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Boyfriend Not Responding

Yes, absence makes the heart grow fonder.

If I'm being completely honest, he sounds somewhat like me. I'm not one for texting or phonecalls, even if I have something to say, they just seem impersonal to me.

That being said, I usually don't have a lot to talk about. There are people I live with that I don't talk to as much as it seems some people need.

I'm not saying it's a bad thing to want to talk and keep in touch, but just because other people don't want to always talk back doesn't mean they're not listening... if that makes any sense.


Anyways, I wish you the best of luck in this relationship. ;)
 
josher said:
No offense, but you are clearly a very high maintenance boyfriend.

If I were he, I'd be looking for someone a bit more laid back.

As you get a little older, I hope you learn that making a set of demands to your partner is the worst way to maintain a relationship.

Trying to force someone to text/phone you isn't communication. It's tyranny.
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Yup, to clingy, and pushy. With out relizing you are actully pushing him away with what you are doing.

It seems as if it is all about you. He sounds like he has a heavy, responsible work load and you are adding your demands on top of what he has already. He sounds more dedicated and into his work, which makes him more responsible and he values his jobs.

You need to rethink how you are coming accross to him. Look at it from his side.

And 30mins away is not long distance.
 
Most men can't comprehend so use little words if you want a response -

sit
stand
eat
sleep
shit
sex
sports
roll

I never go wrong when I use those words lol :gogirl: no wonder I am still single!oops!

Give him some space and don't be to clingy, needy and demand to much attention! It's a turn off and you push the guy away. Also top focusing on him and start focusing on yourself if you want things to work out.

Oh and turn the tables and make him want you - ignore him if he calls or sms's you - respond after 3 days or so - live your life!

 
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