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Both Confused

Lube said:
Oh, c'mon, people!

Hey, buddy: you and your friend are both gay. He's in denial. You are growing to accept it.

You are much more a man than he is. Congrats for facing up to it! (*8*)

But he sounds like a lot of trouble. Avoid him and find another nice guy.
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Just how do you come up with that answer? From the information that is provided you know enough about it to definatively state that they are both gay? From what information is this coming from? What crystal ball are you looking into?

You are providing validation without proof to the OP regarding something you have no personal knowledge of regarding the sexuality of another person. What happens when he takes your advise and confronts this other person and ends up in trouble? He ruins a friendship as well as a working relationship.

To the OP, your answer was given to you by him when he told you that he was now straight and had a gf. Unless he takes a billboard on a major highway to tell you otherwise, accept what he says, value his friendship and the relationship that you have with him and move on to other pastures for your sexual gratifications and relationship materials.
 
Its like everyday i start to miss him.. I getting deeper and deeper into this..

Yesterday we went to a pub and talked about it.. He told me he is happy that I actually accepted "IT"

I am abit surprised that particular moment.. Its like first you deny being gay.. but now u told me u r happy i accept it.. What is the "IT" here?

I told him last time before all this happened, i might try avoid myself getting close to a guy but now all changed. I mean as long as we are good friends, why care how people look at us being too close or not...
 
Dear all,

Just a small updates to the story ...actually we been sleeping in same room (due to work travel - and he willing to accompany me whenever he's free) ...

Actually until now.. everytime we sleep together, we will actually cuddle up.. i guess more or less 10 times now...

Seriously, can anyone advice where our relationship will be going? Im slightly even more confused that previous.

I actually plan to ignore him but i think i will miss him ..
 
You have been given fairly consistent advice to not sleep with your coworker.

But you've continued to do so.

Do you want different advice this time or if you get the same advice again, will you follow it?

.... back to coffee time...
 
I made scones.

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Lex
 
Yay! Scones!
 
but he's pretty fine with everything... what i really thinking is.. what is he thinking (ok, some of you might say; just confess or ask...).

when cuddling, we somehow touching each other's private area.. i can even feel it.. does straight man do that?

sorry, but im still confused.

for all advices, can we just skip the co-worker part... say..it doesnt matter in my society.
 
As the accountant told the kid who asked him what two plus two was..."What kind of answer are you looking for?"

Is he gay? Possibly/probably.
Can you have sex with him? Possibly/probably.
Is it going to be hot? Possibly/probably.
Will it end badly? Possibly/probably.

Lex
 
What country are you from? There could be some social/customs going on here....many countries are about 20 years behind the U.S.

Just wonderin'
 
It sounds to me like the guy just desperately needs someone to vent and talk with, so he's chosen to open up to you because he feels like he can trust you. When you joked about being gay and wanting to touch his dick, he was disgusted and reminded you that he was straight, and NEVER wanted you to touch his dick.


I suppose it's healthy and acceptable to have sexual fantasies, but if you can't accept the friendship he wants to have with you, then I suggest you stop talking to him; It's going to end badly if you make any sort of move on him.
 
I've got a lovely strawberry preserve to bring for the scones.

Hopefully the other situation has resloved itself.
 
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