Bottom, Top or Vers. Which are you

[versatileplayer]

mostly gay - sometimes bi - versatile

 

[versatileplayer]

Top. Pretty much totally (although I'll admit I've switched two or three times with my current beautiful boyfriend). I just love the feeling of being in charge of the situation and forcefully, but lovingly making my lover feel like the most beautiful thing in the world (or just shameless, selfish fucking is good, too).

When I was young, I thought I had to be a bottom because I was a somewhat feminine twink type, but I didn't really like it. Now if anyone tells me I have to be a bottom because of the way I look, I tell them to go fuck themselves, which is what real masculinity is. I only bring this up because Southwest85 on page one said he had a similar problem.

Don't worry - as you get older fewer and fewer men will want to fuck you.

 

[NW007]

Versatile, but since I bottom twice as much as I top; I should probably say versatile bottom

 

[LoveIsNow]

Don't worry - as you get older fewer and fewer men will want to fuck you.

Umm, I'll take this in the best possible way lol.

 

[NineOfClubs]

Versatile.

I'll be whatever you want.

 

[PepaeMango]

total bottom here. never topped and have no desire to.
I think bottoming is the ultimate act of submission and suits me fine.

 

[Dduder]

Around 90% of the replies here were that they prefer to bottom. I guess this is due to the femininity of gay men. They tend to prefer the "woman's"(passive) role in sex which involves being penetrated rather than penetrating, and pleasuring rather than being pleasured - most gay men prefer sucking dick rather than having their dicks sucked. As I expected, gay men behave according to the stereotype...

 

[thewiz]

^ I am guessing that you either have not been around many gay people or certainly have never experienced sexual relations other than to "ram, bam, and scram."

I'd love you to tell our friend who diffuses bombs for ATF that he prefers "the woman's passive role" and that he performs according to a stereotype. Or, for that matter, the military guys who play in the football league in which I play or that row with my husband. Actually I'll let you tell "Ginger Bear" who is a bouncer at a local nude bar that he is fem and stereotypical but then we'll also watch from a distance with popcorn.

People prefer to bottom, largely, because it feels good. There are many sensual locations in the ass and some guys that find it as pleasurable as masturbation is to others or blowjobs are to still others.

I was married for 19 years and the onlyway my wife could enjoy sexual penetration was on her back with her legs open. No other position was even remotely tolerable (and it suited me fine). My husband, on the other hand, is anything but passive and frequently surprises.

I'd say a statement like yours is stereotypical of someone that understands not what making love is all about.

 

[Anders123]

Around 90% of the replies here were that they prefer to bottom. I guess this is due to the femininity of gay men. They tend to prefer the "woman's"(passive) role in sex which involves being penetrated rather than penetrating, and pleasuring rather than being pleasured - most gay men prefer sucking dick rather than having their dicks sucked. As I expected, gay men behave according to the stereotype...

When the fuck are people going to drop this bullshit concept that all (oh, I'm sorry, most) gay people adopt heterosexual roles within homosexual relationships?

Being the bottom does not equate to a "woman's role", nor is it inherently submissive or feminine; the same goes for sucking dick.

 

[toshiba114]

i am top because never try bot