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Boyfriend is going away for 7 weeks...!

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Have known each other for about 7 months now i have pretty much moved in with him. Hes going on a course for his new job for two weeks then visiting family for 5 and i dont know how im going to be able to not miss him loads, im so used to just being around him all the time now. I should be able to see him a few times but not as much as id like, I find it hard to be away from him for more than a night! Anything i can do to keep things going strong and to not miss him so much??
 
If you didn't miss him when he is away, you would have to wonder about your relationship. It's normal to pine for your loved one when apart, especially for such a long time.

You can still keep in touch via phone and internet and is there any reason you can't spend time with him and his family?

What do you mean by keeping strong?
 
Well i asked if i can come and visit him and he said thats fine as long as his rents say yes, though i dont think he is too keen on me meeting his family again. And keep strong as in make him miss me lots, not lose interest in eachother and not cheat.
It just feels worse for me i think becuase he knows how to handle himself when away from a his boyfriend
 
hek456 said:
Well i asked if i can come and visit him and he said thats fine as long as his rents say yes, though i dont think he is too keen on me meeting his family again. And keep strong as in make him miss me lots, not lose interest in eachother and not cheat.
It just feels worse for me i think becuase he knows how to handle himself when away from a his boyfriend
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You can't make him miss you lots. If he loves you, he will miss you. If all it takes is a short separation (and 7 weeks is short in the scheme of things) for you to lose interest or to cheat, you have to seriously question your committment to each other.

Good luck.
 
Well he says he doesnt want to cheat and weve been planning on what we're doing over christmas so i dont think hell lose interest! Just not sure how to deal with him being away for 7 weeks, because right now that seems like aaaages
 
Cheating is not something you have to practice how to avoid. You just don't do it. It has nothing to do with being apart or not. It's like saying "we're going to be apart for 7 weeks and I sure hope that neither of us robs a bank.":confused::confused:
 
Partners or spouses share their lives for mutual benefit and joy. They don't babysit one another to stay out of trouble. Afraid of getting horny? Jerk off, IM or skype with him.
 
Spend SOME of the time he's away planning an EXTRA SPECIAL welcome home event... ..|

It'll take your mind off of SOME of the missing him...

And it'll make him feel REALLY GOOD to be HOME again...

:):):)
 
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