to him about why it is important to know someone, and know that they get tested, and know they take care of their health, before putting random dick in your mouth. It would be a good lesson for him to learn. You can teach him but you have to remember why he's there. It's not for your sexual amusement.
 
be his "adopted" dad and do the right thing - think and act with the head on your shoulders and not the one between your legs. The temptation is beyond imaginable, I am sure, but you have been purposefully put in a position of trust, authority and law & order here with this young man. Stick to that. Really!! Don't look him up and don't arrange something with him. Don't touch him. Even though it may drive you absolutely crazy - don't do it. Go jerk off somewhere else to relieve your tensions. Do that and you will for sure do the right thing. Think of him and his nasty situation and not your own needs, wants or desires. Put him first as you have been charged to do. They obviously trusted you to leave him with you. Do something else and, who knows, you may end up regretting it for the rest of your life.
 
Holy crap - the last poster is completely right - this kid is going through hell - he needs a father figure to truly care not use him for sex or refuse to warn him about anonymous sex - love this kid like a father not a lover - far more rewarding to him and you.

When I was 30 I met a guy who was cute as hell. 18 yer old college kid. Me and my wife and kids got to know him and before too long he was a Member of the family. One night he told me about his dad who he caught planning his suicide so he took his dads gun to college with him - that's how I met him - invited him to shoot in my back yard. Well my heart broke for this kid - real tough little guy - and I really loved him - but damn I was also so attracted to him. But I didn't touch him because he was like a son to me.
just because you're attracted to this kid doesn't mean you are merely jealous - help him by giving him some advice and let him know that you value him enough not to use him and others should too - that he is worth more - though you should setup some boundaries.

be his "adopted" dad and do the right thing - think and act with the head on your shoulders and not the one between your legs. The temptation is beyond imaginable, I am sure, but you have been purposefully put in a position of trust, authority and law & order here with this young man. Stick to that. Really!! Don't look him up and don't arrange something with him. Don't touch him. Even though it may drive you absolutely crazy - don't do it. Go jerk off somewhere else to relieve your tensions. Do that and you will for sure do the right thing. Think of him and his nasty situation and not your own needs, wants or desires. Put him first as you have been charged to do. They obviously trusted you to leave him with you. Do something else and, who knows, you may end up regretting it for the rest of your life.
 
He may be hooking up with older guys because he sees that as a way to get affection that his dad never gave him, the sex is just a bi product of the attention, he does not need you to exploit him.
Have a father son talk with him about safe sex, make it inclusive about both gay and str8 sex.
As tempting as it seems, don't hurt the kid by using him for your own desires.
 
I agree with the mass population.

1) You're a guardian of the kid. a Trustee.
2) He has had some screwy things in his life. He doesn't need a person who he knows he can be safe with to screw that up as well.
3) Should have let him finish his conquest, regardless of worry or not. Hes an adult and can make his own decisions.
4) Talk to him openly. I went on craigslist, I saw an ad posted and saw your bedroom in the background. I just want you to know, that if you need anyone to talk to, I am there for you. I myself am Bi and understand the struggles of liking men and women. I may have some guys come over from time to time and enjoy a good time, you can as well. Also bring up safe sex. This you can figure out on your own, its just guidelines
5) Not sure if you want to have sex with him or not. But if you do, don't do anything to persuade him. Let him approach you if that happens.
 
I think you should open up about your sexuality to him. Obviously he is the same as you. Youcare his trusted Dad figure. Good for you, he needs that and I commend you for it.
If you two grow a bond together it does need to be him that pursues it. If you try to convince him and are his father figure you could really add to fucking up his life. But if he comes to you with affection because of your bond then fine, maybe it would grow into a serious relationship. Thats ok. But if all you want to do is hook up, please dont. He needs someone to trust and be loved by as a father figure and mentor. Do good to him, he needs it. He has had enough hell in his life.
 
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