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boyfriend is getting on manroulette :(

I don't get why people get all atwitter about the ex. Maybe it's just my friends, but the lot of us remember pretty explicitly why we left the ex.

I suppose it would be different if the ex dumped the bf and the bf was carrying a torch - but the why would you be dating the guy in the first place?

No matter what, you don't get to choose who he associates with, you can and should talk about why you don't like it, but if the reasons are all you then you are the one with the problem. Insecurity, the gift that keeps on giving.
 
alexm54444 said:
i guess i'm just being an emotional cunt about everything but i still feel like it's not all my fault either. i mean, i know my boyfriend loves me as much as i love him but i'm insecure about lots of things. i hate the fact that he still texts his ex stuff about their hometown and that he "likes" a bunch of stuff on his ex's page and half of his pictures of are him and his ex and i guess just get worried and i guess that also has to do with the fact that we met on grindr. i don't know if i'm being an emotional basketcase or what, and i feel like i'm just psychoanalyzing everything but a part of me feels justified in the way i feel. maybe it's that i don't believe in myself enough to sustain this relationship because whenever i compare myself to his previous flings i don't feel like i excel in any way.
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Your own words here explain what you need to work on about yourself. You have jealously issues and are very insecure about yourself. This is not how your boyfriend feels about you. He loves you and looks very highly of you to be with you. To say to yourself that you are not worth it, is insulting the good taste in men that your boyfriend has. ;) He chose you. Accept your identity and build your confidence up. You're just as equal as anyone here. You only bring yourself down when you dwell on negative feelings of distrust, jealously, and anger. Let those go.
 
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