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Boyfriend likes suck hard on balls

DanimalX

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Okay, so when we are having sex he likes to suck on my balls when he's blowing me. He likes to suck them really hard and almost chews them. Sometimes it hurts, but he says its supposed ot feel that way. I dont really mind this, but it really feels like he's pulling too hard, and sometimes I find it harder to come after he does this.

My question is, can this cause any harm to my balls? or is this just healthy gay sex?
 
DanimalX said:
He likes to suck them really hard and almost chews them. Sometimes it hurts, but he says its supposed ot feel that way. I dont really mind this, but it really feels like he's pulling too hard, and sometimes I find it harder to come after he does this.

My question is, can this cause any harm to my balls? or is this just healthy gay sex?
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Dani..............

If he says it is supposed to feel that way......well, come on lad.....

You are supposed to GIVE as good as you get. Personally, I learned

the hard way a long long time ago...It isn't always what you say but

no one can argue if its what They do.

..|
 
It doesn't matter what he says. If you don't like it and you don't want him to do that, that's all that should matter. You tell him he's hurting you and you tell him to stop and if he doesn't stop, that's a dealbreaker. If he's not willing to respect your personal boundaries or your pain threshold when it comes to sex, you don't want him in your life. And how many other lines will he cross in the future because he wants to get what he wants and doesn't care about what you want?
 
If he won't listen then when he does, make sure you have a good handful of his hair (hopefully he has hair) and pull, really hard.
 
If it hurts, the body sensor is telling you don't do it.
 
I want to be respectful but I also want to call him an asshole for hurting you. Pain means stop unless someone is into the idea of the pain/pleasure thing. You are not at least when it comes to your balls. I'm thinking he had a bf or sex buddy that liked it.

A little story: I like my balls roughed up; my partner's are really sensitive and require delicate care. My nipples, on the other hand, can't be nibbled while his can be chewed like candy. Go figure?

One thing partners learn is please and respect and apologize when they make an error.

Tell him to learn how to kiss and lick that bag. I hope your feet are near his sack so you can kick him in the nuts to get his attention if he should do it again.
 
A good lover should never be telling you how something is supposed to feel. He/She is supposed to help you find out what feels good.
 
I hope your feet are near his sack so you can kick him in the nuts to get his attention if he should do it again.
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I think that this is a very good answer when one does not respect you, why should you respect him ???
 
I like to suck on balls too and have occasionally, accidentally hurt the other guy. I've also had it done to me accidentally and IT HURTS. No it's not supposed to feel that way. tell him to lighten up and if he truly cares for you he will. if he does it after being told I'd reach over and grab his and give em the biggest squeeze he's ever had. when he jumps off the bed tell him "that's how it was supposed to feel." then Id get up, get dressed and tell him to go fuck himself because he wasn't going to be fucking me any longer.

anyone that doesn't respect you enough to stop hurting you when asked doesn't deserve to have you as a partner. even people that are into pain have boundaries that their partners respect. he doesn't respect you at all. I'd give him one more chance and if he does it again. I'm squeezing lemons.

Steven.
 
Its been my experience that if you should marry them

male or female, the concern is not suck or fucking

anymore...although getting the poor things cut off

could happen. (so far, I've only heard that last part):eek:
 
It's not good if it hurts. We all have different level of pain tolerance. If you don't like the pain, tell him to stop. Don't put up with it any longer.

If he does not stop, follow this advice:
landers said:
If he won't listen then when he does, make sure you have a good handful of his hair (hopefully he has hair) and pull, really hard.
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AWP82 said:
Real balls are a poor substitute for Rocky Mountain oysters
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:rotflmao:
 
If it bothers you, tell him to stop.
 
Hit him upside the head with a plank.

He'll get the message.

I hate it when some guys think that behaving like a vacuum cleaner is supposed to be erotic.

Or chew on his nutz and see if he gets the message.
 
If its hurting you and you don't like it, tell him to stop. Everyone doesn't have the same turn ons and some things hurt people that don't hurt others. If he doesn't respect that, he doesn't deserve to have you.
 
you just pinch his nose and get his attention.

"Bartholomew, that thick stick down there tells you

those are all day suckers not tootsie pops. Shall I

show YOU the difference?
 
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