Bottoming

[jamie_01930]

I am very new to this position and I am wondering about the length. If I haven't had much of a problem with a wide 6, should taking more length be a problem.

Had I seen this guys dick first I would have thought, no way, but it was no problem after a couple of times.

I have been declining hookups b/c of their dick size

 

[swerve]

I would say GO FOR IT!!!

If it ISN'T FUN -- just LAUGH it off -- and tell your partner -- THANKS for TRYING!!!

I don't get the whole "obsession" thing...

ENJOY your life -- and don't worry about the "little" things...

 

[LatinoSTAR]

im not a bottomer by nature...the biggest ive took was 7 inches..

 

[gdude30]

YEE-HAW RIDE DAT COCK.

For the most part the cock size really doesn't matter.

I have a small body frame so supposively I am not supposed to take something over 8 inches. And I don't really aim for big cocks.

A 6 inch is fine but damn. Thickness kills me more then length. What length does it it tickles your prostate more which gives ya more pleasure. I donno. Sometimes a cock can feel like a spear if you are too tight and don't relax enough but it really depends. There probably will be a slight difference as with a thick cock you need to open up more and relax more, but with a longer cock it goes in deeper. Not a problem getting it in so much. Or maybe so if the hole has to stay opened up that much. With a thicker cock it might be easier just cause the whole stays like that afterwards. But being stretched a little might make it a little harder. Just always relax, use lots of lube, tlc if you are nervous, and deep breathes and ya should be fine.

One thing you can do if you wanna bottom is lube yourself. I've done that it helps more. It also helps to lube the cheeks as well to make them all slippery and fun. But yeah lubing around the hole too and fingering it. If you can get two fingers in and be comfortable then you should be good to go. If it's not so thick a finger is fine. But the most important thing is to relax. If your hands are clenching or muscles are just let them drop and relax. You can open up more if it's relaxed.

Taking deep breathes is good too. It might be hard to justify, "How the fuck can I deep breathes when he's shoving the cock in me" it takes some time to getting used to. Just make sure that the guy you do it with is patient and gives you tons of tender loving care.

 

[jamie_01930]

thx
so far it seems the girlth is the only major thing to worry about. the length was my worry.

i put on the lube so i know there is ample, and tell him to remember i was a virgin just a few short times ago.

with any luck after today i should be able to make another knotch

thanx again

 

[gdude30]

Yeah. Girth splits ya open like a christmas tree ((What the fuck that made no sense at all))

That's good to tell him that. For me though there have been some times where the guy either got to excited and put it in and stretched it out and I told him to pull out and by that point it was loose so there was no need for much lube or fingering. There have also been times where some lube was put in and the cock was slowly pushed in and I took it by relaxing and breathing deeply and telling myself even though the giant bone is going in me to relax.

And I gotta tell you. You can do this if ya want but with the hole opened up less and tight. But not tight enough to break the skin. It feels really good bottoming. It does feel good really lubricated too. But in my opinion that feels the best if ya got a rough guy who likes to really fuck. Cause with it less lubricated it's better for it to start out slow and open up bit by bit but you feel more that way. I can't say I've been fucked hard like that though. That might be a bit too much.

But yeah. I gotta say I'm not sure if this works for you but it has for me. Being sort of unexpected and having that dick go in when I wasn't ready sort of forces you to get used to it and forces you to learn how to deal with it. So now even if it's not really rushed in because of haste I a am better at taking it. But I'd take that with a grain of salt. If something like that happens it happens. But not good to force yourself to be in a situation like that. Although not all of those situations are bad. It depends really.

No problem. I really shouldn't know so much about this though T_T

Oh be wary of curved dicks. If that's in the right spot it will drive you wild. In a good way though.

 

[gmoney]

1) having an understanding partner is a must!

2) RELAX!

3) Enjoy!

 

[jamie_01930]

maybe this isn't for me. just got back from my fb and the 4th time was like the first time.. it hurt like hell.

then again it could be my angel getting back at me for bb'n

it was in the heat of the moment sort of

 

[G-Lexington]

The thing about length is that it's somewhat controlable. If it's "too long", he can just put most of it in. If it's "too wide", well...

If it hurts like hell, you're doing it wrong. Stop. Immediately. Say "it hurts like hell". Make alterations - give yourself more time to relax, add more lube, make out to get you further into the mood.

Lex