boyfriend said he wanted to fist fuck himself AND have me lick his asshole

[Curiosity69]

There's nothing gay about having things up your ass, you can be totally straight and just appreciate the feeling of it (although I don't think it feels that great from any dildos so far, but I know some people do like it)

However it seems pretty extreme to fist fuck yourself...that's a lot up your ass and it just seems a little crazy to me. I wouldn't mind a girl to lick my ass but I'd probably never ask, just let her do it herself if she wants, but this guy seems a little extreme lol.

 

[sexxxivee]

Well, my bf does enjoy prostate stimulation and we do own a dildo or two for that purpose, as well as my fingers/tongue...and he is absolutely pretty much 100% straight - and trust me, if he weren't, i would know, because i've tried a million times to tempt him into getting turned on by a guy lol, given my huge fantasy of being in the middle of some guy on guy action.
I would say two things here: enjoying prostate stimulation and anal play does NOT make you gay, and yes, fist fucking is extreme but I still wouldn't consider it a behavior indicative of same sex attraction. The other thing I want to say is that maybe you should be more concerned with having more open avenues of communication - the fact that you are on a forum worrying whether he is bi due to him wanting to fist fuck and have also mentioned his emphatic, unprompted denial of being gay upon mentioning having naked pics of men on his comp sends up more of a warning flag, not about sexuality per se, but more about your need to sit down and have a conversation with him about sexuality where you can bring up any concerns/questions and explain what him being bi would mean to you and the relationship and give him a chance to honestly address the question...

 

[Curiosity69]

Just a question while we're on girls licking guys asses, are many women actually willing to do this?

I've never had it before but the thing that turns me on more than anything is a woman licking my balls and I've always wanted them to creep down a bit just to see what it feels like, but it's not really something appropriate to ask someone to do.

 

[sexxxivee]

Just a question while we're on girls licking guys asses, are many women actually willing to do this?

I've never had it before but the thing that turns me on more than anything is a woman licking my balls and I've always wanted them to creep down a bit just to see what it feels like, but it's not really something appropriate to ask someone to do.

ah, as far as I know, licking/sucking balls is a relatively normal hetero activity during a blowjob, lol...and if someone is already comfortable with your dick in their mouth, in the interest of great sex, I don't see a problem with telling them you enjoy your balls licked. I really, really believe in open lines of communication during sex so you can tell the person with no pressure what you like.

as far as girls licking, fingering, strapping ass...yes, maybe a little less common but by no means unheard of. if you're with some you are comfortable with you should at least be able to bring something like that up. I had no problem experimenting with that aspect of sex, it's not as if only gay men own a prostate

 

[Curiosity69]

ah, as far as I know, licking/sucking balls is a relatively normal hetero activity during a blowjob, lol...and if someone is already comfortable with your dick in their mouth, in the interest of great sex, I don't see a problem with telling them you enjoy your balls licked. I really, really believe in open lines of communication during sex so you can tell the person with no pressure what you like.

as far as girls licking, fingering, strapping ass...yes, maybe a little less common but by no means unheard of. if you're with some you are comfortable with you should at least be able to bring something like that up. I had no problem experimenting with that aspect of sex, it's not as if only gay men own a prostate

Haha yeah I know ball licking is quite common, I'd definitely ask a girl to do that if her head was down there, was just referring to the ass related stuff.

I wouldn't want a finger in there or any dildos, just licking the outside would be a cool sensation I can imagine. I guess I will have to get comfortable with another woman as my last relationship lasted a year but ended, and then I will see if she will do it.

 

[Krakenbwool]

I'm a girl, and I think it'd be pretty hot if a guy told me to do that (though I'm not so sure about the fist-fucking thing, since fisting just seems kind of painful to me, though I wouldn't know). However, a guy wanting his ass, balls, perineum, etc. licked isn't weird at all, since there are plenty of nerve endings in those places. I love it when guys don't think that their dicks are their only erogenous zones, and I would gladly lick a guy's balls/ass (provided that it's clean beforehand).

 

[2untru]

Honestly, if I found a girl who I liked enough to call my girlfriend and also liked to do all the "gay" stuff to fulfilled my sexual needs, I'd put a ring on it.

But don't sacrifice your personal comfort. If you're willing to try it then build up to it. Otherwise give him a swift "Eh, no."

 

[jizzinmypants]

To the original poster, are you that's what he meant? Was he kidding? The fisting part sounds a little extreme. And why would he want you to lick it after doing that?

On other note, I applaud you for the willingness to lick his ass. I would love for a girl to do that but am not sure if I would ever feel comfortable enough to ask her.