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boyfriend help? acting kinda strange

tonyboy

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He's looking around man, maybe just for some good porn or some interesting things to read. Doesn't mean he is searching for another b/f.
Please don't try to keep a tight leash on him friend. Don't check up on him. Best thing is to keep communication open, let him do his thing and you do yours. If you are meant to be together then nothing he finds on the net will take him away from you.
I can guarantee though that if you try to be too controlling or possesive you will lose him.
best to you. :D :D :D
 
I often go to bed, bring my lap top and look at websites as a way to wind down and put myself to sleep.
 
Same thing happens to me, btu Idon't have a boyfriend, so... I can't only tell you this.

he probably just doesn't want to talk all the time with you because we have our limits with who we chat wth for the day or he just leaves his computer on alot...

Or he might indeed be hinding somehting from you.

Ok I'm done.
 
^ Good I'm glad you got that message. I think he was trying to get some space to himself by lying to you, but as with all lies, you get found out and he did. It's kinder and easier than telling you to back off. I've done it myself with mates on messenger, I need time for others as well, it is no reflection on the friendship.

Be cool, give him his space, trust him then see if your relationship improves. (*8*)
 
Do you think he might just have the website up on his computer? I leave my computer on and sometimes something liek jub is still there and it says I'm still alone, even if I'm asleep.
 
IM not trying to be mean maybe he doesnt want to be bothered?

I know when i get alot of ims from people i always tell them i have to go and surf the internet.
 
I agree with giving him more space and trust.
 
He doesn't feel like talking anymore? I know the feeling cause I used to say I have to go as well. My pet peeve in a relationship is someone who feels they need to talk me to every few hours every day. Give him some room to breathe and see how it works out.
 
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