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Bottoming/ dildo question

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So I bought a Dildo from adammale. I wanted to see what bottom felt like.
I don't know if I'm doing it wrong or what. I go slow it doesn't hunt but it doesn't feel good. I've read it's supposed it hit your prostate. But I don't feel anything. There is little to no sensation. Same with the prostate wand I got. I'm I dont something wrong?
 
Croft85 said:
So I bought a dildo from adammale. I wanted to see what bottom felt like.
I don't know if I'm doing it wrong or what. I go slow it doesn't hunt but it doesn't feel good. I've read it's supposed it hit your prostate. But I don't feel anything. There is little to no sensation. Same with the prostate wand I got. I'm I dont something wrong?
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Which toy(s) did you buy? And it sounds like you don't have much prior experience with assplay?
 
The dildo- the True Feel Cock- has a lot of the traits that make of a good toy for some who doesn't have much experience. It is close to the size of a typical penis, it has a natural feel and it has a place where you can get a good grip on it. It also has a suction cup that can be used to affix the dildo to a surface so that it can be used hands-free.

The Wand looks a little intense for a beginner. The problem with a vibrating toy is that it doesn't produce a sensation that is close to the sensations of real sex. A simple prostate stimulator (similar to an Aneros) might be better for a beginner.

You might look at some of the butt plug trainer sets. Butt plugs are good because they are tapered, you can insert them part of the way until you're relaxed and once you get them inserted, they can be left in (which frees up your hand). Butt plugs also encourage going slow; speed is the enemy when it comes to anal stimulation.

Anal pleasure can be complicated. There are some who take to it like a duck to water. Others are a little slower to come around. You might not have an "a ha" moment from just the toy. It might be the enhanced orgasm that you get at the end while the toy is inserted that gives you an idea of what is possible.

Also- no toy replaces the sensations of the real experience with a real person.
 
Are you using numbing lube maybe you are dulling the sensation.
 
I use petroleum jelly I've tried other actual lubes but I'm allergic to a lot of them.I know it's not ideal to use and well break down the toy but at the moment it's all I have at work s
 
Sensation might also be different if someone else is using the toy on you. Sometimes doing it yourself doesn't always work as well like it does with masturbation.
 
I prefer the ones from fort troff myself. They have some very high quality prostate toys.
 
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