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andrewb

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I'm a virgin and I find the idea of bottoming very appealing, but I've tried beads and dildos and it's not pleasurable and just unpleasant. Even though they are not pleasurable I still get the urge to stick something up there when I'm masturbating. Anyway, does this mean I won't like bottoming?
 
Not everyone finds bottoming pleasurable or pleasant, so I don't know if you will either, but I can tell you this: putting objects in your butt is not the same as making love with a real person. Your body responds and builds in anticipation when you are having foreplay, something you can't do by yourself. When his fingers and mouth and tongue are exploring your whole body, your whole body responds with desire. This kind of desire is likely to make the experience something much greater than you can have alone.

Having said that, I really don't know why most gay virgin males are so focuses on anal sex. There are so many other things you can try before that. I recommend you think about love before sex, too. When you have the two together, it's dynamite.
 
I've used a Dildo on me the first time, nothing feels better like the real thing. So I would give it a try cause you might like it.
 
I think to have a dick stuck in your ass is like a bad constipation. What is so pleasurable about that?? It is a fetish like feet fetish.
You'll get all kind of infections or hemorhoid. a quote " Men who engage in sodomy are 860% more likely to contract a sexually transmitted ... Anal Human Papillomavirus (HPV) infection"
 
andrewb said:
I'm a virgin and I find the idea of bottoming very appealing, but I've tried beads and dildos and it's not pleasurable and just unpleasant. Even though they are not pleasurable I still get the urge to stick something up there when I'm masturbating. Anyway, does this mean I won't like bottoming?
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It depends on what you don't like about it. If you mean unpleasant because of pain, then maybe you're not doing it right (not enough time, lube, etc.) Or, if you don't like the feeling of having those muscles stretched, that's different. Like the person above said, some people compare it to defecating and it can be odd to think of enjoying that. Adding a loving, or at least thoughtful, partner makes a major difference, of course, but I would think that having at least some enjoyment of the sensations would be important. There are some things I just don't enjoy, not because they hurt, but because I just don't like the feeling. However, I've changed over time and with different partners.
 
sixthson said:
I really don't know why most gay virgin males are so focuses on anal sex.
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People in general associate gay males with "butt fucking". They think that's what being gay is, and that it's how we're "supposed" to have sex. There are many gay men who aren't into anal, just like there are many straight people who aren't into oral.


If putting something in your butt doesn't feel right to you, you just might be a top. If you don't like topping, then just might be more of an oral guy. You'll just have to experiment and learn what type of person you are yourself. . .but for the record: gay sex is mostly kissing, cuddling, foreplay and blowjobs 90% of the time.
 
Nomenclature said:
... gay sex is mostly kissing, cuddling, foreplay and blowjobs 90% of the time.
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Dear Nomen, I've no idea how you can quantify that.

But I agree with the sentiment.

I'll NEVER be doing the butt-sex again --even if Elvin wants to force it into me.:D
 
I lost my butt virginity very recently to a guy :S. It felt weird and kind of painful, and I was really nervous about it....but theres just something about it which makes me want to do it again and again.

You don't know until you try it. Just be with someone you trust, and be safe :P
 
pat grimshaw said:
Dear Nomen, I've no idea how you can quantify that.
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Most of the long-term couples i've spoken to either only have anal sex on "special occasions", or not at all if they're top/top or bottom. Though they engage in oral, mutual masturbation, etc a few times a week.

Furthermore, there's amovement of gay men who would rather frot than do any sort of anal at all.
 
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