Boyfriend wants to try bareback, best way to have a good experience?

[SteveyBoyLA]

I think you should give the whole bareback thing some more thought.. and make sure your bf knows how serious barebacking means.

If you are going to absolutely do it though.. just make sure he's clean.

^^^ Agree. If you do this, both of you should take HIV and STD tests before even beginning to consider this. I think both of you, particularly your virgin buddy, are way too young (sorry for the lecture) to consider barebacking outside of a long-term committed relationship (even then, you will probably see others that will post that it is never a good idea to bareback in any circumstance - one I agree with).

I further suggest you check out web-sites such as TheBody.com to learn more about the risks of barebacking.

Again, sorry for the wet blanket response, but you can enjoy sex to the fullest as long as you play it safe!

 

[Georgiadude]

first both of you need to be tested for std's and HIV. You need to know absolutely, without a doubt that he is being faithful. Not saying not to do it. I'm saying you need to be careful and think it through. I know you said he was a virgin but there are other ways of catching something other than sex. It's also possible to transmit hepatitis or other diseases as well. I just don't want you to have a life of regrets for a few minutes of pleasure. Until your absolutely 100 percent sure I wouldn't do it.

Steven.

 

[QuinnRider]

You both should be tested first. Evenn if you trust eachother, you should do it just to be safe and have 100% confidence.

 

[Sigma-taylor-E]

Get tested first both of you..

 

[Centexfarmer]

So my bf and I have been going out for a couple of months. The sex has been pretty constant with me being the top; however, I've always worn a condom. This morning, he tells me he would like to try to be fucked bareback. He's 18 and was a virgin before we were seeing each other. I'm 25 and he's my first potential serious boyfriend. I've never tried bareback before, and I feel a bit awkward doing it; I guess it's because of a mix of things, like the possible poop, cumming too early, etc. On the other hand though, I really love to pleasure him and I think it could be something to add to our bedroom repertoire . What are some good ways to prepare for this and make the experience more enjoyable? Thanks!

I'm sorry, more wet blanket time.

I come from a world where I can't even get it up when it comes to my sticking my dick up a guy's ass without a condom.

Trust me.

When a guy is pounding your ass, and he fills up a condom IN YOUR ASS with his "man candy" you can feel it.

That should be enough.

Now your boyfriend is asking you to bareback him.

I think that shows a lot of trust on his part, and a lot more responsibility on yours.

Protect him.

You don't know his defenses.

Surely you've had a "random" somewhere.

Don't expose him to that.

 

[chance1]

hmmm - a lot of negatives above - don't do its - etc.

i definitely agree with all of the testing - need to make sure - 100% sure of all safe

assuming that is the case .......

not sure why barebacking is such a no

IMO it is a much more rewarding experience - physically and emotionally

so yes ....... get tested ........ do all the things necessary to insure safe

but .......... it is better

 

[altlover85]

I like barebacking and find it hard to stay hard when wearing a condom. That said, I don't do anal all that much.

As others have said, you should both get tested, preferably together.

Are you two exclusive? Have you had a conversation where you two both said "I agree to be exclusive"?

 

[rjmrjm21]

So my bf and I have been going out for a couple of months. The sex has been pretty constant with me being the top; however, I've always worn a condom. This morning, he tells me he would like to try to be fucked bareback. He's 18 and was a virgin before we were seeing each other. I'm 25 and he's my first potential serious boyfriend. I've never tried bareback before, and I feel a bit awkward doing it; I guess it's because of a mix of things, like the possible poop, cumming too early, etc. On the other hand though, I really love to pleasure him and I think it could be something to add to our bedroom repertoire . What are some good ways to prepare for this and make the experience more enjoyable? Thanks!

Get tested. Be monogamous and get a good lube like H2o.