100% bottom here. I like to get fucked slowly to begin, and feel him push and open me up as I relax around his shaft and he slides in deep, then pick up the pace and fuck me hard and rough. I like to feel used.
I like a tactile man who grips my hips, slaps my ass, strokes my back or my chest. I like to feel that connection inside and out.
I like to be on all fours, doggy style, and pushing back against each thrust to show my appreciation and to egg him on to ream me hard. I like to be on my back, legs over his shoulders or pulled right back to my chest, ass up and open, feeling him stroking against my prostate. I like to be bent over the edge of a bed or arm of a couch, pinned down with the dick angled down into my prostate. If he has the length I like to be face down and ass up, him lying on top, reaming me in prone bone position. I like variety, mix up the positions and angles and feeling and connection.
Most importantly, when he builds up to his moment of pleasure I like him to feel fantastic and to be satisfied, because of my willingness and enjoyment of giving myself to him.
That's how I like to be fucked.